Kooleey i do that, but not everyday just when i am trying to think and pretty soon, someone will start knocking on my door, or put a quran tape outside my room so that i trun my music off or down the guilt trips they put me on, so cruel. I need something I pay for, with fix times that requires someone else teaching me or at least making me feel like I have to go. But for now I will check out your suggestion Ahura; sis that’s terrible. All i seem to do these days sit in front of a computer, at work and at uni and even when i get home. no wonder i feel like a nerd, which i am not use to. i use to go running in the morning until some farah across the road decided he will join me :rolleyes: so until i find another route, can't even do that and i feel so abnormal and lazy. lool i will let you know if i find anything cheers girls for all ur suggestions. appricate it

i guess here at SOL every thing is up for discussion, big or small

^^^yes natural to defend your self when you have an image to uphold. special if there is truth to the expression used. it only concerned you beacuse it was too close for comfort. now mucmnap mshug naaoiu nmka benji oui si so. and stop being so argumentative. don't you know women are always right

maturity and old age come hand in hand ^^^loool paranoia is part of old age. i have made no assumptions of anyones age. just an "expression" which you read too much into. i can't read Somali so i have no idea the last part. possibly just saying bye i guess. cheers

^^are u laughing at my distress, laughing at my expense. cheers for the suggestion. might check it out if worse comes to worse, although hackney/Islington is bit far. As for Arabic music and friends. only time i see Somali/ Arab people is at weddings and even then you have to attack respectable and not dance too much :rolleyes: unless it is women only, which means no music and i just eat and sit and watch islamoo jump up and down

u guys make me laugh. old farts that u all are

Hello ppl Has anyone every checked out the prices for dance lessons. anyway i never make use of my gym membership so this year I didn’t rejoin, instead i thought I’ll do something fun that i enjoy. I miss dancing as I use to have 3lessons a week in college and i though I’d join dance school/studio and have 1/2 lessons a week to keep fit, relieve stress and just chill. only to find out that one lesson cost £59 :eek: :eek: like a broke student can afford that and even if i could why would you pay £59 for couple of mirrors and a hall fully of sweating people :mad: so i though I’d come on here and rant/ let some steam off. Any Londoner know any places that holds cheap dance sessions, and please no pubs or night clubs. And does anyone know any other things that i can do as a hobby, that is fun, helps keep fit and relieves stress. I’m thinking horse riding or swimming now Cheers :cool:

i am sure the A HARGEISAWI will understand in the near future. for now they will just have to imagine it just as they imagine that money drops through our letter box’s while we sit on our backsides all day, but we are still too mean to share the Free money. :rolleyes: in any case it is not just a smell. if we go to other countries there is a total cultural barrier, for example how do you explain to a white man in london that he should eat pasto with his hands and then lick his figures as there is blessing from doing this. he would laugh at you. or a Jamaican/ Angolan man, that you must first marry before having sex, he would tell you "no man, me da check everythin works"

A salafiyah; i was talking to the person above you, as for what you wrote i can't read somali so i have no idea. sorry cheers

^^^ and how would you measure that. Does that mean that everywoman will have a farah that thinks she is the best thing since sliced bread. AND what about quality control, what happens if the qualities fades a little, out of date, rusty, then what he don't love her anymore :confused:

it is personal, i tell ya, it does not get anymore personal than this. i'm kick ur a*s*s , :cool:

^^^what are you FBI :rolleyes: seems like somali is not the only lanuage you can't speak. anyway wlc dear, hear have some shah (tea) and xalwad (sugar :confused: ) how is that for your first somali lesson

hhhm are you sure it was me dear. i don't remember even addressing you, opponents is that what we were. i remember your little digs at my english, but i thought you were just help ur old friend castor out. :rolleyes: in any case, i am not your opponent so no hard feelings. cheers

:eek: :eek: some one is going off the edge. do you by any chance sniff everything and everybody u see? no i don't have that problem. only the London underground smell comes into mind :mad: but as all Londoner knwo what this smell is i don't have a problem explaining it.

he has been making excuse for me left and right, like he is baby sitting me or something. seems bit strange. all this attention is getting to my head

What are the chances ANYONE would respond to 4 yr old dead thread? What exactly were you doing unearthing the dead? i guess you don't count as anything^^ :cool: and i was trying to hide from doing work, so clicked on page 63, and this thread made me laugh, and i was wondering what happened. Let the dead rest in peace, they deserve at least that much. Jeeze! she should be thanking me, before me everyone ignored her. even from the dead this will be appricated Ok, you're pardoned but not totally off the hook. That is until you cease or tone down considerably your sardonic remarks. have i offended you? if not i will make every effort to do so in the future if i have. good, you should not have been paying so much attention to what i say in the first place!!!

