^^What are you talking about? Is there a problem with highlighting the knee jerk reactions of some based on speculative media out-puts? What does being from SL have to do with it? You’re choosing to ignore the obvious yet ask for clarity on the same! Aduunyo! ps was there a topic? what was it?

From an email. Get down to your local xawaalad TODAY! Error One: Paying at Eid SalahSome people go to Eid prayers and drop money into thedonation box thinking that they have paid their Zakatul-Fitr. No, Zakat al-Fitr, which is food, must be in thehands of the needy family BEFORE Eid prayer. If someonegoes to Eid prayer and pays then it is GUARANTEED that themoney will NOT arrive on time. And thus the person payingis sinful for having missed the payment of Zakat al-Fitr.May Allah forgive us. Error Two: Snail mailing the money overseasBasic principle as before: the Zakat al-Fitr, food, MUST bein the hands of the needy BEFORE Eid prayer. One cannot mailthe money overseas and have it arrive in the hands of theneedy after Eid prayer is over. However, if one is able to get the Zakah al-Fitr to theneedy overseas BEFORE Eid prayer is conducted in theirlocality, then in sha Allah it’s alright. Error Three: Not payingYes, as simple as this error is, it is HARAM to skip thepayment of Zakat Al-Fitr. EVERYONE must pay Zakat Al-Fitr,every member of the household. So if you have 8 people inyour house, Zakat Al-Fitr must be paid x 8, even if theyoungest member is just a few days old. Error Four: Confusing Zakat ul-Fitr with Zakat ul-MaalWe are talking about Zakat al-Fitr here (think “Iftar”,i.e. Ramadan). Zakat Al-Maal (Maal literally means wealth),is the Zakah due on ones money – and that could be dueany time during the year depending on when it was due. Error Five: Giving money instead of foodAlthough some scholars have allowed giving money instead offood, the spirit of Zakat Al-Fitr is to give food to theneedy of the community, NOT money. The Companion of the Prophet, Abu Sa`eed al-Khudree, radiAllahu 'anhu, said, "In the Prophet's time, we used to giveit (Zakatal-Fitr) as a sa` of food, dried dates, barley,raisins or dried cheese". [bukhari - Arabic/English vol. 2, p. 340, no. 582] Error Six: Giving one’s Zakah al-Fitr to a charitablebuilding projectSome people mistakenly give their Zakah Al-Fitr to acharitable building project: like the building of a Masjid,or Islamic school. There is a difference of opinion on thisissue, but suffice it to say that the spirit of ZakahAl-Fitr is that the needy should have plentiful food onEid. All eight types of recipients of Zakah mentioned inthe Quran are HUMANS, not “building projects”. Error Seven: Giving Zakat ul-Fitr to non-MuslimsCharity is given to both Non-Muslims and Muslims. However,Zakah al-Fitr charity is something exclusive to the MUSLIMpoor and needy. Hence, one could not give Zakah Al-Fitr toany needy person on the street. “Regular” charity canbe given to them, but not Zakah Al-Fitr. Error Eight: Delaying distributionSometimes Masjids might collect Zakah Al-Fitr money andthen put it in a bank. It doesn’t reach the needy formonths and months. The correct method is to give ZakahAl-Fitr immediately when it is due. These are my eight. You are welcome to share other commonerrors on my blog. www.DiscoverULife.com/Blog In sha Allah, if you have Zakah questions, I encourage youto seek counsel from your local sources of knowledge. People you can speak to directly. With best wishes to see you succeed at the highest level!- Muhammad Alshareef

Eid Mubarak ya Muslimiin :cool:

I saw the game and Arsenal got a good lesson

I knew should have eaten more last night and this morning. JB, get well soon.

^^I would carry such quantities of paper under the car seat LoL. No ATMs around. Grab some cash whenever you run into a relative/friend who asks for his/her 'xaq'.

A maid is not a mother, even if the children turn to her first Anees Sultan Last Updated: September 27. 2008 11:34PM UAE / September 27. 2008 7:34PM GMT I was enviously eyeing a Khaleeji couple having a carefree meal at a hotel as I was yet again trying to explain to my son the merits of eating a good breakfast. My envy turned into anger, however, as I saw the couple’s children being fed by two maids at a distant table. Suddenly, the screams and the abandoned stroller in front of our room made sense. Of course… the children slept with their maids while their parents went out partying in the evening. The Gulf has certainly changed. It is no longer man first followed by wife and children; it is man and wife, or mother and mobile, followed by a maid laden down with shopping bags while struggling to look after the children. Many societies lament the break-up of the nuclear family. I was reading an item in a Western newspaper a few days ago that claimed the two poles of contemporary child rearing are neglect and overindulgence. Yet while many families here are guilty of the same, I have not seen such levels of outsourcing of parenthood to compare with those that can be found in the countries of the Gulf. The whole thing becomes a fashion statement, where children are dressed in designer clothing and are chauffeur-driven to buy fast food. Imagine how confusing and frustrating all this must be if you are a child. You wake up to two mothers, one whom you learn to call Mama, but who always yells at the other (let’s call her Roselyn). Roselyn is the one who feeds you and dresses you, and gives you any amount of French fries and candy when you start to yell. When Mama carries you or takes you out with her, it is Roselyn who sits next to you in the car as you go to the mall or to visit grandma. At the mall, it is Roselyn who takes you to the playroom with the other children. The trouble is, Roselyn will leave one day, and you will never see her again. If having an army of helpers at the house shows off wealth, then perhaps more money should be spent on a qualified governess. But again, if a governess is too good with the children, and is young and educated, a possible outcome might be wife-replacement. Regular maids in local homes come from deprived backgrounds, most are illiterate and overworked – not exactly a threat to marital life, and not even close to suitable to raising children. When did the full responsibilities of parenthood become so unfashionable here? I have seen children in Gulf homes turn to their maids and not their mothers when hurt or afraid. If you cannot be bothered with feeding your children, or tucking them up in bed, why have them? There is pain and sacrifice in raising a child, but that is compensated by overwhelming joy when a child talks, walks, learns to ride a bicycle, or even laughs. Children will never receive total and unconditional love from maids. When it really counts, when there is a trade between acquiescing to junk food in exchange for a quiet chat with a friend; or grabbing a few minutes of freedom instead of insisting on good table manners, a child becomes a priority only to his parents. If children grow to respect television and worship games consoles, and their needs are answered by robotic maids – what values do we teach them? In the large cities of our neighbours – such as Cairo or Damascus – I see young boys and girls on the streets helping their parents carry vegetables. They walk to school, or even play in the neighbourhood park. It is not beneath anybody to carry groceries; at least one learns how to pick a good head of lettuce and check the price of bread. Muscles, the otherwise disused body mass surrounded by layers of fat, get used, too. Most importantly, our children need to learn some of the realities of life. You would think that city life toughens children, but the kind of sheltered existence so many lead in the cities of the Gulf never allows them contact with a challenge; they never learn how to be responsible. How many children with dedicated maids make their own beds? Scarier still is the thought of confused identity and lost cultural values. After my irritation in the hotel restaurant, my son was delighted to point out similar scenes as we walked around the shopping malls. We saw so many that I decided to buy a digital camera so that I could capture some of the worst incidences, and maybe even put them on show at some stage. Like it or not, my son will learn his table manners from me. Anees Sultan is a writer and businessman based in Oman http://www.thenational.ae/article/20080927/OPINION/237111918/1080

So you've gone from mere speculation to initial sketches of a whole movie! I'm impressed. As for Dukey, you could learn a thing or two from Mr Propoganda himself A word of advice would be to remain objective until FACTS are presented.

^^They won the last election and should be in power already. Short memory?

We played well but that referee is the worst and he gets all the big games for some reason. Ng will still complain though.

^^As usual and just like Dukey you only offer peanuts. Waxa ka sii daran you're making things up as you go along in true Fox News style. But do tell what 'probable cause' is

^0-2 to LFC and Torres is on a hat-trick!

JB, UDUB are using you guys baryahan I will start writing my own pieces about UDUB and post them here Maybe when its nearer the elections,,,,

^^We're still waiting for your piece on why you think the TFG is good for Somalia (par the obvious).

I see Lazy has taken on Duke's baton for the night Here is the article. Its all speculation at the moment and no charges have been made. LG, too much Fox News? You seem to have mastered the art of misinformation ala Dukey boy. COLOGNE, Germany — Armed German police boarded a plane minutes before takeoff Friday and arrested a pair of ethnic Somalis who they say wrote a suicide note proclaiming their desire to fight in a holy war and die in a terrorist attack. A 23-year-old Somali and a 24-year-old German born in Somalia were removed from KLM Flight 1084 to Amsterdam after the early morning raid at Cologne-Bonn Airport, police said. Authorities said they did not think the men planned to hijack the plane. An airport spokesman said the pair were unarmed. German media, citing unidentified security sources, widely reported that their final destination was Pakistan, likely a terrorist training camp in the border region with Afghanistan. Neither police nor the Federal Criminal Office, the German equivalent of the FBI, would confirm the destination. Germany has been threatened with terrorist attacks by radical Islamic groups _ largely because of its contingent of troops serving with NATO in Afghanistan _ but none have succeeded. Germany was still in the "crosshairs of terrorism," Interior Ministry spokeswoman Daniela-Alexandra Pietsch said, but there are no indications any specific attacks are planned. Despite Friday's arrests, the threat level in Germany did not change. German media identified the 24-year-old as Omar D. and the other man as Abdirazak B.; authorities would not confirm the names. The German newspaper Bild reported the men had been under observation for months. KLM said they were booked to fly to Uganda from Amsterdam. The Fokker 50 turboprop was at the point of departure when police grabbed the suspects, KLM said.

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Encouraging her? How?

^You've left an open goal but I won't

^^You should have offered suxur

^Hear hear,,,I also hear he is from your little tuulo in the Hawd

^^any offers??

Odayaasha iska daaya!

Another big game tomorrow at Goodison Park. Keane to brake his duck?

^^We are fine alxamdullilah. Sounds like your bros friends need a bit of courtesy 101. 2am in mid week?

Afternoon Ibti.