Are the ladies allowed to attend?? P.s. Yaan laagu xiidin, and be good. Enjoy your weekend.

^^^ :cool: 3/8 and you are happy. wow, who said women are demanding and unreasonable! Mashallah.

Loool, Underdog, No faith or trust you say...hmm Anyway I see we are going around in circles, so I will leave you to it. Abdillah no one was mocking daadka Geel raaca or reer miyi, I already said we should not hold the lack of opportunities they have against them. WHy are you so mad, try to understand, we are all on the same side.

@ Geel_Jire: They saw what happened in Kenya and the rest of Africa. Too much focus on Africann elections right now, too much at stake. Uneasy about holding elections. WHo knows?

^^^Honey even if you was not single or looking and such guy existed, waad laa caaririd laaheed, we'd never see you again, let alone your farax lol just kidding

The point is: There's no Pattern or indicator or formula to what it is you are looking for. You CAN NOT do it alone and (to me) you sound like you can not trust some faarax help you thru. so YES, women have the problem/Crisis/epidemic How did this suddenly become about me? Those are not insecurities dear, nor can they be classed as a problem/ crisis/ epidemic, they would seem normal and rational concerns. What exactly can a women not do alone??

He gets an extra year, yaa uu kordhiyay? Himself or was there some sort of process?? SO no elections eh?? This runs the risk of appearing like a little corner shop rather than a state if there was no process followed for his extension of office time. Say good bye to democracy... Well what little of it there was.

Give me control and I shall give you love and everything that comes with it YOu know, how smart of you to change this around, How is it the women with insecurities baal? Also you've said yourself that "there's a vast majority of the male population that cannot hold their end of this promise" Yet is the women with the problems and insecurities.Yaab baadan. It would seem there is a valid reason for not falling off a cliff. Indeed there is no middle ground. :cool: Lol CL: I'm start calling you "Paranoia.com"

Originally posted by cynical lady: Ibti dear projecting a one side attack is not going to help your cause, granted Boris is not your cup of tea as you have well demonstrated but give the man a break at least he doesn’t walk around snitching ideas, policies that’s more that could be said for dear ol Ken……at the end of the day stop focusing on the man/his personality or what he said or did way back when and look at the manifesto. p.s it’s not the politician dear but the machine behind the politician CL it is not a one sided attack, nor do I need to give him a break, the man cannot even manage to be an adequate editor without offending people. How can you say don't focus on him and his personality, what he said or did :confused: ?? that is what people are elected on dear. Also WHo do you think is going to run London if he wins??? I'm sure we'll all have a laugh the first few months, but then what?? As for Ken "snitching ideas, policies" If they are good, I really do not care meeshau uu kakeeno or if he steals them. He is no threat to me, nor will he target me or certain minority communities. P.s.s. Finally Boris is falling behind in the polls. Thank God for that I was getting worried. Although it’s the 1st of May that will count.

Underdog, Lol. YOu are going to judge the sisters perception on CL pluz with them it is out of laziness and worry for the future in line with the original role of a husband: i.e. being the provider. The perception is based on: how and with what will he support me and our kids if he cannot read or write or have the desire to improve his status?? The male perception on educated women cannot be easily explained away like this. Chubacka: WHy are you laughing?? I'm serious, and it makes sense.

Poster Take a year out, you have time and you are are young. Work for a bit, go travelling. By then you should have a better idea of what you want out of life and what path to pursue. P.s. Don't push too much pressure on yourself on what to do. There is no wrong or write answer, just a matter of finding what turns your pages.

^^How do you KNow, what they are aLL like?? Pluz nowdays that is no longer a problem, so many ways of removing hair for good. They all have smooth baby skin now

Someone get ride of this fool :rolleyes: Issh HE is getting worse. The worse thing that can happen to SL is for America to turn up in Berbera.

^^^It may make my life easier, I may be suprised in this life and rewarded in the hear after. Pluz there are really smart people who just never got the opportunity/ chance to go to school. I don't think we should hold that against them. :cool:

HEllo ppl. Beautiful day in London, I cannot believe it was snowing only on sunday. APril weather! :cool:

^^Looool @ way back then. DO I care, you ask CL. Do you really want to know?? Waaxa ee kaa yiriah maaleeh. Faheema, nice hooyo's you meet. Malika and SS; lol, right on. Canno Geel * Shakes fist to borrow Val words* I cannot believe I missed that!

Yes, as long as he can support you and is willing to learn. You can teach him if you have the patience and time or send him to night school. Learning to read and write in one language at least is a must. At least Caaruruta Quaranka haa uu aakhriyo. P.s. HE must not have any complexity about being a househusband. P.s.s. I‘ve met people who think being unable to read and write is something to proud of. :rolleyes:

^^^Lool easy there! You will have to unpack cadaan, that’s too vague I agree

^^^I'm having lots of food and playing Mario I agree work is a necessary evil.

Underdog, I agreed already that educated people does not mean school, indeed there are things you can never learn in school as you mention. And yes I agree there are perceptions about everything, but what suprises me is to the extent in our community. This is because I our community could really do with a postive attitude towards education.

Ibti, education is a wonderful thing but I think the problem is how "we view" it. Some of us have a false sense of superiority attached to being educated. It seems women feel this way more than men. The real problem is that an educated man may be fine with being attached to an uneducated woman. However, an Educated woman sees it as some sort of blasphemy to be associated with an uneducated man. That sounds like a female problem and something those effected by that elitist mind-set should try to remedy. Wouldn't you agree? You've just proved the point of my thread. That there is this perception about women and how they respond to education, or rather how it changes some. Zafir, lol and Faheema someone who has never been inside a school can still be educated, while others who spend years in class rooms can still be *ahem* as Zafir said. ' *Waves*Canno Geel

Loool!^^ Underdog: Why don't you give her one. Faheema, I would agree to a certain extent, but I think their are certain insecurities that emerge. As for the memo, it exist, believe you me. It is in the attitude. e.g. Why could it not be your brother who was going to higher education, or don't stress yourself too much, this won't take you far. etc. I can give tons of examples. Underdog, education changes mind, attitudes and perspectives in life. It will affect your compatibility.

Okay narrow it down to the Somali community. It is a problem. I will tell you a story that happened to me. Some family sponsored dude had the same attitude, apparently they neglected to mention I was still a student. Let’s just say his sponsorship expired pretty fast.

^^^Did I miss something somehow??^ The brother was on his break, he can do as he pleases without making national headlines. P.s. You cannot combin two prayers everyday to fit into your life, every prayer has its time, make your day fit around it.

^^YOu don't have a signature?? :confused: Thanks