^^^check the date before you take me head off and talk my ear off. i wz just wondering what happened to her. somaliniom concern

Plsssssssssssssss, if u ppl have seen a good looking guy that doesn't have those above bad qualities let me know..then I won't give up and instead I'll think maybe there is someone out there for me. i wonder if she found a nice guy, married the player and divorced by now. or married the ugly man and still having bad thoughts about how unattractive he is? or old and single :cool:

slander by tribal opponents of the cleric. seems like he was a victim to the people he was trying to help. may allah make it easy for him. ameen cheers

this is so funny. i guess men cannot measure up any more. i thought the guy who married the horse was crazy :rolleyes: this one is even worse

great idea. my university runs a e-mentoring programme where in your third year you are given a first year student to mentor on the same course as you. lets just say my one is at the pub al day and i have long stop e-mailing him but it is a great idea for those that wana make it work

I talked about Liberated women and expecting the thread to come with a substantial discussion..I talked about How women think they are liberated especially in the west and How best to Liberate our WOMEN. i think they have liberated themselves enough, what makes you think they need your help. First,You will agree with me that Everyone got a culture, religion, beliefs and style in life. and here you are imposing your life style, culture and interpretation of religion. :rolleyes: WESTERN LIBERATION: I argued that Many western families are not made up from structured families coz they don't follow their own religion..which is mainly christianity. this is not true according to stats. AN EXAMPLE OF MARRIAGE INSTITUTION: Normally Before patners get married..You expect a marriage ceremony and prayers coz afterall there will be a significant process for getting the generation to continue. it is old fashion to marry for kids only WOMEN in the west,mainly christians are LIBERATED coz they think by being free to do what she wants in life.She may go out to the clubs, she may dress the way she wants, she may disrespect her parents and ENJOY her life.So on and so forth.Now coz she thinks she has control over her LIFE, not only in the wast, that is a personality and has nothing to do with the west, everyone thinks they have certain levels of control over their life, regardless of western or non western Before Marriage she accepts to be TASTED..a man goes to length and TASTE the woman to see if she is fertile and tasty.The man find her NOT TASTY and leave her on the pretext that she in not the type of the WOMAN I WANT.He goes to find a new TASTE and she goes her way competing with all other women. Again this is common in muslim societies and in somali they even run away together, get "married" without their families blessings, then come back to have a wedding". in every society there are accepted norms of courtship which are practiced, people in muslims societies are just less open about it. She accepts she is sparated/divorced/Single. the most single/divorced and sparated happened to be the somalis :rolleyes: the number of single mothers in UK alone is astonishing, and they all accept it and move on with life.# The WOMAN/MAN may have a child before marriage.So the child becomes a WACEL.Some may contract HIV and STD's.Now this lady/man will go to someone else and do also the same and you find a different kind of culture we are not used to.Their whole generation is made up of this TASTY WOMEN and Illegal generations(WACEL)..Ilegal kids are born everywhere in the name of TASTING..different women..different wives..here and there.. this ^^ is more common in Africa than in western societies. The kid boy/girl grows up and finds himself/herself a TASTE also..he/she also tries to TASTE to see if the man/lady is fertile and ENJOY life..Meanwhile his parents Have no guts to talk. a normal cycle of life, for someone to grow up and is the same in any society. This is FREEDOM and liberation we are talking about.he/she gets another WACEL..so on and so forth. this is common in non western cultures also what is your point :confused: The society has in other words: No control from Elders including parents relatives or religious people. No religion.. No nothing..people have no respect to marriage institutions,people become desperate.don't pray.. and the likes. i am sure many will disagree with you and do not see the same thing as you. In the end, everyone has FREEDOM and is liberated.The whole society is composed of WACEL generation.Women have no problem walking semi-naked, Modelling and strippers are on the loose. and mostly used by Asian and Arab men who come all the way to experience this freedom, and pay large sums of money for porn channels. You have posted a long thread, repeating the same thing over and over again, highlighting problems that are a feature of western culture but which are also common in other cultures. you have taking and exaggerated relationships and norms of life and linked to issues which it has little if any correlation with. i think you must live in a cave, not connected to the rest of the world. you could have least Google a few "stats" you sound like you have never sat foot in western cultures, try you might like it, before you mock it

^^^so if Islam forbids something that’s the end of it, it should never be mentioned? don't be a hypocrite, there must be times, when you know something is forbidden in Islam but you close your eyes and run with it and even forget to ask forgiveness for it. We all know life is not as simple as "it is forbidden, let’s not mention it" As for the topic: i watched few programmes on it and swinging. although i think it is strange and immoral, it is not any worse that multiple partners, one night stands, 3somes, group sex, Gay sex or anything that involves more than 2people having sex privately. i don't see the difference. it is all the same, so why some of you people are shocked or categorizing it differently just because they happen to have said "i do" is silly. many of you would have dismissed the whole issue by now if they were not “married†couples participating. Maybe you should all remember that a Islamic marriage is not the same as a normal modern marriage, it does not have the same value or meaning. Cheers

^^some good thinking. no one will know where to aim that powerful kick after you pissed them off. The Flipmode.. you volunteered that information, so i guess it will be easy enough to hurt you according to "liban the man" :confused: (odd name)

Tragic indeed. :mad: