Ibtisam

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  1. ^^^I don't think money is the kind to beat his sister and cousin for "just in case" they may have been walking on the wrong side of the road. I doubt he would start now. In any case these are not children, they are at uni, and since he is in a different country, they can afford to act good when he is around and then wild out the rest of the time. The fact they did not even do that says a lot in itself. My edo always use to say while someone is too ashamed to do soemthing in front of people, there is hope, once it becomes a normal thing for them, they no longer see it as a problem. I do not think these girls see their life style as "wrong" therefore beating them will have little impact, it would just push them fruther away and isolate them.
  2. ^^Says the man who makes East london his first stop after landing. There is no home like East London and my bangali family! So much love and things to do.
  3. Well since I am now unemployed and the sun is back mashallah, I shall do inshallah. Shaaqo ayaan kaa digaan. They may never want to return to ya!
  4. ^^^Loool okay then, we'll keep em for longer! I mean you should just said yes, I was trying to help a brother out!
  5. ^^Ma waali baa ku soo heese dear? that is what happens when left home alone. I'm start guilt tripping someone if you continue to act strange.
  6. ^^^Which Cara guessed about 4pages back! What a mad world. :cool: I put my money on the extreme deforestation. She just objected to the groom being so well groomed.
  7. Money, just a few things... 1)They see you as an agreeable mug, and you have no control over them. The audacity of asking your relative to finance your bad habits is an illustration of this. I am surprised that as the “male cousin” you do not have any authority or even command a level of secrecy/respect which will at least make them attempt to hide their habits. In light of this you really are in no position to try and get them to change their behaviour. ALL you can do is advise them against this habit and leave it at that. Telling their parents will not really achieve anything, most parents think their kids are perfect regardless and the kids will find a way to spin what you saw, or it will just be your words against theirs. 2)You sister is a different case; while the cousins are not your responsibility, it is your duty to ensure your sister is in a good environment. Ideal she should be somewhere where you or another member of your family can monitor her and be aware of what she is doing. I don’t know where people get the idea that they can drop their teenagers (particularly girls) in a society where they must fit in with the popular culture, and then leave them there for a whole three years :confused: So as Adam said talk to your parents and between you, work out where and who she is going to stay with. 3)Lastly I cannot believe you are so calm and accepting of their behaviour, what do you eat?? I need to give whatever has you so calm to my hot headed cousins. Ps. I’m sure the liberals will show up soon, muttering something about she is an adult, right to do as she/they will, make her own mistake, experience and experiment etc. It is all lies I tell ya, ignore them, you need to put your sister in a good environment which will not hinder her education or Islamic values.
  8. It was not that bad, why did u make such who-haa about it, and then posted it, and now deleted it :confused:
  9. For the first time in ages, I slept, and slept some more, whole 8hours for two nights in a row Wow feels goooooooooooooood
  10. He has actually had a second album released 2007 which went top 5 in the US and Top five in the UK not to mention sales in the rest of europe. He had number 1 single superstar out late last year early this year. his album was probably the best hip hop album of 07. He is only going to release one more solo album before he finishes with music. He, kanye west and pharrell williams are planning to releases album (when they all finish touring) no name yet but the group is supposedly called CLR (child rebel soldier). Hes got clothing business in japan and soon to be in cities in US. I think that article was slightly premature in plotting the insignificance and strength of lupe fiasco's album. It is true that Food and Liquor was NOT a great album but it was essentially a collection of random songs with little cohesion and lacked a fluid concept. But his second album, The Cool its just as good lyrically but also deals with concepts that are interelated, classic album if your a fan. By the way, XXL is a terrible music magazine. It only promotes (in a positive light) rappers that it knows gain huge following that in all honesty lack any originality. I cant believe you read that mag Xpatra! In any case lupe fiasco is the best hip hop artist to emerge in the last 5 years at least, if not longer, just a shame that he wont be in the game for much longer. :cool:
  11. ^^^^Looool. I'm sure I will. Just watched on show on ornithocherius. The ending was so sad
  12. A&T I no longer read any threads you author. I thought there is no reason for me inaad naaqaaska kuku deejiyo, or offend my senses and waste my time. Therefore no need forgiveness, the place is big enough so maah. Geel_J you you can say that again. I'm sad I have to go to the shop to get milk though! Is there a disorder which makes you hate leaving your house?? :confused: I just want to stay in doors.
  13. ^^^^ :confused: what did you say waalalo and in english?
  14. ^^Damn you made m choke on my shaah biikaas! Loool @ that not us! to be honest I don't mind being that child, she looks so happy What on earth is manly somali! hahaha loool
  15. ^^^Loooooooooooooooool^ Fuuleey! You got defeated by a fly! hehehe Loool. I'm just having breakfast... O:
  16. Oh lord mercy. No wonder Africa is burning. How can we burn a human being collectively and watch them. I'm sure some even enjoy it. Subxanallah.
  17. ^^^WHy would you burn a person, even a thief!? :eek: Acudubililah...
  18. ^^^Loool FB, sucker!
  19. Ibtisam

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    STOIC: Bless her, she has you whipped and trained. Congrats to the sister, so so proud of her! Can’t remember, but I kind of remember. Ngonge okay then, I will. :cool:
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    ^^^Loooool^^ haha are you getting him back for the dream
  21. Ibtisam

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    If you are on FB, just get Cadaan to add you, if you are not, get someone to lend you their password and username, but since no one will do that, set up and account and get an invite by cadaan. Maybe you need to see what I see before you tell me to do my worse
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    ^^^Stoic, I saw you on someone else list as well! and their are many pictures of Ngonge. Ngonge, don't make me do it!
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    YEs, you could not possible imagine what I can do with your picture on FB. You better be nice to me from now on or else! lool MAlika, I thought so....