Salaams all and xaaji (allaha kaa aqbalo xajka). bal warama?

lol@the exchange warheedhe ibti kawaran? JB waxaad noqotay bad host, altho she is now a citizen

^^ lacag salaams all. sidee tihiin and why is JB speaking my lingo?

2 objections first you did not consult (typical macawisleey), waad qarowday then posted it ( i can admit some of your nominees deserve the nomatation) second, although ibti (ama 5 karoon as she is known) is more than enough hadana you did not nominate enough women in your poll.

I am coming insha allah, if only our young friend would send me the time.........wiilku waa qabyo, always have info.

wiilka ha igu dirin carabyahow lugaha gaagaaban:) Che i wont dare bullying you. dumaashi as long as hooyo is settling well, waan kaa qabaa so thanks.

che you do realise most people cant view the page at work right? also bal na salaan marka hore

morning ngonge. Val, nothing to be excited about really, just getting on with it and awaiting for the first disaster of the week JB it is every 3 months, that is if you want to keep ilko cadcad (not cascas)

Salaam aleykum all, I see Qardho has ventured out, so oodkici wuu dhamaaday. JB that is simply yucky, listen to me from now and get a check up every 3 months. waves@val

What a lovely name, bal soo dhaaf, ganbar waa tan unless you prefer derin.

Ibti that is narniah, unless kk became narniah!

No wuxuu ka cabsaday the sniffing kind inla moodo. Xalwo is mine, it has to be available to me as it represents barwaaqo!

i watched it, waxay uhadleysaa iney ku horfadhido oo kale....nothing wrong with expressing her views balse anigu waxay ila tahay she is too much imaqlaay. I hope she appreciates difaaca la difaacay

neither as Mr Juxa wont like it, but i will pass on the message

Mr Juxa mainly likes smoking, chewing etc, nothing heavy or haram

^^i agree, what is yours? and dont opt for the easiest option!

Sharma-arke, that was my point, i am yet to see someone who is openly discusses the conditions, tries to satisfy then think of marrying second. polygamy is not new to me, yacni some of our parents are product of polygamious marriages balse different times, different men. most people know do it for selfish reasons, mostly to take advantage of a situation etc

Faheema wont you want to know in advance hadiii lacaajiso, so that adiguna upgrade aad u doonatid?

ah Jacpher, i am not offended at all. Ngonge you and i had this discussion about women being mad baan filayaa

^^ if women were mad, midkiina hoosta ugama jireen har iyo habeen oo waxaad radsan laheydeen xalkale so i wont even find your statement offensive as it is laataacaleesh aan kasoo qaad laheyn. since this is serious subject i seek serious answer. waxba ha isku qasin behaviour of women after she is betrayed, lied to, cheated and probably lacagteeda uu ku guursado (as happens most often). as far as i am concerned she is entitled iney isaga iyo macawistiisa dab qabadsiiso the act of polygamy is islamicly ok, so why hide? why cant you clearly state your intentions and give her to option to stay or seek divorce? why most often marry on money she saved with the intention of creating something for the man to do? shaqo/business for his lazy self etc? I stand my position which is, the reason loo khariyo is because the man is kheyrul-masuul, he has repeatedly failed to provide for his family, so xaasidnimo daraadeed he decided to destroy his family, be it his wife's sanity or his children's lives through neglect. Ps: if a woman is happy or it is her idea he takes second wife, then that is fine and not discussed here, i would even say allaha siiyo whatever ajir she is seeking.

is it choosing to keep them back home or taking advantage of poor girls, needing financial support for themselves and their families and hiding them away? I am yet to see or hear a man sitting his wife down and saying, i am going to exercise my god given right to take a second wife. i am capable, willing etc to provide for you and your kids. I will be equally able to provide for my second wife and i am informing you of my decision inta kale oo aad soo qortay 100% waan kugu raacsanahay. ps: I would also like someone diiniyan ahaan to write down diinta waxa ay fartay ninka muslinka ah inuu kifaalo qaado, in terms of financially, morally and socially inuu u provide gareeyo his family to the best of his abilities?

No i wont mind being 2nd or third (in that order), balse that will create problem as i am already the first, so it will mean the unthinkable! i guess we are back to square one

I am sure there are dentist with buris in hargeysa no?

^^haka waalin Ibti i see being away from me, has already had negative effect, maahinoo? ciyoonba waa kibirtay yaah! afkeena noo dhaaf nooh Will watch caawa, balse i have issues with women with too many maalayacni views, i also dont like women that force us with their views (men waa hopeless marka horeba) anyone seen models an misfits? mid misfit ah is yelling around how her community hate her relationship bla bla, it is not allowed bacaac bacaac. i cont help but thinking kan mid lala soo shirtago maba ahan! be different, bold, brave but aim little bit high no?

Life is what you make of it, Never feel sorry for yourself longer than few moment dadkaada dhinac ka raac