Intellectual Comparability - does it matter?

[Gediid]

Originally posted by BARWAAQO:

quote:Originally posted by Muad:

Personally, I want someone, when I tell her,

"I dream of You and I on a White Stallion, riding across Andalusia under a crescent moon!",

would know excatly what I mean, and not just knows but feels excatly how I feel!

Ahh...how romantic!

 

Ala maxaad Barwaaqo maskiin yar jar uga talaabsadey...White stallion riding across Anda where.....

[NGONGE]

Personally, I want someone, when I tell her,

"I dream of You and I on a White Stallion,

riding across Andalusia under a crescent moon!",

would know excatly what I mean, and not just

knows but feels excatly how I feel!

This, as romantic as it sounds might not be amorous at all if your “Dulcinea†is more read than you are, saaxib.

 

It reminds me of the story of Don Quixote! He who used to fight windmills and view every smelly peasant girl as a princess who has been enchanted! He too was a knight who gallped around Spain on his trusted stallion “Rocinante†and with his sidekick Sanco Panza!

 

Now, depending on the partner you have, saaxib. She’ll either would have read the story and liked all the ronaticisim in it (rather quixotim!). Or, she would not have read the story and wouldn’t know what you’re talking about! The third option is that she did read the story but didn’t get the romance in it and would take your words as an insult, who are you calling smelly and a peaseant, darling?

 

 

PS

“Dulcinea†was Don Quixote’s love. She was a figment of his imagination too. Would yours be a Dulcinea too I wonder!

 

 

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[Valenteenah.]

Originally posted by Gediid:

Ala maxaad Barwaaqo maskiin yar jar uga talaabsadey...White stallion riding across Anda where.....

Typical faarax... :rolleyes:

 

Some of us like something a little more refined than the old caveman routine of hit-and-drag by hair.

[Som@li]

i believe it matters,but it all depends on the gab between the two persons,

 

Studies show that marrieges, where men have higher intellectual levels, are likely to succeed,but when women are smarter and got the upper hand, those relatinships are doomed to fail.

[Muhammad]

Salaam to All. Thanks for replying!

Your words of wisdom are much appreciated!

 

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Brother NGONGE, I must say you have cought me off-guard.

I was hoping not to come across a nomad that was

knowledgeable of the brave Don Quixote.

 

I had in mind the Andalusia of the Muslim Era, ages before the Don.

Like most Believers, I still long for the gardens of Cordoba.

 

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* The Brave Don battling his nemesis:

http://www.samstagnachmittag.de/1970-Don-Quixote-gross.jpg

[Warrior of Light]

I beleive its a necessary ingredient in any marriage.

 

Why as there will be alot of decisions to tackle as a couple and later as a family. Partners need the IQ stimulation to refresh and strengthen their relationship with themselves and the community. And being IQ compatible is important seen examples of grumpy wives in our community who never understand why their husbands made such and such decision. When you listen to their tales you see that the decision was sound for the forerun but unfortunately the wife never understood. Or you find smart wives who ended up marrying men educated -western but not life smart.

 

In the long run in any marriage , the upbringing of the children is the core part thus having a partner who can stimulate you mentally is a plus coz you can bring up children who are thinkers love creativity and understand what the worth of living.Who can understand at a younger age to compromise and understand the importance of discipline,affection and appreciation.

 

Personally I prefer the challenge. Makes every new day worth living for.

[Nomen nescio]

One thing i found out to be wrong is assuming anybody who goes or been to college to be a smart person...

[Abdulladiif Al-Fiqih]

Salaan sare mr. Mucaad, how you been bro? Long time no see. Hope everything is well

 

ma aan rabo mid tiraahda,

» "War ma pasta-dii aad xalay cuntay baad ku riyootay?"

» "Pasta-dee?"

» "Dee Wamaxay Santa lushiyada iyo waxaad sheegaysid?"

What man? Did know Bakhtiar speaks Somali .....mise intii iga dambeysay baad bartey?

[Muhammad]

^^ LOOOLZ

 

war sxb Bakhtiar kala-guurnaye maxaad haysaa?

xageed ka dhacday?

[Abdulladiif Al-Fiqih]

Is that righ? sorry to hear that mate...I thought Bakhtiar was the one. Anigu Wali waxaan taaganahey Karmeel mall sxb, meeshaad igu ogayd lee wax soo kardhyna maleh oon bidaar ahayn

[Xoogsade]

LOL@Sheherazade, Thanks.

[MR ORGILAQE]

Hadaynu Soomali nahay, markay guur noqoto,

waxaynu aad ufiirinaa maalka, ehelka, qabiilka,

quruxda, iyo diinta qofka. Siday ila tahay, way

yaryihiin inta markay guurdoon yihiin fiirisa,

tacliinta ama heerka waxbarashada ee qofka.

 

what about you, do you look at the intellectual

style of the person, his or her degree of

education, ideas, goals, visions, ...?

 

Personally, I want someone, when I tell her,

"I dream of You and I on a White Stallion,

riding across Andalusia under a crescent moon!",

would know excatly what I mean, and not just

knows but feels excatly how I feel!

 

ma aan rabo mid tiraahda,

» "War ma pasta-dii aad xalay cuntay baad ku riyootay?"

» "Pasta-dee?"

» "Dee Wamaxay Santa lushiyada iyo waxaad sheegaysid?"

 

what about you? does it matter?

 

 

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOl @muad

[Muhammad]

^^ maxaad ku qososhay sxb .... ma xalaad(12/23/04) paasto ku cashaysay?

[Muhammad]

^^ lol Hibo, I strongly agree with you!

 

 

Gura yare dameerkaygow

Gaadiidkaygii dhaqankaygow

Gayi kale kamaad iman

Gacal ila shaqeeyoo

Ii gargaara baad tahay

Misna Guulka aan dhalay

Gamshoodii baad tahay

 

Heey Jac … Jac… Jac ….

 

Gura yare dameerkaygoow

Go,e faras ka roonoow

Markaad waajib gudataa

Wixii calafku ii galo

Wax galkooda ma cafiyee

 

Heey Jac … heey… Jac ….

 

[Bess.]

Of course, it matters, though to what extent is up 2 u. The level of education, is one thing and not everything, its about being comfortable around each, its about being able to learn new things together...also being smart enough to appreciate one another…..and most important is being confident in urself that u don’t need another to validate u, so that u r not intimidated by them. Weather they r ivy league educated or street learned….its about how u carry urself and deal with others…..although there is nothing like someone who stimulates ur mind.. an educated Somali man …..is quite a catch..