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Thank you sister Aliyahh.

 

Wa alaikum salaam wa rahmatulah

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Alhamdulilah I have found another challenge to over come but I hope it's not too much of a challenge. I plan on moving to a muslim country in a couple of month and pursue my Islamic education. Make dua for me as I will be living with people whom I have never met before. Jazakllahu khair for sharing that story, it was very uplifting and may allah shower their marriage with many blessings. Ameen.

 

Chubaka, I have always been honest with them alhamdulilah and insha allah I will always be honest no matter what the out come will be. Thank you for the reminder.

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your absolutely right sister chocolate, I will keep telling them insha allah and this time without any fear of rejection.

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your right sister garowe, iam sure she is a wonderful sister and i apprrciate her input. After all this is a public forum i cannot possibly expect everyone to give me replies in the same manner.

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Oh i see nnc, i would rather not share that info in public or in private.

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NNC, why?

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Jacpher no thanks i don't need her help, marabo qashiinkay taqaano.

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qafiiftey? are you kidding me? iam not the one that follows her to her topics. Marka yaa qafifay. Obviously her.

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Lool@Jacpher that'll never happen.

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audubilah mina shaytaani rajeem. What a disgusting advice.

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KK,if you think that by all means go ahead.

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no.. this

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none of your business how about that kk

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cida? uff add to the fact your a witch a qabilaysta.

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My mother is not a heartless witch like you. Masha allah she is wonderful woman, mother, daughter, sister etc. But you, your the somali version of madusa.

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Lool@Jacpher.

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Mom. Ugh. i feel sorry for her children.

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one more thing what i do with my life is my business because it is my life not yours.

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A public forum which doesn't belong to you. And I am not your abaayo, alhamdulilah i have one and she is not the heartless witch that you are. Again I will post what I want but learn to mind your business. I am thinking your suffering from some sort of mental illness because last time you apologised in private and here you are again. Get help. Seriously!

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rudey- i am proud of what i have, and wallah i don't mind that iam disabled, i know i am better then so many people alhamdulilah but i want brothers to stop being so narrow minded and get to know me before they judge me on my disability.

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NNC, they don't want me online what makes you think they will want me in person?

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Kool kat, you seem educated from your writing but unfortunately your quite the dense one. I guess education doesn't make you smart at all. Can you not understand when I said this is a very serious topic. Also I do not expect you to understand since people are saying your happily married so **** out of my topics you kneckle head. Yes I am desparate to get married why is that any of your concern. To the rest of you thank you especailly Malika. P.s. there wasn't a time where I did not put on my profile about my disability.

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How do I tell brothers who are looking for a wife that I have a disability after everything else?. Over the years I have gotten more and more scared to tell brothers this. In the past when I was a young teenager I never thought anyone would turn me down because of this, espeically a religious muslim man. Some actually said it to my face that they will not marry me for the fact that I am disabled. Now I find myself struggling alot just to tell them this small part of me and I become extremelly scared and paniced. So how do I tell them without them running away as soon as they see my disability on my profile or I even tell them myself?. I know I am beautiful inside and out but I am just so tired of being rejected over a trivial thing. After I wrote everything else on my profile I spent hours maybe days just to come up with the words to say that I am disabled and I still can't.

 

Please I am being very serious so if you can't tell me something that would be of help to me then don't say anything.

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Parents

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Only an ***** would wait even one more second.

 

But anyways there is something way more important i posted on the general section please everyone read and send to as many people as you can insha allah. May allah reward you all for your effort.