1) Would you choose to marry a maried Somali man? Yes. Instead of an outsider.

Lascanood is not far behind.

Originally posted by Nubia: JB Jin are people just like you and me with extraordinary powers. For instance they can make themselves invisible and make their presence felt when wished to do so. They are diverse too. Also have fast movement unlike human begins. Originally posted by Lieutenant Xalane: I believe in jinni things but i never saw them,i also believe that some dudes date them.Who has seen a jinni or dated a jinni?I don't mind dating them,so long as they don't scare the hell out of me.But are they date'able? You want to make a Jinn your partner? Something is definitely wrong here. Lieutenant Xalane, dating/marrying a Jinn should not be part of your goal. Marry a Somali girl and only have your eyes for a beautiful Somali girl and once you marry her remember to mention Allah's name otherwise the Shatyaan will fold himself up in the man's urthra, becoming the third person to participating in sexual relations with you and your wife. Since you are so fascinated with Jinn's and their world. Here is another interesting information I thought I might share with you and others. Some might make it their goal to conceive a child of a Jinn or not. If a man goes to his wife while she is menstruating, shatyaan also joins in and if she conceives the child is of a Jinn.

Originally posted by J B: Why is music haram? Music is the voice of Shaytaan. Music is haram because it weakens ones heart. It is haram also because it involves musical instruments which is prohibited in Islam. No more Yusuf Islam in our house because the younger ones only want to listen and sing along to Yusuf Islam's naseed rather then reading the Quran.

Sophist I have heard a similar story to the one you have told. Only differences: when the guy said Acuudu bilaahi mina sheydaani rajiim, she disappeared, everything disappeared and he found himself lying in a rubbishy area. Originally posted by Lieutenant Xalane: Has any one heard some men dating jinni women and eventually marrying them?How the hell do they do that? In Saudi arabi there is a family who claim to be the descent of a female Jinn. Lieutenant Xalane if you are interested in the Jinns and Devils, I recommend for you to read 'The World of the Jinn and Devils. Happy reading.

Originally posted by Ameen: We know Allah, the All-Mighty, speaks about love in Surah Rum and there are many incidents about the sahaaba and their experiences with “love”, so here is one scholar writing about this ever debated issue. Ibn Hassan, a great scholar who lived in 300 hijra, says in his book Tuhul’ Hamaama, “for my part, I consider love as a conjunction between scattered parts of souls that have become divided in this physical universe, a union affected within the substance of original elements” – in other words, he believes love is something of out of control and not in our hands, why, because when Allah created us, a part of our souls travels the universe, and this is supported by the hadeeth of the Prophet (saw) when he spoke about about sleep and he said, when we sleep our souls depart partially from the body and those souls start meeting each other in the upper universe [this hadeeth and much more about the soul is researched and written about in the book called “Mysteries of the Soul” by Abu Bilal Mustafa Al-Kanadi (may Allah have mercy on him)]. Ibn Hassan being a literalist, continues by saying, “parts and elements of those souls meet in this universe and by meeting together (those unions) in this world, that will bring love and unity, and when they depart and go back to their respected bodies, if they were not to be together the love wont exist between them” and he says its something that’s not in our hands rather it is something that has been decreed by Allah and it happens because those parts, elements of love, are meeting together in that upper universe and when they come back and meet in this physical life, they will find that intimacy and love. It’s a physiological perspective. And he further explains by saying, that’s why you see those who are attracted to each other because they have that relationship in the upper world and the Prophet(saw) said in another hadeeth, “the souls are like recruited armies if they know each other, they will come and join together, and if don’t know each other, they will disagree with each other” because of this hadeeth, Ibn Hassan (may Allah have mercy on him) says, “love has nothing to do with beauty or any other physical characteristics”…and his proof is based on the fact that some people love the inferior characteristics over the superior. He explains, what is considered beauty for one person is not necessarily for the next person and the example for this is, some people are attracted to shorter people while other are attrached to those who are taller, and therefore it can not be about the physical characteristics rather it is about the soul itself. However, even though he says love does not originate from physical characteristics, he says, there still has to be something common for two people to love each other and he supports this theory by saying, “that’s why you will never find two people in love with each other without there being some likeness and agreements of natural attributes between them”. In conclusion, love is as real as eman. And Allah knows best. Powerful.

O.J Simpson must be embracing the Double jeopardy law. Once the book is released, I will be purchasing it.

Originally posted by murefu: lool, he married two wives at the sametime that is what he intentionally wanted to hear from market " this guy married two wives at sametimes" , there is no any other reason/ envision might behind that "Married two wives in Somaliland"- more like it.

Originally posted by Lieutenant Xalane: My Darkest day was when i lost my Grandpa,who happened to be my mentor.Later in the evening,My girlfriend's brothers decided to beat the shit out of my somalian @ss.Damn stressed,even never bothered to fight.They would punch me like crazy monkeys or something,I would fall down,stand up,then get a couple of punches,fall down again,and it continued till i passed out.I woke up in a hospital the next morning,my head being huge like a halloween pumpkin or something,and my leg was broken.Well,thats my Darkest day.

