Paragon

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  1. ^Rash's younger bro. He's got a good prospect. I see Karaaciin has finally come to th fore to coach talented youngsters. Good thing to see talented Somali runners once again. Karaaciin was the lot of C. Bille, soo ma ahayn horta?
  2. Lol. Wallee wiilku waa war-gal . Adeer bal soo wad. It's just wonderful how you've brought out Somalida and their mentality into the story. Brilliant stuff!
  3. ^'Fiidmeerta' mid aan anigu ku doorsado oo uu X. Diiriye xeeso anigu waayey, sxb. Tan aad xagga sare ku soo lifaaqday waa cajaaib, iyaduba. Speaking of old guard, might I take you back to a classic song by Magool iyo nin reer Abu-dabi ah, oo la yiraahdo: ' dhabtuu jacayl ku yaallaa ?
  4. Good article from the guardian. Most don't realise the connection between statelessness and somali state of mind. But I am glad some folks are started to take this connection abit more seriously. I remember posting a note about statelessness and state minds to the UK Somali Student Association yahoo group. Below is an excerpt: Never have I had enough of time and concentration to compare us with them. Them being those lucky ones with a dedicated, though sometimes not so dedicated state, that serves them, works for them and caters for their need; from sense of a nation-hood and a sense of belonging, from guul-wade to minishiibiyo, from passport control to aw-kuku and from odey-cabdille to police stations. Fortunately when the short holiday came, and most of the universities were closed, I had the chance sit back and pour myself a cup of tea while reflecting on the state we are in or the state we never had. This mood of creating a comparison between things have paved the way for me in many instances, and I have always been fond of employing it whenever I feel somehow disorientation from reality or when i am in complex dilemma. But before i could continue to engage in a scholarly comparison, another scenario un-folded. Note: statelessness is affecting our state of mind and health! Thu Jan 30, 2003 7:50 pm So I asked myself, who is to blame for this? This question needs a deep answer; it needs clever and considerate observation of the situation we are in. The reason why our community is in such a mess doesn't necessarily mean that we're incompetent, but it shows how being without a state can affect those of us outside Somalia. The psychological effects of being without a role-model (or president) or a state (functioning government), contributes to the low-moral and esteem phenomenon that has become common amongst our community. The feeling of having no place to return to causes serious stress to older generation and drags them into a status which gives way to pessimism. And later leads to the proverb "Nin qoyani biyo iskama dhowro". The result is to see them gathering cafes' discussing nothing else but pessimistic topics spear-headed by the divisions caused by tribalism. When there were a state back home, people had a common-unity, a sense of similarity under the state and that sense united them. Nowadays such things are long gone and though Somalis need heroes who can bring back the glory of the old golden days, but their purposeless stubbornness blocks all hope. Majority of the community are stressed and feel out of place. They gather in marfishes and chew jaad to drawn their feelings of disapointment. Men who use to be of some importance are reduced to shifts of jaad chewing crowds. They have dreams of Somalia getting better and that dream is being shared by our old mothers who are locked in small houses, afraid of going outside, preventing to slip on the slippering snowy surfices. In Somalia, they use to go round to other mothers and performs tasks like "abaay abaay", arbaca bun-duboow and many other enchanting activities. Children don't play outside as they used to do. They don't play "kuun kuun" or dhuudhuumashow or "kabey bilato, ha bilato" and chasing home-made socksed footballs. Many of us have been victimised and racially attacked leaving us in fear for ever. Every year we effortly wait for the fate of many of our youngsters, and the cause of death? stabbed or murdered in the streets. Truthfully, we're suffering from anxieties that even those in Somalia don't suffer from. Abuses are hurled at us every time and every place the name "refugee" or "asylum" is mentioned. We are considered a parasite community. I really think those who call us names have the right to do so, coz it is our fault that we became un-ashamed parasites. What is a Somali mother to do in London? sell "yaanyo" in the suuqa weyn ee Southall? There is nothing our parents can do but to depend on ceydha, coz they is no other possible income for them except "Ayuuto" whcich comes once in every few months. We are in this kind of situation and the intriguing thing is that our fellow Somalis back at home blame us for fuelling the war, funding every warlord and feeling the gunmen. It is true that the wars that happen in Somalia these days do seem like the proxy wars between the west and the east during the cold-war. Old men gather in tribes and