i guess the word that would describe me would be...Idealist...

hey charisma sis.....sweetie save ur pity for those who need it.....besides sis u misunderstood...i never said the goal of education is to earn more money..(although it is one of them)...all i said was the question should be who makes more money...because i think that is the more sensitive question...who cares who has more education...we should all strife to get as much education and knowlege as we can..u know what they say (the pen is mightier than the sword) and we should all be as armed as we can be to handle this world..and bro xoog...i never said all men are like that just some....i don't know if u'all are just eager to write something down or u have no patience to read everything throughly...but i advice u to read carefuly b4 u reply...that should eliminate alot of confusion.... :rolleyes: peace

hello.... about polygamy....i heard that reason it was brought about was because all the muslim men were dying in the wars...and the islamic population which was just starting wasn't really going to recover from such a loss ..so it was a way to enlarge them....it was not for men in todays's society to exploit it and use as a way to sleep with as many women as they can ..... ps. like i said i only heard it...im not sure its true or where i even heard it...but it sounds true....if not... im sorry....

hey Jacaylbaro bro, if i were u i wouldn't be so excited or think that u've figured out wateva u think women are saying....the "vocab list" as u have called it changes regularly and also frequently....so any given word or expression could mean one thing today and tomm. another whole thing.... if i were u i would tread lightly and keep my ears open....one day u might just understand what's going around u .....but i wouldn't hold my breath.... ps. bro, it's just advice don't take it personal or to heart...i just hate streotypes...and i made it my life's mission to defy them.... peace

really this topic seems confusing.....what odes it matter who has more education...the real question i believe here is " WHO MAKES MORE MONEY?" lets be honest though it all depends on what kind of ppl u r ...if u r judgemental man or a pridefull one then u won't be able to handle an educated woman....cause lets face it, the question doesn't apply to women, because they always prefer thier men to be highly educated.... peace

x girl...believe me i don't think that any woman should look like a vogue model,(even a vogue model doesn't look like a vogue model), but i get wat ur saying i expect him to be there, rather than at the foot of the bed...he'll be at the head with me, holding my hand....i believe even from my husband there is some modesty needed...and that is what im maintaining here...my mom told me ...how they handled it with grace, even with all the pain....and i expect nothing less from myself...regardless of the pain i'll not turn into a screaming banshi...lol... ps. lets be honest maybe a little screamin, and hand crushing..but i'll be at my best even there :rolleyes: .. respect

we always complain about "nag bashing", but then we turn around and do the same thing on the corner....well i don't agree with anything u have said so far....u'all grow up and learn to judge ppl for themselves rather than generalizing a whole group....i know some great somali men and they include my father, brothers, friends and many others....and i know u girls know some good ones too....so why don't we give our brothers a chance and stop demoralizing them....huh girls ps. that goes for the men too... respect

i have always thought that somali people suffer from a mental disorder called "nosiness-chosis", they take such pleasure in getting into other business....if she choses to "lighten" herself, how is that any of ur business....why should it bug u so?...may because u've too much time in ur hands..otherwise u would be too busy to be concerned about things that have nothing to do with u...... ps. this is 21st century...and women can do wateva they choose to do about how they dress, to wat they do to thier bodies......and there is nothing u can do about it ....except whine and b**** about it..... peace

ewww...that is right.....i've seen women in the process fo giving birth....and truth be told...it was not "a beautiful sight"....a very very repulsive and totally painful process....and u ever want to be with ur husband again ....i hope u don't expecet him to see it that way and then feel desire for it again....besides you should never expose that side of urself to ur husband.....i would want my husband to have a great image of me...not sweating, screaming and just plain unattractive...i want to be see me in better conditons, if i could help it..... ps. this does not make anti-feminisim...it is just my opinnion..... respect

it seems mr. farax.....that u r being sarcastic...or atleast i hope so...anyways sending flowers to a man as a gesture of any kind is sweet....rather than disecting the thought behind it just enjoyn it...and be glad someone regards as worthy of flowers..... peace