the topics are all good but these are on top of my list... 1. Infidelity, how rampant is it in the Somali Migrant Community? 2. The Conflict resolution of two Saxiix hadeeth 3. Wear your Seat belt, A proof from a hadeeth 4. Older women, younger men, a terrific match!

somali chick...sis i see what ur trying to say but you got it all wrong. this is not am right and ur wrong thing here so dont get offended when i tell u that. so are u telling us that wearing kohl or eye liner which the prophet used to wear is haram. please dont jump to the barrel and label everything as either haram or halal. all the things you mentioned in the hadith is not haram in of itself. when combined with other things it becomes haram such as wearing perfume in the presence of men who are not ur mehram.

Originally posted by Gediid: quote:Originally posted by Athena: ^^ U seem to think Somali ladies cant cook either, WHO EXACTLY can cook in ur humble opinion Gediid? Pakistanis? U a curry boy? Just the thought of curry gets my taste buds rolling Athena.....I would pay a thousand camels for a Mali women who can mix that sh!t as good as any Paki... would i be wrong to say that u smell like curry 2....yuck!.. those ppl just kill the food...everything smells like curry...tastes like curry...even the freaking milk instead of adding some sugar they add u some curry........damn :rolleyes:

Originally posted by somali_chick: i'm sorry but i seemed to be missing something here, i was taught putting on make-up on was haram!!!!!! HARAM, HARAM, HARAM!!!!!! tsk tsk tsk where on earth did u get that from?

My thoughts exactly...i have just about given up on jeans....i swear they were made for a white girls *** ...either they fit ur bootybut they dont fit ur waist or vice versa...so ur forced for the rest of the day pulling ur jeans up...and just imagine trying to do that with an abaaya on top...ooh what fun!!! U would think that these african americans who have been here for ages could come up with a clothing line that is tailored to an african figure...instead they are all trying to copy Gucci and Valentino with a touch of ghettoness I dont know if its true but I heard that tight jeans puts pressure on to ur uterus, damaging it in the long run...thus lowering ur chances of conceiving or caring to term....wondering if anyone heard that as well and if there is any truth to it?... D&D...dont cut those super long jeans...instead fold it up and wear with boots...SUPER sexy! :cool: Edil and D&D...I too was in the same boat...try to reduce the stress in ur life and in time u'll sleep better...which is impossible to do if ur in school....for some reason this always happens to me be in the winter season...and to top it off sometimes my heart beats really fast for a few seconds....causing me to notice....am thinking theyr linked... I dont have time to see my doc....so any doc in the house?..be it female or male... One thing that is sure to work is to skip town go to a place where there is no worries (at least for u).....and sleep to ur hearts content...worked for me Check this site out. http://www.4woman.gov/faq/insomnia.htm Hibo...lighten up sis....since the guys want to be up in our place....i say let them have their say only if they have anything useful to add...say hmm....what color of eye shadow to wear with a pink hijab... abaaayo..I find myself wearing black and blue most of the time cuz its winter and all...my only concern is not wearing clothes that wont protect me in this harsh winter.... Am really feeling the turkish style of wearing hijab...masha allah those sisters wear hijab with such elegance check out this online clothing store... http://www.shukronline.com/

that was by far the funniest piece i read in a long time....had me crying though i dont speak swahili...wondering if u can translate these for me... 1. wife amekufanyia kazi, eh? Mtoto wa Soil, usijali 2. Kwa nini kukubali kupigwa pigwa na wife namna hiyo na mabibi wako wengi? Whisi, marry another daughter of the soil." 3"Hakuna kitu kibaya kama kukaliwa na wife. Just ask Whispers. He is the living evidence of that kind of situation Ni sinema kamili ya matatizo ya nyumbani ukiwa na bibi kali." 4., Ogopa bibi kama sitima.

Originally posted by Gediid: [/qb] Damn I must be old fashioned cuz I still truly enjoy Omer Duule's Gacmahaaga Xaade leh markaan soo xasuustaba xanxantoodayey...... [/QB] lolol...gediiid...u said it....for some reason older men seem to enjoy it( so i have been told).....i dont think it the same for younger men who have been raised in these countries.... naftaa.....borrow it!...girl dont let me report u to L'Oreal.... Does anybody put on a concealer...and what make-up products do u use, blusher, powder, lipstick, lipgloss, eye make-up?? i wouldnt recommand concealer,blush, powder in the day time...its too obvious....and if ur a regular user...u might want to cut down...its really bad for ur skin....cuz ur skin needs to breath....maybe on specials nights...like weddings...i dont know about u but have u noticed how every girl looks soo different in weddings..... i happen to love mascara ..cant go without it..... hibo fabulous (ur name goes soo well wiht it... soo..why not...reminds of the bachelor..there was this girl who they used to call tina fabulous)....anyways since ur in the motherland of islamic fashion why not give us some tips?

thanxs walaalo...i was growing sick and tired of all that 2.. mis_Nasima...said something about steaming ur face and body....really a miracle worker...its like detoxifying ur body...something we all overlook.....check out a book store for books on detox...in the mind and body section.....mind u i havnt read mine yet.. :cool: nafta...gota say am loving ur trade mark... (cuz i'm worth it ) One question girls...waxing or shaving? depends on ur skin type...if u have sensitive skin...stay away....if not its really great...cuz it takes 4 weeks or more for the hair to grow back....and unless ur a pro dont try making wax at home unless u wana burn urself.. :mad: ...i had the unfortunate experience of doing soo... one other thing u should try is bleaching ur hair....as long as it goes in tune with ur skin color.....u dont want it to be obvious....its takes about 3 months before ur hair color returns to its original color.... those sisters who are allergic to eye makeup such as mascara and kohl...cuzing ur eyes to get blood red...try vasine eye drops...before u apply ur mascara and within minutes ur eyes should become clear....dont over use it though for relaxation....walking...even in this freezing weather...just dress real warm....and u'll be fine... fashion...dont even...damn :mad: ...most of the shit that is shown on fashion shows is unislamic to be worn outside...so i dont even bother......<----leaves this section for jannah insha allah....

Day 751: My captors continue to torment me with bizarre dangling objects. They eat lavish meals in my presence while I am forced to subsist on dry cereal. The only thing that keeps me going is the hope of eventual escape -- that, and the satisfaction I get from occasionally ruining some piece of their furniture. I fear I may be going insane. Yesterday, I ate a houseplant. Tomorrow I may eat another.

u guys are jokes!!!!! moral of the story....Stick to one...that is enough headache to last u a life time...

qac qac... walaalo there is notin ceeeb about learning however easy it may seem...the sister was just trying to make a point....i agree we should have some sort of foundation in place before we can move on with other things....with that...my q is.. " what is the meaning of shirk and can u list the different types of shirt that exist" sorry bahjaali...dont know the answer to ur q....

..hehehehehehehe is not that women dont talk about it...its just that maybe they u think ur a too young to hear it...besides living in these countries i am sure u know more than u need to know....and when the time comes for u to learn am sure ur mom will tell u about it...so chill out...

lol..sweety..i think u have seen only one side of somali marriages....marka please dont generalize and assume all somali men are the same.....no women likes to be called naya...and she who accepts her husband to call her by that name is not his flaut....but HERs....demand to be treated with respect if that is what ur looking for.... i seen couples who have been married for ages and still use sweet words to call each other..

Originally posted by Lakkad: I dont mind women drivers...WHY IF ONE MIGHT ASK?... I need insurance MONEY...i have to get paid,Holla Lololo ...u must be one of those that show up to those rehab centers with the fake accident reports wanting to get a free massage.... or.. are u one of those that gets called for help when a person u know just got in a car accident and u reply by " walaahi!...yoo dont call the police yet and save me a sit...am coming!"..

Originally posted by Yasmine: ... 'they're too old-fashioned', 'too domineering', 'too lazy around the house', 'too ugly', etc. One particular sista told me she's rather marry an Arab or White convert, saying "think of how beautiful the kids will be i can relate to what ur saying sis...cuz some of my friends fall in to that group....and oh how they wish they can turn back the time...they all married for the above reasons and are all suffering... with myself....i could never imagine being married to a non-somali...simply cuz i refuse to say to him " maxaa masha lataagantaheey.. cunto iso gur nooh"...and have him not understand....and not to mention having to translate 24/7..7 days a week...365 days a year...for the rest of my life...oh god :mad: ..how depressing!

practice makes perfect...practice infront of ur friends, family, mirror...the more the better and one thing i have learned about eye contact is to look right btw the eyes...so that ppl actually think ur looking but ur not....takes the pressure off .....come before everyone to class and stand there ( kinda like owing the stage) and greet everyone as they come in so that when its finally ur turn to present u wont feel soo out of place.... works for me...anyways good luck..