collect "QAARAAN" to buy more guns, to create more fire. The more they collect, the more the fire of war burns. Those who directly fund the war clearly have blood on their hands, but how what about those of us who don't fund the war and send money back to their relatives back in Somalia? Are we doing any good or harm by sending hard earned currency every month and creating a new dependency? Sure, we are creating some sort of dependency and by creating this dependency, we are not doing ourselves any good. We are just transferring the dependency our state use to have on foreign aid to our own families. And the stress that is associated with sending money every month while you work in back-breaking jobs is very high. Many Somalis gave up and became the "Marfish members" and other gave up both hope and their lives. Communities use to depend of their state to provide basic services but there is no longer a state, so, it is us who have to provide enough money that can buy basic services to our families. Citizens from dictatorship governments are better than us. For example Ethiopians, Kenyans or Djiboutians don't even think of those basic things but we do. They don't coz they have some sort of a state however weak it may be. INSTEAD OF SENDING MONEY EVERY MONTH, LETS INVEST AND CREATE NEW HOME- GROWN ECONOMIES THAT WILL CREATE JOBS AND SUSTAINABILILTY. LET'S HAVE A STATE. THIRTEEN YEARS IS A LONG WAIT FOR A GOVERNMENT. Cheers JamaaL-11 Here. Sounds very similar to the article. Then when I posted I was taunted for making such a connection, but the same folks later realised the connection was real and serious. Anyway, noble sentiments of willingness to help will not, by themselves, help these kids pull up their grades. As mr. me has said, find 2 people on the same page on this issue. And only when you've met that challenge will you be able to do anything tangible.
  5. There is a Somali tradition in which if the man suspects the women not to be virgin, he'll dig a big hole outside the enterence of the house and leave at once. There's another tradition in which the newly married worried is put through some 'caining' process early in her wedding night. Men would take cains and form two parallel lines in which the women is forced to walk through. If she flinches in the process of being cained, it means she wont make a good wife. Yet there's another tradition in which men would be invited into the married couples' house, with all house-ware/utensils lying around. Then each man would 'steal' and conceal one or more of these utensils. The test for the wife is to know which man took which qaado or mooye or else it means she'll make a wasteful wife, who wouldn't look after her husband's (future) wealth. In addition to that there is another..... OK. Traditions, traditions. Sord them all. What was the subject again? Virginity? That's a deep subject Im unwilling to delve into right now. Maybe later .
  6. ^looool. Women, eh? You huggle with them not to buy their Canjeero, and they think that's entertainment. I feel for the poor sord .
  7. ^Im sure your Canjeero is delicious. Can you please stop offering it? Thank you! Analysis, what analysis?
  8. ^Flip flop iyo weakness kute, that's a lausy attempt at psycho-analysis, is it not? Give up women. Stick to flipping Canjeero. Suits you .
  9. ^Stop over-estimating who you know. You only know two or three Somalis (all fish and chips) and couple of Bengalis. PS: By the way; you are not improving. I was mistaken.
  10. That place is hopeless and that man is a puppet.
  11. Ibti, Forget that. Who's teaching you to write Somali lately? You are worryingly improving!
  12. ^Hilibka farahaaga sambuusada leh kala bax, waa cunta rageede. Bloody trollers :mad:
  13. Kingwendu for TZ folks. Watch at your discretion lol.
  14. ^^^LOooooooooooooooooooooool Innocent gitu gani? Haguna mutu innozent Genya We gan charge you with anything Unataga gani? Smoking with violence Looging at a female gender with breach of gontract Looging at a government building zuzbiciously With indend to gommit murder Unataga gani? My God I didn't laugh that hard for a long time. Thanks, Malika. Sharma arke has a history with police...lol
  15. Originally posted by Nephthys: quote:taliyaha ciidamada Itoobiyaanka ee jooga Jante Kuundishe , is that new Somali town? mise cento quindicie ay ka wadaan. Uff Somali iyo broken Italian isku nacay! Lol. Did you know there is a Somali town called Saaca Mooja? And a man called Xaaji Maaji lol
  16. Ofcourse there is freedom of speech, Marc. For some. Not for you though .
  17. Nikila Ugali, maharagwe na Tilabia, ndiyo mwanzo nitajiita mtanzania. Labda nitala matoke na mihogo pia niwe mbaganda. Tizameni wabongo, Kenya ndivyo kuna mambo.. Tanga, Arusa, wala Dar mkule huu
  18. ^Lol. I know. You know, those around him don't like the fact that the man is 'Xamari', as opposed to a cunning reer Mudug or reer Bari. That's why they think he's a liability but on a positive note, it means that they can manipulate him when necessary. You are right, he's honest at most times. He sees no need for a politics of question evasion lol.