Xafsa

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  3. Posted

    I want:

    tall

    handsome

    dark but not too dark and not light.

    rich and humble

    educated and wise

    religious

    well dressed

    Great personality

    Well built--good sized muscles

    teaches at the masjid on his spare time as well as feeds the poor and the orphans.

    runs a non-profit organization that is working towards bettering (new word :cool: ) of the muslim people all over the world

     

     

    should I continue?

  9. Posted

    Bismillaah Ar-RaHmaan Ar-RaHeem

     

    As-Salaamu `Alaikum wa RaHmatullaahi wa Barakaatuh

     

    According to Abdallaah bin Bakr bin Habeeb al-Sahmee: We were told by a man in the mosque of al-Junaabidh that `Umar bin `Abd al-`Azeez delivered a sermon to the people in Khunaasirah in which he said:

     

    O people, you were not created in vain, nor will you be left to yourselves [see 75:36]. Rather, you will return to a place in which Allaah will descend in order to judge among you and distinguish between you. Destitute and lost are those who forsake the all- encompassing mercy of Allaah, and they will be excluded from Paradise, the borders of which are as wide as the heavens and the earth. Don't you know that protection, tomorrow, will be limited to those who feared Allaah [today], and to those who sold something ephemeral for something permanent, something small for something great, and fear for protection? Don't you realize that you are the descendants of those who have perished, that those who remain will take their place after you, and that this will continue until you are all returned to Allaah? Every day you dispatch to Allaah, at all times of the day, someone who has died, his term having come to an end. You bury him in a crack in the earth and then leave him without a pillow or a bed. He has parted from his loved ones, severed his connections with the living, and taken up residence in the earth, whereupon he comes face to face with the accounting. He is mortgaged to his deeds: He needs his accomplishments, but not the material things he left on earth.

     

    Therefore, fear Allaah before death descends and its appointed times expire. I swear by Allaah that I say those words to you knowing that I myself have committed more sins than any of you; I therefore ask Allaah for forgiveness and I repent. Whenever we learn that one of you needs something, I try to satisfy his need to the extent that I am able. Whenever I can provide satisfaction to one of you out of my possessions, I seek to treat him as my equal and my relative, so that my life and his life are of equal value. I swear by Allaah that had I wanted something else, namely, affluence, then it would have been easy for me to utter the word, aware as I am of the means for obtaining this. But Allaah has issued in an eloquent Book and a just example (sunnah) by means of which He guides us to obedience and proscribes disobedience.

     

    He lifted up the edge of his robe and began to cry and sob, causing the people around him to break into tears. Then he stepped down. That was the last sermon he gave before he died, may Allaah have mercy on him.

     

    For variant versions of this sermon, see Ibn `Abd al-Hakam, Seerah 43-45, 132-33; Ibn Katheer, Bidaayah, IX, 199; This translation was taken from The History of al-Tabaree, Vol XXIV, by D.S.Powers/

  12. Posted

    good point...I know what you mean.

    but I'm thinking that it will save the parents of the girl/boy alot of pain,heart ache and embarassment if she/he was just up front with them.

    As for the guy they aint gonna kill you....its just words... besides.."haddaad guursatid ha i sheegan willkeeyga ama gabadheeyda ma tihid ee guriga iiga bax" ka badan miyaa?

     

    Sometimes you need to be strong...especially with parents.

  13. Posted

    Originally posted by JamaaL-11:

    quote:saas baa sharaftu ku jirtaa

    Flying-still,

     

    laakiin wejigee loogu tagaa reerka uu 14 jirku ka dashay? Balse hadii si toos ah loo abaaro reerka, ma suurta galbaa in gabadha iyo wiilka la isu ogolaado si la isugu guuriyo, da' yaraantooda awgeed?

     

    On the other hand, I do believe its conceivable to see younger brothers and sisters who are physically ready to engage in matters such as marriage. Lakin, the mental readiness is what I am not sure of.

     

    Its obvious that no matter what is said or thought they were gonna be together...I'm thinking if they stated their purpose that they would have gotton alot more respect from the parents its shows a level of maturity. But to run away?...thats just childish to me. I'm not saying that if they told the parents that they would have been ok with it...but at least if they told them and then they can go ahead do what they want.

  14. Posted

    We have to remember to moisturize our whole body!! We put so much time into our face that we tend to forget about the rest of the skin.........don't use those freshly scented lotions....cocoa butter works great. you should out lotion all over your body twice a day.

     

    drink lots of water...clears up skin.

    if you use powder of makeup remember to wash your face every night. don't use alot of make-up..... bad for skin. exercise as often as possible its good inside and outside of your body.

     

    deep condition your hair once a week at least and, like maliakah said, trim the ends.

    oh and chap stick!!....don't ever leave home with out it....thats my seceret weapon!

    thats all folks.

  22. Posted

    ^^^ I'm looking for the abaays with their hijaabs too. Like Rahiima said you can wear one or the other depending on your mood. the jordanian lady your talking about...does she have store in the somali mall of st.paul?