Salamz! hahaha, Ballerz!what an advise!!!lol, shame on ya man, is that the advise u'd give ya real sista if she was in the same sitouation??? NAAAAAA I doubt it bro Sista I would say, just try n be at the same places as him, n if he notices u then he will surely do his job as a man n if not then he is prabubly diggin some where else :rolleyes: I dont know maybe u'd prefer 2 talk 2 him strightly, but I wouldn do it, 4 me its obvious if a bro is having his eyes on me or not just right after the first time I c him,the second time will only be a confirmation :cool: If u see the bro a couple of times and there r no eye contacts then i would say change the direction sis, but what ever u do I wish u very good luck sweetie

ha ha aha aha aha aha aha aha aha ha aha aha aha YYEEAAH RIGHT!!!!! Man, if u loughed bout that then somebody better send an inspector 2 c whats under ya own bed man!!! ,coz loughing was definetlly the wrong action at the wrong time and place! peace!

Salamz! Its a very hard sitouation subhana Allah! But I have mentioned in adifferent place that kids r Rizq from Allah swt and it is only him that can give em 2 ya or take em away from ya. So for me its not about would i do anything 2 get kids or not its rather about taking all the ways that are islamically correct which r not dissaggreing with the laws of the holey Quraan and the pure Sunnah of the prophet asw. So I would not say I would deffinetley take all the ways 2 have a kid coz 2 the end of the days they are from Allah and he is the one who gives em and He swt showed us the ways 2 take wich he accepts, so if there are ways that are going against His laws then offcourse we should not try it coz then it will be like trying to take that Allah did not give ya from by Him self by compulsion wich will offcourse not work subhana Allah! So i would say take all the ways that are permissable in islam and make a lot of dua'as to Allah and pray a lot and beleive in the qaddar and put ya trust in Allah coz its only him that can help u in this issue not the docs or the medecine and if its meant for u 2 have those kids then they will come insha Allah if not then they wont even if u use all the medecine on the face of the earth or use the higest and latest technology in the world! And if u dont get any kids after all and everything then there is a reason for it that is unvieald for u and that only Allah swt knows about it and hase a wisdom behind it!

Salamz 2 every 1! This is not a simple issue or just a normal by passing q, coz it obviously happened several time and i have ben intouch with it my self, but the issue is not about agreeying 2 share husbands or not its an issue about friends inbetween! If a sista asks u 2 marry her husband that she loves a lot and can not be without then its obviuosly not coz she loves ya or coz she wants ya best its for her own best or use! Coz the matter of sharing husbands is nothing simple coz its not like sharing a cup of tea or a pair of shoes, the sista is at that point being selfish and puting her own best and hapiness infront of yours wich is not an action that comes from a best friend so at this point u can not call the sista ya best friend coz she is obviously not. Secondly no matter how much you guys love eachother then no way this feelings and respect inbetween ya will remain. Thirdly kids are rizq from Allah swt and if its in Allahs will then he will give her if not then he wont even if u get married 2 her hubby or not. The poligamy issue is a part of our honered religion and a true beliving muslim should't deny it, but that doesnt mean that u use ya friends 2 impliment it for ya own intrests. Then there r some ppl that does't have anything about being a second wife or even 3rd or 4th but that is beliving in poligamy and accepting living in it and choosing it wich is different from being a second wife 2 only produce babies 4 some 1, and that is not doing a favuore 4 a girlfriend thats ruing ya relationship 2 ya girlfriend and the respect u got 4 her husband! wassalamz dearz!