Ameenah: What if the Corrupted leaders were replaced by Islamic leaders - and by that I mean ppl who truely follow the Quraan and Sunnah? Opinionated. I cant seem to see the picture u portrayed in this statement Are you saying that there is NO possible way that an Islamic leaders can be corrupt? When it comes to politics, EVERYONE has their own agendas. care to explain how that statement could be true...but seemingly contradictive... i dont understand how is a person who follows the quran and sunnah have their own agenda other then for the betterment of mankind....take for example the prophet saw..i dont know about u but his sole agenda was to please his lord..thus for the betterment of mankind.... dont let these modern politicians make u into thinking that a leader how follows islam whole heartily can have his own agenda....

:eek: oooooh my virgin eyes!!! that is some nasty shyte!!!how did u get the decency to post it...

sorry couldnt make it....but wondering if u guys met?

ISLAM the solution to the Somali Crises? islam has always been the solution to any crises...but question is who wants to take the road less traveled? do i see a show of hands? i dont think it would do us any good to say who is/was wrong, and who is to blame...that would just set us back to square one.....leave the past in the past... How can we improve the dilemma that has caused us pain and suffering? What does Somalia need to be a peaceful country again? What stigma or element should be left out in the process of reconstruction? Individually, what can you contribute? now that is some questions to ponder over... personally i think we should first start with ourselves and move down the road...possibly move back home ....any good cause will do...such as teaching,parenting the orphans,contributing ur money to build hospitals, etc etc....whats better than putting to good use the skills u have learned here with ur own ppl back home...

lovin everyones preception of why the chicken crossed the road....

mm.. lol....iron chef...looking forward to seeing u on the food network channel now as for my recipes...we gona be cooking chicken with cream sauce...best eaten with malawax inderg: 1. chicken breast 3 pieces 2. 3 spoons of olive oil 3. one medium size onion diced 4. 3 garlic smashed 5. 1 spoon of parsley diced 6. condensed milk cream 7. season with black pepper and salt only!...no curry shit 7. 1 cup of cabbage sliced 8. half of a pepper...to have color...try green,red,yellow pepper 8. cup of spinach sliced -first boil chicken for 20 minutes...after remove the chicken and place it on a plate...make sure its not dripping with water - pour the oil on a medium heat frying pan..when the oil gets little hot...add the onions, garlic, parsley...season it with black pepper and salt to ur taste..cook for 3 minutes.....cover the pan - at low heat add the chicken, spinach, cabbage, pepper, ..cook for 10 minutes... - add the milk ...cook for 15 minutes or less...till it all becomes thick..... remember...no water!

lol...notin worst than ur own ppl ripping u off... i once had this somali guy come up to be in a mall(albion...stay away from that mall) and he watched as i when to the bank to withdraw some money.....as soon as i steped out he came up to me and said abaayo my family and i just moved from quebec and we run out of money and have no place to go....i have a little baby girl....so can u please spare me $20...... i felt sorry for him and gave him $30 instead and even gave him a number to the local masjid so he can go to get some more help... i go back to mall a month or 2 later to find him asking me again for money......he didnt recognize me and tried to pull the same shit on me again....i was like what!....u freaking liar!...do i look ****** to u?..... he still didnt recognize me.....and said what!....my family is hungry and i need the money...how can u be soo mean to ur own kind? lolol...i was laughing as hell...then i told him how he tried to pull his crap on me again....u should have seen him....lolol...he when running like a mad man...lolol....

u guys would be surprised that kinda bad things avialable back home....to list a few 1. booze 2. adult tapes. :eek: ..yes..i cant believe either 3. latest movies and shows translated in somali......can u imagine watching friends translated somali ......that is must see .. 4. niqabi prostitutes....its sad to hide behind the protection of Allah and at the same time commit such a horrid act.. one of the main problem lies as our sister hibo stated in another thread...the deportation of criminals to somalia and rebellious teenagers....i dont understand how can u love ur land so much that u would send such ppl back to home to farther corrupt the society.

Originally posted by Northerner: uninformed judgements if am so uninformed how is is that u failed to inform me. cat caught ur tonque or does that come natural?