Ibtisam

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  1. ^^^I've told you before ya Ngonge. Suuqa haa iiga xiidiin. My PM's have been flowing a lot slower since you started that rumour.
  2. ^^^^Well a nucas or a miskeen guy won't even notice. But I doubt either is what she is looking for. Well I guess you can work with a miskeen, have him on leash lol although it will get annoying sooner or later. I don't know why people waste their and others time. :rolleyes: IT is a sign of ciyaal suuqnimo.
  3. My dear, you are the last peson who could help ME with THAT regard. Effort= negative dear. P.s. I've been back 2times since
  4. Ngonge, leave the girl alone, you have posted nothing but utter rubbish as usual. Sister does not sound like she si ready for marriage. Don't push her off the bridge!
  5. ^^^Loool. Right on. IF iT feels like you are putting in effort then you are doing too much, if it is mutual it will be effortless. In any relationship, be friends, family etc. Once you start to notice your effort, take a step back.
  6. ^^^I think for most mature people it backfires, I mean really who has the energy these days? Pluz there is a difference between keeping them keen and Love.
  7. You are going to apply to your life, what a bunch of SOL nomads tell you to do?? Dear nikaaga haa iska eeryin by mistreating him on SOL say so. Treat people how you would like to be treated and don't make your own life more difficult. P.s. You cannot mistreat him to loving you dear, he either does or he don't. Move on if he does not, there are plenty more around.
  8. Looool @ Faynuus. Girl has jokes! HEHE lool
  9. ^^^Don't Know how to post pics. SO I'll just watch you and Nephy rock on.
  10. Why I'm on the list?? :confused: :rolleyes: Adopting Bush terminology does not go down too well dear. N.B Please note you have entered my ocean YET again. Whatever response you get from here on you deserve and is warranted, whayo you have made it your business to conduct a headhunt. Don't start Ooyiin when aan kuu soo jeesto. You should be able to take as good as you get soomaah P.s. I'm assume you are dedicating a whole thread to certain people whose name I currently do not see? Cheers.
  11. Get a new job that you enjoy, if you can afford to do so. In any case there is never a good time to leave work without having another one in line, because you get too comfortable there. SO if you have the opportunity and chance take a leave and off you go. It is not worth making yourself feel horrid for money so if you hate it so much, leave it ASAP.
  12. Loool Cuunah laa hayeh. I like too. Geel J you can get your own one to show support.
  13. ^^^^YOu think?? Cajeeb. P.s. There is something about this month I think. Or maybe Older SOL members are hitting midlife crisis. IT is shame that it the old school SOLers, who are supposedly more mature that have been trashing SOl and offending simple human decency. Subxanallah this is sad. :eek:
  14. ^^^WHo me?? lol. I just found it funny that a someone who does not have a reason other than because they feel like self imposed abstinence thinks they will master the self control to follow thorough. The ones who have a reason (religion, culture etc) have a hard time as it is, let alone those who just feel like doing it for the sake of not having sex. I just don't think it is possible. Someone needs a solid reason to justify something like that and follow it. I'm advocating for protection, one way or another.
  15. ^^^^ERm I can't speak for him, but I'm not anytime soon. WHY?
  16. Sugar Love. Even if you did meet someone now, you will never meet their deadline of marrying at 25. My advise is you are happy and comfortable with your age and the stage you are in life, don't pay anyone no mind, regardless of what they say. I firmly believe the reason people worry when their daughters do not marry early is because they believe they need to feel that their daughter is taken care or and settled. But you sound like you have your life going on for you, and there is nothing you currently do not have that a man can give you. P.s. IT is a myth that there are no nice/ good looking over 25 guys left who are unmarried. I see nice guys all the time. So don't pressure yourself into thinking you have to settle for less simple because you've reached a mythical deadline of 25. P.s.s. Finally it depends on how important marriage is to you, and how much you want it. Be honest with yourself. P.s.s.s. Live life for you and not for everyone else. If you get married for the wrong reason you will live to regret it. My 4cents
  17. Roasters is.... how shall I say it... hmmm. It does nice tea, that is about it. Everything else looks really nasty.
  18. ^^^Depends on whether you know where to go or not, but obviously prices have gone up on everything including chewing gum, but some places are much cheaper than others.
  19. you will make Baby Jesus cry if you do the nasty!" HAHA lool. I met for the first time someone who is in one of these abstinence organisations, they have 300 members and have a good support system going. I had a bet of how long she will last.
  20. ^^^Living is East London has its advantages.
  21. ^^^Loool Marc, I did not see you there, I was far too busy catching up with all my family in any case.
  22. Cara; spend it on lunch and dinner 2morrow That happened to you before?? :eek: Girl you are too nice for your own good!! :cool:
  23. Koora I really cannot figure you out, you remind me of "Me". I don't get what the point of your thread is?? Or is it a case of posting anything you can find a random source for? :rolleyes: