Ibtisam

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  1. ^^^Her Farah who is in Kenya! she is checking he has not married yet! Sorry about Qarxiis.com @ CL
  2. I give up! @ LOZ I dunno as yet,(everyone seems to be having a pary this year) It is too cold, watch the fireworks on TV YOU?
  3. @ LOZ WHen you say "you" yaad sheegi? MS DD I dunno. CL: Erm an old friend mine WHy are you here?
  4. Lool we were doing fine with our Q & A till we got invaded by the new arrivals can you lot go and do some work and leave us real trolls alone!
  5. ^^Is that a question? and Leesh are me and Val Tacbaaniin??
  6. @ CL, Mine was to achieve something... I don't know if I have achieved anything in the year that is finishing...so I guess....no. MS DD, dossing. WHo understands you the most?
  7. ^^^Same thing you are doing here What attracts you the most? (people, life, money, sheep...knock yourself out)
  8. Yusuf Garad as in the BBC dude? and Abdi Ismael Samater as in the professor?? what an odd criteria! WHat is the criteria and can the somali "man" of the year be a women?
  9. @ Kahina lool @ multiple personalities disorder, since it is a disorder, would you not like to change that then?? .. By the way adapting to different personalities and situations is not multiple personality What makes me different?? Everything, I'm a freak. When are you going to make "it Happen" (whatever it is you are trying to do in life)
  10. @ Khaina. Mashaalaah and I hope you (we) do. What ticks me off: People who lie (any form or shape) Bob, loool who are you shouting at? hehe Where would you change immediately about your personality if you could?
  11. Neither did I^ Eid Mubaarak To You All, hope you had (and still having) tons of fun.
  12. ^^Yes, happiness is something that only you can provide for yourself, it is suicide to lump your happiness with someone else. The most desirable thing to you.
  13. @ Lily^^^Not to be!. Some people can, but I already feel 70 now, when I'm 40, I'd feel 100!! lool @dance till you collapse, you all have too much energy, I would just sleep. Best place in the world right now. (that you know of obviously)
  14. I assure you, anigo kaal maad aarkin! lool. You would have scars to prove it if you came to me with your sampling nonsense.
  15. ^^^You know what guys like you are called? :rolleyes: sampled kuulaah. Waali! lol Hang on,... in this controlled study you married your participants? lool yaabka yaabkii indeed. I cannot comment on this, I did not do a sample of any sort, let alone by different parts of Somalia. Loool. Thanks for the laugh though.
  16. ^^^For one, my body will start to give up at 40 (if not before) and secondly by then I would have lived the best part of life, why ruin it by living another 40 long years with health issues, global warming, more sins, old age, dependency and even worse possible returning to the state of child and not being able to do most things yourself, loosing your mind, being a burden on people.... the list is endless. What is the most emotional rewarding thing in your life?
  17. ^^I agree, no need to insult her as a person. I don’t care what the secessionists think, or what the looters, clan courts think. What matters is the interest of the Somali people. I am assume "secessionists" are not Somali?? well great, that is settled. The poor, Somal's who for 16 long years have been denied the services, jobs and opportunites available to most of the worlds population. From a personal experience, the SL people's terms; DO IT YOURSELF service operates very well. I'm sure the same principle will operate just as well in Xamar if you would stop shooting at innocent people long enough. They will make their own opportunities and jobs if you and your thugs would just let them live! :mad: Opening a little rat hole in China and India is not going to make the life’s of people in the south any easier, it just means more money in the war lords pockets, and more holidays in the name of Somali.
  18. ^^40 What keeps you going from one day to the next.
  19. Ibtisam

    La Veil

    *Blessed I purchased 15 all together from Syria, I gave them all away apart from one. Most was plain, because I don't like patterned ones, but the fit was beautiful and few simple patterns. Some I got as cheap as £5! Lool, My driver was the best haggler in the world, although he abused Allah's name.
  20. ^^^I slept thorough the day and the following night. How was yours?
  21. ^^Hello Hope you all had a fab Eid and enjoy your holidays and happy new yr.
  22. Can I just add Serenity In recent times Businessmen (in particular) and locals have realised that their interest is in stability and a measure of law and order,( a change in mindset) before the US/Ethiopian invasion these ideas were becoming increasingly powerful and popular, one of the things that allowed the ICU to get support and funding. Moreover large-scale violence and warlordism had proven to be largely unsustainable in the long run and people had started to see the benefits of having in place peace and stability and that was not us helping them out by any means, so again your statement that they do not want to change their conditions is not supported. If nothing else the ICU time showed a relative resurgence in the role and social power of the "people" which as you know was also helpful in promoting reconstruction in Somaliland.
  23. Ibtisam

