Are you and child, both Somali? It is not good to assume, but I assume you are not...Of course no offense intended... In any case, it all depends on how long this child has been under your care...If it is just recently, I am sure he'll come around...May be he's not used to having such family rules; therefore, is having hard time adjusting to your family rules... I don't know the reason he was put in foster home, but you should make an effort to find out the type of family he came from...What rules they had, if any, to understand what he needs, or why he's acting in a certain way to certain rules...May be he didn't have any rules at all...Who knows... I was just checking your web site and looks like this child was placed under your care so he could study, again I am just assuming...If this is the case, then of course you'll have problems with this child...After all, he's being expose to a new country, culture, language, and people...He just needs some time to adjust... As for you, as long as you think/believe this child is selfish , you'll never come to understand him or his needs...You as the foster parent have to do everything possible in making this child comfortable... QaxootiMammi, very well said...Do I sense a little Dr Phil in you? lol...

Are you and child, both Somali? It is not good to assume, but I assume you are not...Of course no offense intended... In any case, it all depends on how long this child has been under your care...If it is just recently, I am sure he'll come around...May be he's not used to having such family rules; therefore, is having hard time adjusting to your family rules... I don't know the reason he was put in foster home, but you should make an effort to find out the type of family he came from...What rules they had, if any, to understand what he needs, or why he's acting in a certain way to certain rules...May be he didn't have any rules at all...Who knows... I was just checking your web site and looks like this child was placed under your care so he could study, again I am just assuming...If this is the case, then of course you'll have problems with this child...After all, he's being expose to a new country, culture, language, and people...He just needs some time to adjust... As for you, as long as you think/believe this child is selfish , you'll never come to understand him or his needs...You as the foster parent have to do everything possible in making this child comfortable... QaxootiMammi, very well said...Do I sense a little Dr Phil in you? lol...

Brown_Suga, thnx girl, you know you're definately one of my fav ppl here... Ok here's the list: -Malaika -Rock's_Chick (I haven't seen her lately though, may be she's going through a rough divorce with the ROCK, looool) -LibaaxSankataabte -MobbDeep -MaskiinMacruuf -Ameenah, though I don't like her new AVATAR (Scary) and how could I forget OG_MOTI there are others, but thi list will go on and on and on and on and on...

Of course the one and only Kool_Kat...

How come 5ppl replied to this topic? How come I AM repling to such a topic? How come I can't think of anything else? How come I keep on typing? How come I can't stop typing? How come I can't control my fingers to reply? How come I so bored I keep repeating the same question in diff way? How come not?

LST, Darman and others who say OG_Moti is only joking...If this is a joke, then I sure as hell don't want to see when he is serious... Wiilka wuuba oyn rabee...Wah... OG, I am glad you got your name back...Admin, make sure this doesn't happen to OG again, cuz I don't want to see him like that again...Once is enough...looooool

Layzie, I must say I agree with you this time... OG_MOTI, Allah maxaa isu bogtay!!!Women are against you, ohhh puhlease, spare me the pain of laughter...Feerahaa i xanuunay...Walaahay you are trying so hard to be funny... Somali waxey horay u tiri "qoysatayee, yaa kuu xiiraayo?"... Ee waanba yaabee, wiilka amuu u oyaa seeba magaceyga ugu soo galiwaayey...Ee waxaan amuu umaleeyaa wax run eh...Yaaqa yaa iga qabto qofkaan...War waxaan waa Internet...Take it easy... I hope you stop this PARANOIA!!! And I suggest you take Layzie's advise, and do better things with you time, than spending it complaining ans wining...

ahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...Kixkixkixkixkixkixkixkix...dhiqdhiqdhiqdhiqdhiq... Halka kuu dhuuso urbadan...Ufeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey...

