
Ms DD
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ah The penny dropped. Jaceyl baa indhaha i tiray oo qalbiga iga qadey
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Inshallah everyone is safe.
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I wonder if there are somalis living in korea?
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Men in polyester shirts open to mid-chest days are over. Now they dance on sideline. I love shy men personally. There is something endearing about them like you wanna mother them and then smother them Pucca and her Ks (khamees, Korean and any other K u can think of
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Why delete it? Do you want me to google for you 'tips for shy girl'?
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DON’T LET THEM SMELL YOUR FEAR Confidence is a very attractive attribute. In fact, most women say that they are drawn to men that project confidence and self-assurance. If you are a shy guy, you are going to have to learn how to project a confident image to the ladies. For one, eye contact is a must. When you meet a woman, you should look her dead in the eyes and smile. If you are looking down at your shoes or around the room, you will come across as being very uneasy and uncomfortable. Secondly, you should project your voice and speak in an audible and clear manner. If you approach a woman and you speak so softly that she has to have you repeat yourself three times, she is not going to be impressed. You will seem meek and timid. Also, don’t cross your arms when you are talking to a woman because this mannerism will make it seem like you are trying to keep yourself closed off from others. Regardless of the inner turmoil that you may be feeling and the butterflies and knots that are dancing around in your stomach, your outward behaviors have to be calculated to project confidence. Practice your introductions in the mirror, and make a conscious effort to keep your head up and your shoulders back. Body language speaks volumes. It may take a while to get the hang of the confident new you, but with practice, anyone can master the art of confident body language. ASK QUESTIONS Sometimes shy men have the tendency to nervously ramble on about themselves, neglecting to take any interest in their dates. It isn’t that shy guys are rude and insensitive; it’s just that they aren’t sure how to handle themselves under pressure. Unfortunately, if you ramble on about yourself, your date is going to think that you are a self-centered egomaniac. Follow the Boy Scout’s motto: always be prepared. If you have an array of possible questions prepared for your date, then you will be able to turn to one of those questions if you are nervously fumbling for conversation. Ask your date about her first job. Ask her about her family. Ask her about her pets, if she has any. Ask her if she has done much traveling, or if she wants to travel. Ask her about her hobbies and special interests. She will be flattered and impressed that you are taking such an active interest in her. Plus, these questions often lead to long conversations and trips down memory lane. The more prepared you are, the less nervous and shy you will appear to your date. CHANGE YOUR INNER DIALOGUE If you are constantly thinking negative thoughts, then you are going to be projecting that negativity onto your dates. The power of positive thinking is incredible. If you are your own worst enemy, then it is no wonder that you are so shy. You aren’t happy with yourself, so you can’t imagine why anyone else would be happy with you. The truth is that you need to revamp your attitude towards yourself in order to overcome your hurdle of shyness. Every time you have a self-defeating thought, question it. For example, if you find yourself saying, “I am a never going to be able to approach that woman because she is going to think I am an ugly loser,” you should reject that thought and deliberately think in the opposite way. Say to yourself: “I am going to approach that woman because I know that I am worth talking to.” If you consistently monitor your negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones, then over time, you will notice that your attitudes start to shift to more positive ones overall. LOOK YOUR BEST The better you look, the better you will feel. A shy man who feels that he is looking good will be far more outgoing than a shy man who thinks he looks like crap. You need to set yourself up for success by dressing to impress. Shy men have a tendency to wear clothes that hide them, such as baseball hats, baggy sweatshirts and loose-fitting apparel. It’s time to come out of hiding! If you are going out on a date, and you are going to be at a somewhat nice restaurant, you should wear a nicely fitted pair of black pants or khakis, a button-down collared shirt, and a tie. Also, make sure that you are clean-shaven (unless you have purposeful facial hair, not just a five o’clock shadow), and make sure that your shoes are shined. If you look the part, you will be much more apt to act the part. DAting tips for shy men
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Malika He told me the £2k. It was a figure i have thrown about once. Xiin They are men and nus. A man who is in touch with his feminity/sensitive is getting 2 for the price of one. Best of both worlds. Ibti Dont knock it till you try nice men CL Hope it isnt long journey home.
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Che The image of masculinity I had in mind..flew thru the window! lool
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Horta adigu qof faymos ah miyaad ahayd? How comes you know the Islamic media? I need you to advertise certain website for me in the near future. With your contacts, i can go far
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Originally posted by xiinfaniin: ^^ If only if such men existed. They do exist Xiin. Dont ruin my fantasy mate! Ibti Are you one of those that needs knocking about in order to be shown love? I heard your type
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BG Yaa sidaa kuu bajiyey? the mean girls? Bark worse than their bite.
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There is something about hands of manicured man.
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CL Sorry macalimadyahey. Marmar jaceyl ayaa i saaqa and your life-saving lessons get thrown thru the window . By the way..working iminkan? in an empty school? That sounds scary. Ibti Go home woman. Make sure you get one of those metrosexual blokes Gello is talking about. Ready bath and cooked food and a bit of massage will be the order of the day after a long day at work/school.