    La Veil

    Hey Ms DD . Good to see you back sis. I need to check out that place before Eid...or maybe before summer. What are the prices like hoorta? I refuse to buy a Abayah for more than £15, as they are less £8 in Muslim countries. Unless they are out of this world and make me look absolutely fabulous, which I highly doubt.!
  24. Ngonge, since I live near you and all can I have the coupon for the Swedish massage please I mean why do you need it for?? :confused:
  25. Kashafa Good ideas there and not a bad speech, and yes those are all little things you can do to do your part. Lily I think we shouldn't forget that a huge chunk of the Somali population lives on the kindess and genorosity of their brethen abroad who send them money every month. It was only last year I read that in Minneapolis alone $75 million was sent to Somalia over a 5 year period And what of the other junk, who is going to help them, it is true that those who have relatives abroad are able to survive and maybe even get away from the immediate conflict, but regardless of how hard people in the west work, we will never be able to sustain the whole population of the country, and their dependence could only continue for so long. Everyone deserves to make it on their own rather waiting on hand-outs. Often hand-out due to their dependency nature create the problem, as people just wait for their monthly bill rather than trying to think of innovative methods of earning a livelihood, or changing their life or becoming self sufficient even with the absence of conflict (Somaliland is a perfect example) with nearly 60% of the national income being remittance. Nomadique- I could not agree more Cara thanks, but I’m a firm believer that everyone has it them, some just need to dig deeper than others, and lord knows I had to dig deep!. Urban I don’t know what I will find for you, but I am looking and I’m confident there is something that you can do within your ability, when I find it I will send it your way inshalllah Lool @ Thierry Caamir Yes there is a significant difference. You have a problem with that? I’m not interested in your benefit of the doubt of anything. Serenity Ghamina, I think there comes a time when one has to evaluate their life and what they hope to get out of it. Unfortunately for some of us in the west, that path in life doesn't include spending humongous amount of time and energy in a country, where the daily reality doesn't effect us in the least, especially when one has to live their own life and have their own personal/family ambitions to fulfill, and the people who live there do not wish to be their own vanguards. when will you get my name right hortaa? So basically what you are saying is that, “I have far too much to cope with as it is, the happenings of Somalia does not affect my daily life at all and I have my own life to live and my own ambitions to reach” That in itself I have not problem with, you can have your life, and aim high for your dreams and ambitions, doing something for them does not mean you have to stop doing your own thing, sometimes it can mean simply succeeding in your life and helping other Somalis to achieve better and bigger things. But I do have a problem with the last bit, please take a look at the current situation and tell me that those people have the opportunity to be their own anything let alone vanguards? Most are on survival mode, and cannot see pass today and tomorrow because of all the daily reality they have to deal with. In most of the examples you cited, the people who the status quo effected directly became pioneers for change. There are people who have been trying to achieve change, make things better, build and rebuild, they have the ideas, I promise you there is not a shortage of ideas. They understand their environment and conditions far better than us, and they know what it takes to survive. What they lack is, the means to fulfil those ideas and possible practicality.On occasions or for the most part, the masses lack the people who will turn those ideas into reality. The people who sustain the status quo are those who are currently benefiting, they may have made a decision to keep things this way, but the masses are always one step behind, living in a condition created to keep them trapped. Its less motivating to do something for our people more than the monthly allowance we send back, simply because Somalis in the west have their own reality of life in the west to deal with. Firstly our realities in the west are not as challenging or as life threatening as the ones they face, nor can we draw such a comparison, furthermore I never said you had to stop doing what you are doing. The change does not necessarily have to be in Somalia. The same failures that are keeping Somalia underdeveloped and backwards are the very same reasons that the Somali communities in the diaspora are under performing and falling apart. Take a look at the condition of our community in Britain, show me how we have influenced or integrated into our new society? I would not even mind if we had a future here or shined as a community and are succeeding. For the most part we are not, we live in ghetto areas and hang off the fringe of society. We are fast to point out the failure of the Somalis back home who are struggling with the worse conditions ever, but what about the communities we live in, what makes us better, more successful (even with all the opportunities available to us) Where is our vanguard to help us cope with our own realities? Perhaps we can most benefit them by helping ourselves. What can one really do externally for people who don't buy humanity or reason? And whose greatest strength is reserved for bringing down all thats progressive? Come on! You know this is an inherent Somali quality. Really, Now you are just ranting, it is not a Somali “quality" (if it can be called that) and factually flawed, nor can you make such mass generalization about their humanity and reason. It is very unfair of you and unsound. Where Somalia is concerned, there is little Somalis in the west can do, unless they are willing to move lock stock and barrel and become part of reality on the ground. I've yet to see many volunteers on that front. But it seems a lot of people sleep better by convincing themselves they are ready to do something. If Somalis abroad helped themselves and achieved something as a community it is good enough. People in Somalia have coped and will continue to cope with their realities with or without our help. In any case the essence of a vanguard is to fill the current vacuum with practical ideas or help turn those ideas into reality (for Somalia or individual Somali communities around the world), which you can do from the relative safety and comfort of your home and without putting your life on hold or move lock stock and barrel. As for your last sentence, again seems like you are judging a pair of shoes with out trying them on,(you know they always look more comfortable than they actually are) for most, the thought keeps them awake in search for a solution or inspiration. Jimcaale That is a really good example actually. Thanks. All good things said about Somalis; they fall short on Amr bil-macruuf Wa-nah canil Munkar. Regardless the circumstance or place, qabiil takes precedence over the common good & welfare of the society and deen. Allah doesn't change people until they do. Some problems in Somalia, same divides in our host countries. We just imported all our differences and they are as prevalent as ever. In any case I guess for some of us, we have families, mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters etc so it is very much a reality for some of us. :cool: