Ibtisam

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  1. You are somewhat normal (like everyone else) but seem needy or approval seeker. Needy people are extremely annoying, taxing and suck all the energy out of their friends with their neediness. They will get you in the end and you will join them- simple because of your need to be accepted. IF you are still under 19 years of age- then the above need not apply YET.
  2. Aaliya, the photo Marksmen used has become some what of a simple of what Somali women use to be before and dispite her best efforts, it has gone viral and too famous for her to be able to get it removed. As for underdogs photo- the model her photo is everywhere. Laakin the three girls, for one we dont even know for sure hadey Somali yihiin and even if they are, it I doubt they would want their photos blasted on forums. But then again there really is no privacy online- so when any sane person posts pictures somewhere online, they know they run the risk of it becoming public, so post only that you want to haunt you into your old age when perhaps you have even changed. The responsibility goes both ways. Some members on this forum have made a habit of posting pictures of young women- actively search them out to post them just for their own insults and twisted pleasure. That is a problem.
  3. Lol and I was complaining earlier about it is chilly Err I take back my minor complaints Loool Juxa- ila so hadal, ha is so garaaciin. Ama in your language ii so wac.
  4. Hey Juxa- we had the flu around the same time- I was hiding and trolling on here. Are you feeling better- Aniga it is still lingering laakin I cant justify staying in bed anymore.
  5. Marjsmen photo- One of those ladies now wears a jilbaba in London.
  6. Hello Ngonge, lol just getting ready to do some work, but Im avoiding it, so I am here trolling. Hey Nuune. Waalidad baad waada
  7. Howdy people and SalamAlikum, Jumca wanagsan.
  8. Must be a guy thing. I still live in the days the doors remind open with endless streams of people coming and going. Abu lol lol fb is the new evil miya.
  9. Haatu, thank you, please tell these Arabfied guys with the suspicious mind. P.s. But I have seen divorce resulting in very harmless and meaningless situations like her cousin came to see her in the house. Waali, I dont know what this world is coming to.
  10. Haatu, thank you, please tell these Arabfied guys with the suspicious mind. P.s. But I have seen divorce resulting in very harmless and meaningless situations like her cousin came to see her in the house. Waali, I dont know what this world is coming to.
  11. Their friend maba jooga. What you are basically saying is that old men can be trusted to stay around your family but your young friend cannot be. NOW that is ceeb. Wax lala saxibo maa tihiid- We will agree to disagree. I think waxaan wa overrated and it comes down to basic trust. Abu- in the Somali context they are hardly going to be alone sitting in a house- there are always at least 5 other running around- kids, relatives, friends, parents etc. Maybe he gets on with his friend wife- most Somalis have tons to discuss
  12. North: HOW is it different?- they were his friends, not waiting for him but just hanging around his house, eating food and chatting. At least this one has an excuse- waiting for his friend. Or are you saying when you are OLD, it will be okay? I think you are being unreasonable- all those years hanging around Arabs and Hollywood has influenced you. :D I guess it is pointless to ask IF she can have HER friends (male) over unless you are sitting there with a stick P.s. I am well aware the religious ruling.
  13. North and Apo: Really I am surprised. I think Somalis generally do not have any boundaries- particularly compared to the Arabs in gender relations. I find the none suspicious, laid back trust nature of Somalis wonderful. It always means there are no awkwardness or formalities in gender relations (unless it is politics or business). I think it undermines people that people are automatically suspicious and wicked about gender relations. Of course already there are lots of stories about affairs and nin naag lagal baxey by his friend so I expect this traditional open boards changing. Growing up, we always had people round the house, all my uncle seamen friends use to chill at the house even when my uncle was out of country and travelling. Many of them did not have families and my edo use to cook them food and endless tea I was forced to make.
  14. ^Lol so true. Ngonge- eer are you in the habit of visiting Married none Somali women and none married Somali women at home? All that aside and in any case you can visit her as a group or with your wife. I think the Arab in you is creepy. Somalis have no such problems- meeli walba wey iska taagan.
  15. NGonge she is at home fighting the evil flu. Why have you guys not visited her to cheer her up instead anigu Hargeisa ca heesaya ii weydineysaan?? some friends!! Sayid how you doing. All is well alhumdulilah.
  16. HEllo and SalamAlikum. Alhumdulilah. Life is always so strange! Haye what is new people?
  17. Ibtisam

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    Salahudin, then you have two options- stop working such long days, get a better job which you are comfortable in AND feed yourself. That is why you have two good hands and feet. Failing all that, get a maid- that would allow clean windows AND hot meal which you can demand, haadi kale kitchaad dhicaaga ka gal. Aaaliya :D lol Shinning windows, floors, fresh and clean but no food- bal ka sheeke. I told intaan ii shaqeysa the other day, cook less and clean more, even if it means missing out certain meals to make more time for cleaning.
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    Lol lol waali and nus, Im speechless. lol Aaaliya Canjeelo for lunch? I thought it was a breakfast thing> I hate the fact it is messy and all the walwalaaq and dacdac puts me off eating it let alone making it- lol Lol Che- will look for her, Haatu- it improved- can you imagine that! lol When ever I intend to cook, I end up cleaning for hours, outside windows, garden, windows, anything to avoid cooking., Cleaning I dont mind laakin. Fresh smell and clean.
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    Lol Che. That is the truth. For as long as I am working and earning, I expect to be fed! If and when I ever become a house wife, he will be eating take away food from plates, of course he will never know it is take away- aniga aya kareiye baan oodhan Lol : ugly people marry foreigners- then why baad uga dhaba caabadii!
  20. Ibtisam

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    I was thinking I dont even have the excuse for winter! lol unlucky I am. Thanks. ' loooool @ Che. Aaliya, we was upset I refused to live in India and hated it for the few months we were there laakin he got over it. Che, he speaks my Somali, did you expect me to teach him aaf xamari!? lol I dont cook, for him or anyone else.
  21. I feel evil, kept laughing at how the people were diving!!! that is awful!!! lol
  22. Ibtisam

    Wearing white

    Aaliya when elephants fight, it is the grass that suffers- peace makers always get caught in the middle, from now on, dhiance ka raaca, aniga baa haada waa la ii so socoda, and I wont have time to reply after I recovery from my flu and stop wasting time back to work. yiiiks.
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    Oba waa ciidaad uu ham iyo dig leedhey caawaba, geeeed lost
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    lol lol Aaliya I meant way back in this thread while you was defending people right to choice and generalisations and dadko dhaan ka hoor safteen- in the context of what I said to Oba. NOT the maahmaa! lol lol jokes! lol. Thanks for the correction Nuune we dont speak Jiin speech aniga iya Aaliya. How do the Jins say it>
  25. hehehe loool. Awliyo indeed! hehe but you are a jiin awliyo, as suppose to a human one! Wlc back