^^nope..,. i don't hate Men. I just don't see the big deal with having relationships with them, marrying them, having kids with them.,... do i have to go on. Male friends i don't mind, in fact i find it easier to have male friends than female. They don't offload all their problems on you to carr, complain as much, and they don't expect you to tell all. Short simple answers to complicated questions. And they don't go around the long way to tell you simple things,.. they just give you the short version with out all the drama. So in short i like my male friends, some of them i have known since i was in primary school.

Modesty: I think..... never mind Oh what the hell... I think you need to get out more (i don't mean that negatively by the way) but in reality a lot of women go about their life as women, without trying to be men, without any hassle or getting raped, without male relatives. I personally don't live with any male relatives in the country, and alhumdulilah nothing has happened and inshallah it won't. Billion of women live like this all their life independently and not hurt by their independency. Furthermore I don't see the correlation between abuse, rape and male relatives??? The facts are that even if you do have male relatives they are not your babysitters, they have a life and you have to get your own life... this does not mean putting yourself at risk or acting foolish. In any case the majority of women who are raped or assaulted are previously acquainted with the man. Only Allah can protect you, so put your trust in him and life your life. I find it surprising you talk about western societies and this issue of women, because in Somali women are very 'independent' even in Somalia.

Why not?? it is very common

^^shaking hands there are different views on that. Dabshid: Lie detector. hmmm Easy to pass i hear. Your word will just have to be enough for whoever you end with i guess good luck. Where i live there is two possibility of why they have not: 1) they are as ugly as sin, did not get offers and they did not want to pay. 2) 0.1% Allah protected them, but he hopes to make up for loss time by marrying 4 :rolleyes:

UK you mean for 5years you did not realize he like you; lool You are even more blind than me! As soon as he started showing symptoms you should have sent him packing

Mantra I am glade you came over from the dark side of like these creeps they call men! lool It sounds normal enough to me girl. There is nothing wrong with you, nor do you need to change or get married. Don't feel pressure from your friends. There is nothing that a man or anyone else, can add to your life that you don't already have. But it is up to you but when you make your decision no regrets. I don't want to see you at 40wishing you had married and had kids or something Give it some thought and make a decision. I’ll PM you a collection of my facts and figures to justify my “strange life style” of no “men” CHe Mantra......I think there is Cynic's syndrome going around. Devil and Ibti have already fallen, and you are next. This is just the early stages. lool, thats odd i must have had the cynic's syndrome since i born. I don't remember ever thinking differently Anyway it saved me a lot of trouble and mental abuse from dudes. All i have to do is look around my friends and see where "love" got them :rolleyes:

^^double that cajiib iyo yaab

There's a name for that, it's called L-U-S-T! Man_ there is your answer and the solution provided by mantra (although girl why are you promoting multiple wife's??)

Loool ^^i assumed they were not somali?? Cambro right?? They can't be. She would;ve told him to hit the road surely :??

^^^sheherazade i don't know about the big sign hun (i have yet to see it myself), i'll tell another day as not to hijack Northerners fame Men's 10km Results 1. Mubarak Al Minhali (UAE) 33m:32s 2. Henry Wanyoike (Ken) 33m:34s 3. Joseph Kibunja (Ken) 33m:34s he finined inside one hour only 26 minutes behind the winner (so close) rageedii North hats off sxb Very good marshallah

^^^lool^ damn look what the cat dragged in :rolleyes: Looks like you have not changed since yourchild years, your side kick is around somewhere still. These people are soooooooo scared... in fact they all run away :rolleyes: :cool:

YEAH C lady.. I've been working on that idea since, hence my absence from dossing here:(, still working on it. I'll be calling for you to do your part soon, don't try and run away

COme one mums don't be so sad, you don't need a posh title to reflect the importance of what you do i hope this did not make anyone feel good about their role or something you sado's

I know i was trying not to go off on a rant or try my best to give benefit of the doubt I guess you saw right through it. As i Said i would not put up with such trash... in fact he should not even dare think about such mad things let alone say it. HE is trying to keep his cake and eat it :rolleyes: Don't bother telling her, she would think you want him yourself lool even though you are married. Some girls just need to learn the hard way

^^neither do I? prove it Just kidding but i don't believe any guy that says that. They are just trying to pull a bag over your head :rolleyes: because they know there is no way to prove otherwise :rolleyes:

^^^loool^ i can imagin your face when you read than lool@ segis

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lool. you guys are funny

I don't think he is messing her about too much... just a little. He sounds like he can't make up his mind :rolleyes: i'd throw him to the dogs but she should not let him affect her life. OH sorry you said you wanted guys opinion. :cool: i'm out lool

HE is going to sleep for a whole week then come back and update us Hey sheherazade There is a posh part of Burco... My Mum is from there.

^^YOu know you are JACK ***. I can't stand people like you... Why do you even Exist?? HUH. Nacasnimad baa kaa baata!! What is it with you, why are you so bloody rude... Does it look like she represents her country, has a say over who goes to war and who does not, or even cares for that matter, same way the only thing you have control over in terms of somali is how many times you S*hit! STOP the whole "we" who the hell is with you... you _______low____* Now shut Up and go back to whatever hole you came out of... Iiish. GOD bless SOmalia he says! God will never bless somali while people like you exist and it is in the mess it is in now because of people like you. Analysis and sort your own shi*t out before you can get into another countries foreign policy. Ikhas I don't even know why i am talking to you :rolleyes: Aisha Wlc Pay this stupi*d man no attention. hhhm i feel better. :cool:

Police and anti terror laws. Xaali maan seexan. One of my friend got arrested yesterday. I was so worried for him, his poor family I hate this place, I can't believe I though I like this country :rolleyes: . They have yet to tell us why, they broke the door, tossed the house apart, so rude. So today I’m spending my free time research these *s*t*u*i*p* legislations and how to get help. At times like this I notice how ill prepared we are as a community to defend our rights and our own existence. There are no organizations that aim to help the Somali community deal with legal issues or even social issues although London has the highest somali population in the UK, there are so many Somali families I'm trying to think of what can possible be done. How hard will it be for me to launch an organization (like an e-body) that looks into issues that confronts the community and tries to find ideas/ solutions? Seen as I don’t have money to pay anyone; How likely is it that people will do it like a voluntary on side job, all they have to do is keep their eyes open and use their expertise, give some time and research, and be informed and inform others. In order for that to work… I need to create a e-group communication thing, and down the line a website (or maybe I can ask all Somali websites to allocate us space for a weekly newsletter). Errg…hmm. I just feel like we/ I need to do something. I refuse to believe it is impossible to do something I mean if someone said they are going to kill you 2morrow you don't just sit there and wait for them to come back 2morrow. This is what we as the somali community seem to be doing.

I think he has done something else C lady... henc why he had to wash his mouth

^^hello you:d Zafir Dev, I think is Ibtism is dead right on this one, there is great advantages in being returned unopened (LMAO on the term, you crazy bunch), If ibstism gets returned unopened which I doubt will be the case, she will uniformly enjoy her Ricky-Bobby on earth. But the slightest chance that she doesn't, she escapes all the Ricky-Bobby-ies and Nacho Libre-ies of this world. She in return gets to be caressed and kissed by Xuural-ceyn what could be lovelier than that? While you and C-Lady are caressing and kissing Ricky-Bobby-ies. She will be laughing down at yous. I like him thank zafir. Made my day (but then again, my day is the worse i've had for a long time:()

JAcY: WHy maxad aafka kuu gaali? :rolleyes: :eek: morning ppl