^^Erm did you tell him you googled him lol I guess not. Poor pokeman, I will leave it at that. Haye he is already going semi ga-ga miyi. You can tell us when it is all over and you get bored and we'll have a laugh Lol Can you get T-mobile to block calls from certain number? That would be great. I do feel sorry for her though, it is really sad that she has reduced herself to this.

I should've known you guys would laugh! Shiid. Sheh, I don't know who this dude is, as she won't say his name. I doubt I even know him. Chubacka it makes my skin crawl when I see women crying/ running after Farah, I get the urge to cure them, but if I don't see improvement then I get the urge to beat the stupidness out of them She tell us dee, what happened

^^^Never mind. Lool. It is amazing how people [women] can be so small minded sometimes. I am being terrorised by this girl, who has got into her little head that I somehow know her dude. She won’t say his name, so I don’t even know this a*sshole or I do I don't know which one. She keeps calling at all hrs saying “he is with you, isn’t he” and then proceeding to swear and shout and threaten to beat me with her girls. I'm like women it is 2am! :mad: I use to just put the phone down on her, but now I try to reason with her and trying to get her to leave this i*diot and find someone better and become secure and have some self worth rather than ringing strangers and chasing this dude. I think something is wrong with her, because after all the advise I give her, she turns around and says “you are just trying to get rid of me so you can have him” and then starts swearing again. :mad: Eeerg what a silly women. she just called, "have you seen him" I'm like "no, not unless he is hiding under some of my paper work!" I'm suprised she did not say "can you check under them to make sure" Naag waalan.

Ngonge Shhuuh! What is wrong with you old man. Old man where is CL I miss that mad women. Sayid good to see you out and about dear.

I think I thought the same thing as you chubacka, then I saw Lily responses and I was like "OH ahem that" lol

^^^Confidentiality, there is no paper trail, as long as she does not say so and so, this and that, she can talk/ discussed about all their issues. Everytime she gets a Muslim patient, she comes to me and says Ibti, I did not know Muslim men/ women this and that

^^Erm the NGO is very very scared of flying people via Mogadishu :eek: Any other way?

^^^LOOOL @ Freaks behind closed doors. They are just not as open about it as SS Sheh I agree do tell us what happened?? SS: I will have to take your word for it Malika: SS you say a possibly a sex therapist, hmmm me kind of girl. Now what would have been the perks of that job?... ps.By the way your a breath of fresh air, I like your openness. Firstly there are no perks, it is erm how do I say this...most of the patients are men who have had prostate surgery of some sort, have urological problems, have some sort of addiction and old men who want to be humping like 19yr olds. The only women are ones with psychological problems and inability to let go or ones with structural problems. I know this because I share the floor with a sex therapist, and she comes to discuss her issues and have a laugh I also see her patients in the waiting room. No, no ,nope no perks as such. Well she says she likes the feeling that she is helping people enjoy themselves. SS You still want to be a sex therapist??

^^Hey val. Good luck! Lol The art of waiting last min.com! lol Where is JB and North I need to get three Somalilanders to Nairobi on friday the 5th December. Any idea at all on what the best way to do that might be? Only airline i can find which flies from Hargeisa is Ethiopian Airways which would require for them to stay over in Addis for a night. Argh! Inter-African air transport sucks! Can someone help. Any help would be very much appreciated!

Salam people

^^Don't give her a big head please. Soon she won't be able to walk through the door of this thread. Heheh lol, I agree. Malika, it is a shame that their little perfect vision is messed up by selfish self seeking men. :rolleyes:

At least 21 people have been killed in a wave of coordinated car-bombings across northern Somalia. Most of the casualties were in Hargeisa, capital of the self-declared republic of Somaliland. The presidential palace, Ethiopian embassy and UN offices were all targeted, leaving at least 19 dead. Two suicide attackers also blew themselves up in the offices of the security services in the neighbouring region of Puntland, officials say. The attacks took place in Puntland's economic capital, Bosasso. "These were suicide attacks. Two car bombs destroyed two centres of the anti-terrorism unit. There are casualties but we have to investigate and we cannot give more information at the moment," Bile Mohamoud Qabowsade, an advisor to Puntland's president told the AFP news agency. Anxiety The presidents of Somaliland and Puntland have both condemned the attacks. Somaliland President Dahir Riyale Kahin says the government is ready to defend the country. The BBC's Jamal Abdi in Hargeisa says 28 people with serious injuries are being treated at the main hospital. Eight people were killed in the Ethiopian embassy, which is 50 metres from the BBC offices, our correpondent says. One car managed to get into the basement of the heavily fortified UNDP office before the explosives were detonated. Guards outside Somaliland's presidential palace opened fire on the attackers blocking it from entering the compound. There is a lot of anxiety around the city and cars have been blocked from approaching the three locations. There is no information about who was responsible for the three attacks, which took place within seven minutes of each other. But some suspect Islamist insurgents, given the coordinated nature of the bombings and the targeting of Ethiopia. The al-Shabaab group, which the US describes as a terrorist organisation, refuses to join peace talks until Ethiopian troops agree to leave Somalia. Ethiopia helped forces of the interim government oust Islamists from the capital, Mogadishu in 2006 - since when Islamists have staged regular attacks in the city. US ally The bombings come as regional leaders meet in the Kenyan capital Nairobi, to discuss the ongoing crisis in Somalia and the performance of the transitional federal government. These are the first suicide attacks in Somaliland and Puntland, which have escaped most of the instability seen in southern Somalia since the last effective national government was overthrown in 1991. Somaliland is a US ally in the fight against Islamist militants. On Tuesday, Ethiopian Foreign Minister Seyoum Mesfin made a rare criticism of the Somali government. "Somalia's problems are not security but political," Mr Seyoum said, blaming disputes between the country's leaders for the prolonged crisis. The transitional federal charter, which was adopted in 2004, expires next year when a constitution is supposed to be drafted and elections held. Source: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/7696986.stm Anyone hear from JB?