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Che Sometimes I wonder to myself how easily men can be distracted. Ibti..my raalliya days are over as you know but we cant give up on love..it is what keeps me going.
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lol@ stuck for ever War waa maxani qofta..laf jaceyl ahba laguma abuurine.. Till do us apart are the one of the few things that makes me bawl About the course, This is another one. Torch Bearers it is called.
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Girls We somali women are already empowered. Look at every household..we are wiz with figures and sure are very good at balancing the books. But we need to progress from the informal-hagbad/selling katiifad-at-home business and move on to the real word and make some hard money. Experience taught me not to stagnate..( i have done for 7yrs as you know). Anyhow we need to network and make a change. Lets not make others rich. Lets plan ahead (even if you guys work 9-5). Ibti Last course was amazing. There was no dry eyes at the end of the course when the Sheikh said "Mohamed -pbuh is dead". Funnily enough, that is also how he started the course..by saying "mohamed -pbuh is dead" but no emotion come forth. It was quite a journey. I would also recommend families to attend as they have creches etc. Eveyr penny was worth it.
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Osama Loves Channel 4's Search for 500 Faces of Islam By Emdad Rahman UK Correspondent Filmmaker Masood Khan and junior doctor Farrah Jarral. Young British Muslims Farrah Jarral and Masood Khan have a unique task. They have 50 days to meet 500 persons, each called Osama, across the Islamic World, asking each, "What do you love?" The project came about when Channel 4 commissioner, Aaqil Ahmed, who had already commissioned a documentary about the seven wonders of Islam and the Qur'an, asked one of his fellow Commissioners if he had any ideas about how to give an online dimension to his Islamic culture TV season The Wonders of Islam. The Idea The idea, thus, transpired and came to fruition after further discussion took place between Adam Gee, award-winning, London-based, interactive-media producer and commissioner and Andy Bell of Mint Digital, user- generated news website and the production company. Gee discovered through subsequent conversations that Bell has an interest in the spiritual aspects of life, and his insight and knowledge have strengthened after marriage to a Muslim woman. The marriage took place in the sunny climes of Morocco, and his interaction with his new family and relatives made Bell realize that the majority of Muslims believed that the UK coverage of Islam and Muslims was too focused and linked to terrorism. "We bounced a few ideas around, brought in other colleagues from Mint, combined a few themes, and merged some ideas until we had the participative journey that is Osama Loves: Searching for 500 faces of Islam," Gee wrote on his blog. Searching for Osamas Personally, I was immediately attracted to the project after Jemima Gibbons, my good Facebook friend, bought it to my attention. I visited the site and recommended Imam and lecturer Dr. Usama Hasan from Leyton, London, as well as Glasgow's very own Osama Saeed, chief executive of the Scottish-Islamic Foundation, a staunch Rangers supporter. Jarral and Khan record and upload blog entries and video journals on a daily basis, which can be viewed on the project website. Their assignment is aimed at showing the 500 candidates and portray the astute outtake of 50 everyday Osamas that are very different from the notorious Osama bin Laden. In her blog, Jarral spoke about her heading to northern Nigeria searching for Muslims named Osama, "It was like wading through treacle to get here but we finally made it. The vibe is really different up here and you can definitely feel a Muslim identity in the area." "The journey was pretty rough with loads of potholes and breakdowns. I'm so relieved to finally be in northern Nigeria. Today is going to be a fresh start. I'm hoping to explore the city and meet some Osamas." "The only thing that marred my delight at finally arriving in Kano last night was a confrontation with my biggest fear; cockroaches. The size of a moderately plump rodent, one of these Nigerian beasts could probably have one of the rats on the Piccadilly Line in a fight. However, I've been told that this was part of their African continent!" Hana Sayeedi, an accountant from London, is closely following the exploits of Jarral and Khan. She expressed her jubilation, "Congratulations to Messrs Ahmed, Bell and Gee, they're not going to get much interest as it [the show] shows Muslims in a non-demonized state." " Islam doesn't provoke much interest unless they [Muslims] are burning flags or pillaging embassy workers or holding insulting placards. It won't provoke much interest outside of Muslims, but Muslims worldwide will be grateful for the positive break. Put it this way, at least it's better than their annual masterpiece, Big Brother." Not everyone called Osama wants to cause havoc. Osama Loves is a mission to discover the sunnier side of Islam. The clock is ticking, and both Jarral and Khan are going to need all the help they can get in their search for Muslims named Osama. source
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Hello Lily. How is the 9-5?
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Originally posted by NGONGE: ^^ Or they got close(since she was his friends's mother) and found something attractive about each other. It's a strange world you know. Fat guys marry slim girls and tall girls marry short guys and I even once heard of two 'normal' people marrying each other. True romantic you are..if you are looking on the bright side of this story. Why isnt the chatroom working?
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Aaliya Is the chatroom working nowadays?