Ibtisam

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  1. ^^^I don't want to spoil you minimal optimism and semi- confidence waalalo. What if my crazy scenarios scare and scar you for live, what if they shatter your confidence and you vow to never go down that road. What if I get punished for this when I die or you (due to the nightmare scenarios) become old, childless and bitter and curse me for convincing you for the negative aspect rather than pointing out the positive. What if what I say is so bad that it determines what some people do with their future, or it shapes a little girls mind. You see, I can be responsible for my choices, but I cannot, CAnnot be responsible for convincing someone of something that is so wrong both in life and in Islam. Can you imagine if someone said “because of you, I have decided against marriage” I mean the chance of it happening are very very rare, but what if….. Is it a chance your willing to take, because I am not… Therefore your question shall remain unanswered. At least by me.
  2. I gave birth 3 times and now planning for baby 4, i want have as many kids insha Allaah. Really? Mashallah, How old are you and can you have just two for me??? Seriously mashallah.
  3. ^^^I figured it out! Wooho. Never mind about this one. I need a similar one for the budget and actual spending for the last few years. Any idea where I can get that??
  4. ^^^^ Well I hope this virus soon pass. Neph you could not resist miiyah.
  5. Don't try it, Just do it please. I need it. I tried to print it, it is protected. :rolleyes:
  6. ^^^^Loool, yes you are missing something, and let me tell you what it is.... You seem to think there is logic and sense in this. This is just a few people being ciyaal, few taking the mick, while one person capitalize on all of you getting your knickers in a twist. In short it is paranoia.com + confusion +number waaxiid ciiyaal suuq = Cay
  7. ^^^Loool. YEP. You are too sharp for your own good sister!.
  8. ^^Easy dear, there is no point.
  9. JAc Can you e-mail this to me. I need it for reference. I cannot find the authors? so I'm to assume it is from the official government report?? P.s. I cannot find anything about the external finances, such as Aid, is there a different section for this?? if so can you e-mail me that as well?? Thanks in advance.
  10. ^^^The family may be heading home end of summer, I thought I might go half way to Burco with them and then fly back.
  11. ^^^Ask for general anaesthetics, none of that crazy thing where they just put your stomach to sleep and you can see them moving around from behind your curtain, and a shot of morphine for the first few days (careful you don’t become an addict!) and then pain killers for few more days. I'll tell you what I'll send you a PM when I get there, you will be in your 30's not too late to pop one or two. Sheherazade! lol He is never going to eat baasto now! hehe.
  12. ^^^Oh, Jan 09 is so far
  13. She, don't move good topics from the women section dee. I know this topic has nothing to do with women, but it may get people to post better topics in that section. But since you moved it never mind, nothing constructive will happen in the women section.
  14. ^^What is wrong with Taxi?? Other than their bad driving??
  15. ^^^Really?, Well in that case thank god for the edit button. Although I think you guys are over estimating their ability.
  16. She I think everyone including the sisters would've missed it if it was not for you bloody thread! Only Malika would've picked up on it. Goes back to edit her post as She let the cat out of the bag North, Lordy Subxanallah. Edit: She Now we can talk about it.
  17. ^^^^Loool, maybe you can arrange for a few to land on his plate for dinner shez. lol
  18. ^^Soor just means food, so you had food for lunch?? instead of what?? Malika yeah; It is my first home. But not feeling too good, so I might head to my second home and to bed.
  19. ^^^Can I please answer that, I have so many scenarios of the worse that can happen, all as bad as each other. On the other hand the scenarios of things going right are so few. But the reasons to get married remain solid, but... never mind, I think I'm going in a circles. P.s. Ameen where have you been? Then I will tell you what you want to know Loool @firstlady!
  20. TT Lool I don't blame you. I stayed with my habaryaar when she was giving birth when I was about 17, because her damn husband kept running away and it scared me for life. No, no never ever, no no, I still remember all too vividly. (she on the other hand has had 3more since) :rolleyes: Anyway in the event that I do get pregnant, I'm going to have a planned C-section, and it is not because I'm too posh to push.
  21. Loool^^^ nin waalan. Stop hanging around with kids...Oh I forgot you don't have much choice in that matter. Never mind. Firstlady why don't you post yours first? I think Cara was referring to the mini essays on the politics section with short creative and mostly fiction fantasises.
  22. ^^^Don't you mean somewhere?? It is sunny in central today.
  23. Waali.com When will this madness end :rolleyes:
  24. Looool I swear I was wondering what on earth barsad was! lol HAHa. P.s. Ngonge will not reach even those on the market, shelf, or lying in barsad lt alone pedestal. P.s.s. erm is barsad not also the same as daarata?