Originally posted by AAliyah416: Asalaamu Alaikum, Jenna sis I would by no means advice you to get married to him because he is wealthy. Since wealth can fade away, what if tomorrow for whatever reason he loses his wealth? Then what happens you get yr divorce? :confused: You don’t need to base your whole future on wealth that should be something to overlook. There are more important aspects in life than money, as Allah subhanuhu wa tacaala will bless us with his prosperity. You pointed out walaal that you are not interested in this brother and that you are not the least attracted to him. So, what you can do is simply tell him that you are not interested in him, and u dont c this relationship developing further than it is. As you know it is better to be straightforward, as you are not doing any favor for him by misguiding him and pretending you care. The other thing I would like to reconsider if I was you is are you truly sure you are not interested, because it seems to me you are looking for a religious brother and as this brother said he wants to change to a better Muslim. Perhaps, you need to give him more time, and within time you will be fond of him. All that been said I would never advice my own Somali sister to marry outside her race. Think about your children, they will be lost between two cultures. Somalis have hard time teaching Somali kids their culture; imagine when your child is half Somali. Besides that your child will go through identity crises (imagine being half white, wouldn’t you wish to belong to one race. Being half/half isn’t fun). So find yourself a Somali brother one that is educated and can support himself and his family. Wealth should be the last thing to look in a spouse. Personally speaking my priorities are religion, educattion, personality, and culture. Good luck sister, if allah wills you will find your calaf!! wa salaamu alaikum AAliyah416, marry for love and see yourself only making enough money to survive. Once a Somali couple marry, their next destination is government housing. Something he made me realise. Originally posted by -Serenity-: Whatever happened to kaad u heeseysey on SOL a few months back? Gentleman/GM was it? Is that you 7/11 girl?

Originally posted by NGONGE: This whole story is as fascinating as my third ear! Sorry, can’t offer you any advice here but maybe your doctor friend can do something about my annoying third ear. It’s the echo you see... Maybe your mistress will cure your ear infection.

Originally posted by Naden: quote:Originally posted by Janna: quote: Originally posted by Naden: I don't get it, you're not interested in him, don't find him attractive, think he's a no-good muslim, and yet this is a MAJOR dilemma in your life? How can it not be a major problem when the guy owns properties worth five million? Girl, you should have said so from the beginning. Never mind what these haters will tell you and quit blowing air up our butts with this good muslim claptrap. You know you're in for a dig . Quick! Say YES! Get married, get knocked up in weeks, pop out a little rugrat and you are set for life. Done deal.

Originally posted by rudy: i say janna must be the ugly one....!! looooool....Eureka!!! The Good: When Rudy finally structures a proper readable english sentence. Hooray!

Originally posted by Naden: I don't get it, you're not interested in him, don't find him attractive, think he's a no-good muslim, and yet this is a MAJOR dilemma in your life? How can it not be a major problem when the guy owns properties worth five million?

Originally posted by AAliyah416: Jenna lol@ will the mothers. i dont discuss love with my parents. The only thing that i hear is u need to get married , sharaftaada wa in aad alaalisa. wa salaam It's 21st century dear and showing love is not a form of shame however declaring first is criminal. Jaceyl walaal miyaad u guursanlaheed?

The Good: Rokko never discovers ALexus.

Months after posting this topic, I have come to realise love does exist. Ironically, Somali women do not marry for love. Chatting to my relatives and other Somali ladies, all claim they never married for love. :rolleyes: Only the truthful few are courageous enough to admit their undying love for their husband. Somaliaonline members, ask your parents if they married for love. Fathers will admit it, will the mothers?

Good: Marrying prince charming from Lascanood, crossing Buhodle together and arriving in Australia to be greated by my cousins. Much love.

Welcome to Somaliaonline Digital Boy, you and Conspiracy might have something in common.

Somaliaonline members and silent readers, I am facing a major dilemma in my life. There is a doctor who I have met recently, who is a non-somali. Knowing the doctor less then a month, he proposed. I refused his proposal. I politely declined his proposal because he is a Muslim by name. He does not pray on regular bases however wishes to change. He is continuously mentions his wealth and the life I could have, if I accept his proposal. Marrying for wealth never appealed to me. I imagine myself marrying a practicing Muslim who is a Somali. I am not interested in him. Nor do I find him attractive. Without turning someone who wants to increase their iman away, how do I turn him down and encourage him to become a better Muslim? Somaliaonline female members, would any of you consider a Non-Somali who is a doctor and wealthy? Who would marry for money?

Originally posted by ibtisam: The Loner Janna: Having recently read a thread, in which you argue that Light skin girls are better looking than dark skin girls, hence why many dark skin girls use Diana, I find your comments above hypocritical! Nothing hypocritical about my comment. Bleaching the skin and loving the Somali culture are two different topics that cannot be linked. Sometimes I wonder if you have a clear understanding of the word. Instead of concentrating on my comments so much, stop promoting prostitution. Hence: your profile picture.

Modesty, Love your topics. I am glad I am not the first to have realised how low some Somali girls have gone. Not only have they traded their beautiful culture for the likes of Indians, they sing and imitate Arabs. With the likes of Guntiino and Dirac around why the Sari? Some Somali girls located in Australia actually clean the bottoms of Eritrea’s. Embrace the true beauty of the Somali culture. I consider those girls "outcasts" for wanting to assimilate with non-Somalis and adapting their culture.

Sheherazade, I can see him online.

Congratulations Passion about Fashion girl.

Originally posted by Hannibal Barca: So far from what i have heard,single moms rock. The bed.