Ameenah, you can sing solo for as long as you want...As a married woman, I will neva advice a woman to sit at home and give up all of her dreams, regardless...If that's the case, then I don't mind joining y'all on the singles line again... I hate any man who thinks a woman's position is at home, specially in this century...Why the hell did I go to school for 13yrs, and 3yrs college, owe $20,000 the government for studying, and be some man's slave, or howeva y'all want to put it...No way, No how, See ya... Ameenah, if I am wrong for believing that, then so be it...But I rather be single for the rest of my life, than to be the wife Shyhem explained in his post... That's my KUMI IYO TAANO...

Darman, Darman, Darman!!! As I was reading your post, I was almost sure my name would make it to the top three...NOT!!! Laakiin wax iswaydiin maxumee, maxaa indhaha iiga daalisay...War heedhe, dheeraa waxaad qortay...Dhagaha aan kuu sii siibtay, shaatiga gacmah aan kuu sii laabtay, dagaal aanba diyaar u ahaa...Laakiin waad iga reysay... I luv you too...

I guess I was feeling like a cool cat...But you know, you neva know when a cat might strike and loose her cool...MEOW MEOW, sambab anyone...

Hellllllllllllll NO!!! NO NO AND MUCH MUCH MORE NO'S!!! I can hardly ever keep up with local relationships, let alone long distance...Neva had a long distace relationship, but there was a time when he was away for a while...And boy, was that eva the hardest time of the relationship... I want him there and available for me, wheneva I need him...No matter the time, day or night...And I don't see how that's possible if he is not in the same city as I am... That's my KUMI IYO TAANO!!! PS...I don't think I've seen your posts b4, so WLC to SOL...Are you by any chance related to ED SILVERMAN from CITY TV...lol

Real Name!!! I don't think so...Why should anyone disclose their real name here? But here's my nick. Look_Tak, foolxumo badanaa...Balanbalayeey!!!

Naa Ameenaay, maxaa kugu dhagay...Soo tanba cutadii yoo qabowday iikeentay...Waxaan sugabo, mahadaad keentay... Thnx, girl...I feel full...Naa wuxu macaanaayaa...

ahh, what was the question again about Chine? Hold on let me get my text book...

Family=Problem

Warbal iga leexo, dheeraa Article ka? Yaa, indhihii aaba idaalay... Housewife!!! Do you know what year or century we're in??? GOODNESS!!! I think the "MEN" need to wake up and smell the coffee...Obviously, they over slep for a couple of yrs or should I say a couple of decates... Scorbion_Sista, I agree with you...If that's the type of wife they want...Women might be better off being on the singles shelf for the rest of their lives...lol

Brown_Suga, was that a joke? Cuz I sure ain't laughing...SARS CITY, opps Tdot...War hooy Toronto maa la'iska dhaafo...Faraha naga qaada...

Brown_Suga, was that a joke? Cuz I sure ain't laughing...SARS CITY, opps Tdot...War hooy Toronto maa la'iska dhaafo...Faraha naga qaada...

Brown_Suga, was that a joke? Cuz I sure ain't laughing...SARS CITY, opps Tdot...War hooy Toronto maa la'iska dhaafo...Faraha naga qaada...

Brown_Suga, was that a joke? Cuz I sure ain't laughing...SARS CITY, opps Tdot...War hooy Toronto maa la'iska dhaafo...Faraha naga qaada...

White, sorry to hear that she won't convert...But in a way I am really glad, as I like for every Somali to experience life with a Somali Queen/King...I am sure there alot of Somali girls in Ottawa...Come on now...

White, sorry to hear that she won't convert...But in a way I am really glad, as I like for every Somali to experience life with a Somali Queen/King...I am sure there alot of Somali girls in Ottawa...Come on now...

White, sorry to hear that she won't convert...But in a way I am really glad, as I like for every Somali to experience life with a Somali Queen/King...I am sure there alot of Somali girls in Ottawa...Come on now...

White, sorry to hear that she won't convert...But in a way I am really glad, as I like for every Somali to experience life with a Somali Queen/King...I am sure there alot of Somali girls in Ottawa...Come on now...