Harbism Posted April 14, 2003 I am the guy you always have a love / hate relationship with. I am always charming, say things you want to hear. Always full of excuses and give you false promises. I always manage to dominate your live partially or completly whether you know it or not. I always blame you for everything that goes wrong. I use intimidation to get my points accross. I belittle you, if you dare to challenge me to the point that you will never want to challenge me again. I always manipulate you, use you, abuse you, use lies to keep you prisonner. And whenever you had enough, I always turn on the charm side and heats up the romance. Time and again this has always worked because forgiving is your weakness number 3. You always believe that you can fix things up and that you have an obligation to make things work out. I treat you anyway I like because once I have established that I am wonderfull, exciting and fun, I know you can put up with anything and will forgive any bad things. There is no way out for you because nice guys never excite you to the same level. You love the excitement, you endure the pain and you always can’t get enough. This is who you are whether you want to admit it or not. This message may come to you as a shock, but remember, you are what you put up with. It is your decision, not mine. This message was declasified because I know, even if I told you all this, you will still be a bad boy lover. Old habits don’t change over night. Le Harbism….. ************************************************** This is not for the weak of heart, if can’t handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. ************************************************** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaabir Posted April 14, 2003 if the "why girls like bad guys" topic was a human i would have shot em in the head just so it wont be discussed anymore.. Lord have mercy.. it seems we have lots of teenagers here.. Admin can you please put an age disclaimer on SOL so kids wont stress us out with these silly topics.. :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Senora Posted April 14, 2003 damn i thought i was the baddest somali boy on the face of the earth OH whatever!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
finestsista2005 Posted April 14, 2003 Remember guys, you might be exciting and stuff but...if you don't got the dough and a good educatio....nice girls would not look at in the first place. Plus in the end you will definatly choose nice girl for your wife...you know from the begining you be teasing us. It goes both ways. You(bad boys)love us and and you can't live without us ..admit it...bad girls don't entice you as good girls do. We have that charm and mezmerizing look that gets under your skin. We don't have nothing to loose, but you would go crazy if we don't go your way. You do anything to get our attention and to keep us.. you like to play hard ..so guys your game has been heard...we know what you guys are all about. girls have been playing all along..read our rule book......it's in the stores..u might learn some things about us. :rolleyes: I don't thing there are teenagers who are posting these topics...it's the trueth face it....aight... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sofine Posted April 14, 2003 TO EVERY BAD BOY IN THE WORLD THEY'LL FIND A GIRL WHO WILL TAKE THEIR HEART AND BEFORE U KNOW IT THEY ARE THE CHARMING AND ADORABLE...TRUST ME CUZ MY FRIEND USED TO GO OUT WITH DA BADDEST BOY IN(UNKNOWN) CITY AND HE USED TO TREAT GIRLZ LIKE DIRT BUT ONCE HE FIND THE RIGHT ONE HE WAS JUST PERFECT...BELIEVE ME OR NOT THAT IS MY STORY.. SO TO ALL THOSE BAD BOYZ WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harbism Posted April 14, 2003 Darman, let me ask you : Damn!, are you planning to establish the new moral imperative for this forum? Do you think you are the new chief yahoo of this forum? Have you checked lately your mediocre rating? Obviously you haven't been listening to anyone in this forum. And what part of "if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen" you don't understand? And if people don't share with you the same view, they are teenagers? What kind of old school mentality is this? Obviously, you rely too much on all instincts and no brain at all. Surely, your old school mentality would not allow you to see clearly. No doubt, with this mentality, you gonna get wacked everytime whether you like it or not. Peace out. Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weaks of heart, if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. ************************************************** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HONEY-D Posted April 14, 2003 Every thing the bro said is true somewhat I think this post can be benefician to those that see themselves in a player's field and end up fighting a war they know they couldnt win. I am the guy you always have a love / hate relationship with. I am always charming, say things you want to hear. Always full of excuses and give you false promises. I always manage to dominate your live partially or completly whether you know it or not. I always blame you for everything that goes wrong. I use intimidation to get my points accross. I belittle you, if you dare to challenge me to the point that you will never want to challenge me again. I always manipulate you, use you, abuse you, use lies to keep you prisonner. That explains why such women Keep runing back to the prison they've been for long. I guess its hard for them to adapt a normal life or to have someone who gives them the kind of respect they deserve. I treat you anyway I like because once I have established that I am wonderfull, exciting and fun, I know you can put up anyting and will forgive any bad things. There is no way out for you because nice guys never excite you to the same level. You love the excitement, you endure the pain and you always can’t get enough. This is who you are whether you want to admit it or not. I call that low-self steem. What is so excited abt being with a guy who hurts u in every way he can. But i guess sum women tend to enjoy that kind of life. :rolleyes: This message may come to you as a shock, but remember, you are what you put up with. It is your decision, not mine. This message was declasified because I know, even if I told you all this, you will still be a bad boy lover. Old habits don’t change over night. I couldnt agree with u more. :confused: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harbism Posted April 14, 2003 FirstLady wrote: girls have been playing all along..read our rule book......it's in the stores..u might learn some things about us. looool, do you know that the women who wrote that book, Fein, could not even save her own marriage. I saw that book back in 95 and I didn't see anything that changed. Besides, some of thoses rules are unrealistic. Most badboys know the games women play and they will always adjust to that. Peace out Le Harbism..... ************************************************** This is not for the weaks of heart, if you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen. ************************************************** Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bambina Posted April 15, 2003 Salam everyone ,hey Harbi ur concept of harbism doesnt even change on dis site ,damn I thought I was dreamin when I saw "Harbism" ,ur messin in the djibnet and now ur tryin dat in here,lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harbism Posted April 15, 2003 Hey Bambina, Are you stalking me again or what? Where ever I go you keep following me, Hmmmm. Honey, I know you like my wicked style, but let's solve this out of court...loool Le Harbism Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewel Posted April 15, 2003 Harbism, u basically spelled out what weak, insecure women like, and how easy it is for "men" like u to prey on them. Good of u to remind us what boys can get away with these days, and dumb females who come back for more. Good job. Ladies, for those that love "bad boys", i do not blame them for mistreating women who love to be mistreated, who love the idea of being the victim. What ever happened to demanding respect? Standing up for urself? Whatever happened to having a back bone and expecting as good as u give, if u treat ur man right, he should reciprocate, if not, then it's ur fault for being with him. My idea of an exciting man is one with a job, that is funny, respectable, intriguing, above all REAL...not a wannabe that wants to impress his boys with what he can get away with from being with frail women. I wonder how many bad boys would exist if all women thought of themselves as deserving of more than a pre-teen kid. just a thought. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harbism Posted April 15, 2003 Jewel wrote: My idea of an exciting man is one with a job, that is funny, respectable, intriguing, above all REAL...not a wannabe that wants to impress his boys with what he can get away with from being with frail women. I wonder how many bad boys would exist if all women thought of themselves as deserving of more than a pre-teen kid. Jewel, let face it, you are making allegations and stereotypes that doesn't hold water. The descriptions of your ideal man are the typical badboys, they are real, exciting, respectable, intriguing, financially stable,care less about impressing others. In fact they fit like a glove the description you gave us above. I think you got the wrong idea of what a boy is or isn't. They come from all walk of life. You remember O.J. Le Harbism..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bambina Posted April 15, 2003 Wazuuuuup Harbi since when have i followed u ?,honey ur terribly wrong ,I like ur style das definetly true.But dont worry I wont try to pursue u on dis site, djibnet is enough ,lol.Take care Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jewel Posted April 16, 2003 Harbism, u're the one who got it all wrong. My ideal man is REAL, meaning that they don't have to be something else to impress others, which is something bad boys try to do, impress their friends. Get ur facts straight. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harbism Posted April 16, 2003 loool Jewel, Your personnality type shows you are more likely be dating a badboy than others... It's always the same music that is being played over and over again. Girls like you always end up with badboys, believe it or not... And guess what you will never know you are dating a badboy until it's too late anyway. So before, you point finger at me, do your homework....loool And by the way enjoy the ride honey... Le Harbism..... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