^^They killed him for drinking??? :eek:

^^ "Dating is a numbers game," she said. "I need to reach a large pool of guys." Seriously this is silly $3M for a man, shiid, she should just take the money and live in a cave with some aid tools and a heater. Malika: How you doing sis? Avoiding me these days are you?? Anyway our gullible and naive minds might take." I think she's pointed the problem naive and gullible, with or without a good husband she needs to find a cure. SS One I have thought about recently was whether we ladies living in diaspora have chosen our careers more out of financial security reasons than passion?...Do you feel like we get the opportunity to discover really what we are good at or passionate about or are we constantly keeping the welfare of our families and responsibility in the forefront when choosing our career path? Mine provides no security, financial or otherwise, but it is something I am passionate about. My family hate it though, I always get why can't you a doctor, nurse, midwife yad yad ya. :rolleyes:

Morning

Mr Mphahlele became the University of Witwatersrand's first black professor Prominent South African academic and writer Es'kia Mphahlele has died at the age of 88. He was best known for his autobiography Down Second Avenue, telling of his life as a herdsman, teacher and journalist for the celebrated magazine Drum. It ended with his exile from apartheid South Africa in 1957. He returned 20 years later and became the University of Witwatersrand's first black professor and founded the school's African Literature Department. During his exile he spent time in Nigeria, Kenya, Zambia and France and gained a doctoral degree in the United States. In 2002, he set up the Es'kia Institute, a non-governmental organisation to nurture the arts and preserve African heritage. After the end of apartheid in 1994, former President Nelson Mandela awarded him the Order of the Southern Cross, one of the highest recognitions granted by the government. "African literature is an awakening," Mr Mphahlele wrote in 1983. "It represents moments of consciousness when we have been jolted into awareness of what Europe did to us and what we have been doing about this disinherited personality we now possess.”

Work is killing me today, Errrg. Are you guys still talking about men, and how bad they are, iyo relationship iyo waaxan loo jiidin Can we have another topic plz.

^^Xiin, I took friends to mean like buddy buddy best friend oo kaale. My bad.

^^^That is your opinion Ashkiro, it cannot be attributed to Islam. The Cuulama say otherwise so far, but I would be very interesting to see any rulings in your line of though. I have been various talks, and have read that to call a non Muslim a friend, holding them close to your heart, living and sharing life with them and considering them as dear as your Muslim friend is wrong and in violation Alwala wal bara fil Islam. However this is not to advocated for mistreatment, we should be nice, kind, and show care and compassionate for non Muslims. We can also be close to them for dacwa purposes or to set an example to portray a positive image of Islam. Furthermore if they are your neighbors etc they have duty of care on you and you must fulfill your duty towards them. I took an interest in this area about two years ago, when I realized that I did not have a single Muslim friend, at the time I did not think this was a problem until I went to a talk. Consequently I was resistant to losing friends and having to make new ones, so I decided to look around and do some more research to see if there was any chance of me getting away with my life style, but I could not find any loop holes. I kept the writings I came across or evidence cited is at home somewhere, I'll dig it up I'A.

Condolences to Sayid and his family for their loss. May Allah SWT give you and your family sabar, and grant your father forgiveness, easy trail and jannah inshallah. Allah yarxamah.

Well next time they go to the SOL group, they will remember your comment and click on his picture, where as before Wooosh they will skip pass at 100mls per hr. It is psychology baby, they will look to see if you tell a lie or not YEs I will check wed to see if you suddenly have 200friends instead of 70 lol

^^WHAT it is true, unless you want me to lay claims to someone else. Watch tonigh you are going to have friends request from all the farah's on SOL coz now they know your real name and will look for you in the group. don't say I did not warn you. *Now I am thinking Nuune paid the sister to drop that line all those pages ago, you know helping a brother out and bigging him up kinda thing

^^LOOOL. I is a pointless function anyway, you can just send a message instead.

Lool @ walee xaaladu waa bariga dhexe OK SS, now go and edit your name from this thread, unless you want Nuune to revenge poke you Lool. I'm not on the SOL group.

^^^^There are so many names, are you using your SOL name?