Narniah

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  1. Che -Guevara;913873 wrote:
    Narhiah.....I haven't thrown anything, you on the other hand...

    Are u sure u haven't. Don't make me quote u.

    Haatu;913874 wrote:
    lol @Narniah. Stop throwing the stones waryaa
    :D

    Lol


  2. Che people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

     

    Wadani wat ru on about? I never called u a kafir it's bizarre that u are makin it out to b like I did. Authubilah.

     

    Reeyo desis= indianspaks south asians.


  3. Aaliyah I stand corrected. I mean't a lot of Somalis do steal from the System. Obviously not all.

     

    My point was we shouldn't point the fingers as that won't get us anywhere.

     

    Wadani ..I am a liar weird...bla bla...

    And you are islamphobic.

     

    Che Practice wat u preach!


  4. Ooh pls ..

     

    When I called you an Islamphobe you were mocking the Believers, specially the pracising Muslims. One minute you say one thing the next you claim another. If that isn't weird don't knw what is.

     

    Name me the scholars that agree with your twisted pov? Oo don't even bother I too can find some sheikh who tells me otherwise. In Islam there's nothing that disencourages muslims marrying out their race.


  5. Wadani;913279 wrote:
    I geuss so Che. But saxansaxo makes a good point...these impressionable religious girls think just cuz the guy reverted he must be perfect. They forget that ones personality and characteristics are independent of religion for the most part.
    Also they don't take in to account that these guys grew up their whole lives as gaalos, and we all know how much the early socialization of a person effects them through out their life.

     

    And as for marrying timo jileec and dhago-cas....well good luck to them with that lol.

    Just remember that All the Sahabas (ra) were Reverts too. They too grew up as 'Gaalos' and if it wasn't for them Islam would not have reached Somalia. You should be careful to speak so ill of your fellow Muslims. If they are reverts or born they are your brothers and sisters. It's also dambi upon you to criticize peoples belief in god cause that's a sacred private relationship between them and God.

     

    Apophis;913419 wrote:
    Alliyyah, you seem to be saying Somali & Somali marriage is as much fraught with problems as Somali & Ajnabi marriage. I think that is false. The latter is much more problematic than the former.
    In my experience, most of the converts are former criminals or people with bad characters.
    That history isn't washed away just because they convert to Islam, as some ladies seem to think. Though you're right that Somali & Somali marriages can be problematic, at least (more likely than not) there will be familial and cultural avenues that makes it easier to solve the problem.

     

    But with an Ajnabi (who's family will likely not be a convert too),where are you going to go to solve a potential issue? It's not just about religion. Culture plays an important role and that's why I agree with GG.

    You don't even believe in God. The one who is a criminal can repent. Allah forgives everything except shirk and those like you who deny his existance. So if we look things from a religious point of view you are worse in the sight of Allah.

     

    In my experience most of Reverts are highly educated good hearted Muslims. This notion that you hold and many racist ignorant Somalis that 'Most reverts are criminals' is false. It's just a weak attempt to insult them because you probably know of few cases where the revert had a criminal background. Is that to say that most of them are like that? No! Speaking of criminals Somalis are the biggest criminals. They loot government systems, and we all know it. Keep hiding behind your wadanimo card so you get 'accepted' but at the end of the day you are a gaal. Not saying this to offend you but it is the truth.

     

    And those people can't bother to quote them now...

    Who said so n so married a revert and was divorced? Lol!

    Your entire community is divorced and let me tell you (and don't take my word for it do have a close look) those are Somali on Somali marriages.

     

    Another quick point I want to add hmm is:

     

    Is it not the the small wedding that has the most Barakah? How many Somalis have weddings everyday they can't even afford and are left with nothing to eat the following week? And highly in debt and oops they end up divorced. You outdid fatma n sahras 5 star wedding party but where are you now? It's better to be sincere and honest in life. Less headache.:)

     

    Many practising Muslims nowadays go for Haj/umrah as a honeymoon. Some have small walimas/nikahs and go on a honeymoon. MashaAllah.


  6. somalee;912084 wrote:
    I'm very polite to strangers but I never smile for them. I'm normal with my friends, family and the people I know. I consider myself to be sociable and fun, but not to strangers but am just not the back-slapping, loud-mouthed extrovert :-D

    You sound friendly that's a good thing. A genuine smile can brighten up someones life. So pass it on:)


  7. Lol

     

    I understand what you are saying. He does over do it at times but it's a positive trait of ones character to smile. I can't stand a fake smile and a miserble person who is always serious.

     

    Somalee which category do you fall under?


  8. mahadcaday;905855 wrote:
    In highschool I used to hug girls but after I got more into islam and learned it wrong i weened of it.

    I started by giving high fives instead of hugs

    Then fist pounds instead of high fives

    Then head bonds instead of fist pounds

     

    Truthfully women above the age of 60 I have no problem shaking hand with or even kissing out of respect.

    I try my best to not shake hands with girls 15 59 but when I'm in front of many people I will shake their hand and later explain how I am not supposed to.

    Your better off putting your hands back, and give them a big smile and just make them focus on something else. This is how I deal with those stubborn men who keep trying to shake my hands.

     

    Blessed lol I don't shake hands with women either, I might be a lil ocd.


  9. Alpha Blondy;905823 wrote:
    listen you scorned woman....,

     

    i made my virtual advances to you but you completely ignored me yeah.....i've moved on now and you might as well move on and STOP hating on my latest escapades. STOP being jealous and get on with your life. i'm not coming back. just leave me alone and stop stalking me..OKAY!. have you NO shame......don't you get it or do i have to spell it out for you.....LEAVE ME ALONE.

    Loool You really made me laugh, Did I hit a nerve there Alphy! Ouch!

     

    ...Haha!

     

    =D