Ibtisam

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  1. ^^Adigan you always think everything comes down to satisfying the beast in you. :rolleyes:
  2. Imtithal you are back to "I think" about something that is clear. For the rest of the boys trying to push the topic: Islam highly discourages the marriage of multiple wives for (1) Because no one can be fair; (2) polygamy is only allowed when the male species is endangered in a society; and (3) The Noble Verse 4:3 orders us to marry only one wife if we feel that we will not be fair.
  3. Zack it is not only about financially or ability to provide wealth only. What about the other conditions?
  4. Imtithal, you must understand that there is a difference between religion and our actions. We must always know what the deen is and what is right. We cannot bend the deen to suit our actions, not can we make excuses for our wrong doings. So we can't say it is okay or acceptable because the times are different and it is unrealistic to take a muhrim with us, what we can say is that we are imperfect humans who are weak and don't follow allah's laws.
  5. ^^I am sorry sis, you are wrong. There is no such thing as a bunch of friends which includes male and females. The only people that could deem it hala is you dragged a maxram with you.
  6. Imtithal what does that mean? If I go on a date at a coffee shop, are we alone?
  7. Imtithal I often see you issuing your own little fatwahs about dating-what is okay and what is not. I think it is best you say this is my view, for certainly from a Islamic point of view waaxas maa jirin. You will get sins for making somehting that is haram normal and acceptable. Getting to know wa maaxay in Islam, and it does not make it okay if you take your friends and he brings his friends, that is called group dating and even worse.
  8. There so many girls willing to go out and marry those kind guys, thats why he felt brave enough to tell her and expect her to say, Oh okay. Bloody creepy. I'm sure he'll find a few that don't mind or don't care. Justice next time give them a list of questions before you even consider wasting your time.
  9. Girl, did you not do any research before hand!!! Thats what brothers and family is for, fuutaad faar haa ku soo geeyin before he even gets a hello in!!
  10. ^^Who me or Aaliya?? If you was talking to me, there is a time and place for everything, looks like she found out on her own anyway IT is sunday xabibty.
  11. HAHAH Justice, I agree with Imtithal, plase share, what did the saqaajan do? Or was it so good, you are out of business?? hehe
  12. ^^^old man wuu caytamey. I mean ultimately wu uu dameye one camp- finish. Aaliyah pissed old man about culture shifts and reer maagal women going over the top; everything from boyfriends, to male friends, to ******* children, to impotence due to qaad and resulting divorce....
  13. ^^^Funny aah?? Eeer you sure you understood??
  14. Bob you know, you cannot apology’s and then in cay straight after, what the hell is all that about?? :mad: On a side issue, lat night I had a dream about not driving and meeting someone on the public transport in London. The person ( a SOL nomad) complained “maa waaxad igu welcome garanisa double deck bus hindi ku duusaye! IT was the funniest dream. I woke up laughing! HAHA. BOB I think it resulted from our discussion about cars!
  15. ^^^ playing the miskeen to the T eh. Somalis say Duusha kaa miskeen hossta kaa liciin
  16. Raamsade you are confused atheer. You mean a hijaab in Somalia? Last I knew Somali women were walking around in diracs and koogaard. When the Islamic courts tried to impose the two piece hijab everyone laughed at them, I doubt al shabbah has had better luck despite all the chopping they have been doing. America went to kick the bad man out remember and instill they wonderful western fairness and bliss, please you cannot speak of hypocrisy and use that to support your claim.! You are shooting yourself in the foot. The west claims to be better, so better is expected of them- otherwise Iraq could’ve kept it the way it was. African and Arab leaders don't even bother to pretend, so there is no real surprise. I think Castro already pointed this out to you above.
  17. ^^^I always have one foot out the door, at this moment I just don't have another door to jam my spare foot with. Sweet nothings has not got them anywhere for 18years, it just waste their time and resources.
  18. BOB, you want inaan ku rif-rif oh!! YOu better leave me alone and stop calling me names, otherwise I'm let everything out of the bag, I mean everything I know. The ball is in your court-If I am lying, I am dying, don't push me, suuqa ayan kaa saari! :cool:
  19. Che, aim for the middle ground. Planders iyo SLanders waaxab kaal heestey on this forum. School kids caamal waa laa iska daab waregiya! :rolleyes:
  20. CNN reported that the Jackson family is meeting with an imam to make the funeral arrangements for the janazah (Muslim funeral prayer) for Michael Jackson. Source: imamjohari.wordpress .com
  21. ^^Can't be true, my secessionist card is still in process as it has been for few years, Che only recently flipped dhee hence my question.
  22. ^^^I don't mind your attacks normally harmless old man I have been busy indeed, time wasting maa aragety!! goes off to see the damage in the other thread
  23. ^^You mean they did not go to English school? How short sighted of you, its not their first language yaa English teacher. Maybe you want the somali version?
  24. ^^^Wow, lol an angry version of the old Castro. Wlc back by the way. I missed you around here.