I agree with Bella, women should be women. I mean what could possible be better than being at your husband peck and call from when you reach 20 till your are old and grey.? Surely it is very rewarding. Don't get me wrong it might get a bit boring, annoying, but from time to time he'll throw you a few pounds your way to run to the shop and buy what he likes on you, then you can play dress up. I think it is great. I mean he will have no reason to divorce you ever, and being divorce is so so so bad, I mean which normal women wants to be divorced? You should try your best not to get divorced and normally the blame nearly always with working those far too liberal, uncultured western women who forgot their roots. SO yes I'm with Bella, women must remain women P.s. Keep on breaching, don’t mind these girls, your ideas are very noble and perfect. Unfortunately not everyone can think like you.

AAliyah I'm already lossing hair and weigh, I don't want to die! If you are willing to wait till I beef up again (Jan) Then wait. Ms. DD, check ur FB in fact come Fb chat!

^^Go for a jog then, 15mins, or skip dinner. Alhumdulilah.

^^^That is a different discussion for another time. In any case it is nor here or there, it is too late, so same song, let hope history does not repeat itself, because deep down that is what they fear most!

^^^No, people use to live on dates and water for months. It is the best diet possible I think. I threw the milk in so your bones done crack Don't sue me for it all goes wrong, I've never tried it!

^^^Stop eating all food, apart from dates and water and skim milk. Eat as many dates and as often as you like, same goes for water, drink milk five times a day. Do this for a week and then easy back into your normal food intake. It is called the Muslim diet and it is copyright to me. How you doing Aaliyah??

^^^No and nor does history. :cool: In anycase, I don't think bring Four clans together will slove much either. Lets see of 2 1/2 clans can agree in the south sometime in the future, don't worry about the 1 1/2 in the north. Castro I am aware of that, it is a glass house most of the time.

^^^^Looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooodoes their ayeyo wear track suit/tshit/sunglasses and have an ipod on her ear?..Belaayo!looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooool Lol Lol Lol Ayeyo Looooooooooooooooooooool ,"gormee babigaa dalaneysaa?" Aaaah Kids, yaa tiilaah! lol Well I dropped out of this group and then I lost weigh, so I don't think you should join them, they will jinx you So I'm back to my normal food intake of junk. Looooooooooooool does their ayeyo wear track suit/tshit/sunglasses and have an ipod on her ear?..Belaayo! Loooooooool

When I give in my thesis in August Inshallah I will share the reliable statistics with regards to the economic condition of Somaliland. This guy although there is truth in most of what he claims is mixing a lot of things up and his research is just observation, which does not necessarily translate to overall good or bad overall economic prospect . There are much better quality sources and research on Somaliland’s current economic position which people can post.

^^^Do you make a habit of eying up poor waados in Xaaax khamis yaa Cabdiyo! You are dangerous! Loool I just had an image of you qiishiin a waada! looool Hahahahah P.s. I do agree, some guys can carry it off well

^^^Come on be practical will ya, do you know how many clans there are! In any case what you pointed out is the common grounds not grievances, which I sure those from Burco, Hargisa and Berber will be concerned about too. And if the proposals or the conditions of the south are conducive to those concerns, I’m sure any sane person will stay in their cave, just like they are doing now and rightly so. Secondly if people from SOol & Sanaag and Awaal have no grievances against the south, then what does it matter if they send one oodey with SL crew or come alone as a clan?? I can understand if they had different grievances. In any case we are arguing about lots of “if’s” again and in the process going in circles, back to what we already agreed ya che.

Just for the day. but I'll be back in August. I'll be self employed again for a while, with lots of time to kill. Good to see you too. Mwaah. Buuxo you as well

I have a headach that kill a small bird.

^^^Maybe not, [i was not there] but Che and few others on this forum think this, so I am just telling him that if it is the case, it won't work and time will tell. P.s. Niceness?? :eek: lol I don't go out of my way to offend [most of the time] But you cannot accuse me of bending my views to suit others.

^^^Burco sends you the same regards back :cool:

^^^I agree with most of what you said but for this: for all Somalis to sit and iron out differences and make every Somali citizen get their fair share in the context of one Somalia reconciling with itself. Somalis in the North have longed ironed out this differences, hence their ability to live together in peace. In all important matters Somaliland is represented by the oodyaal which cover all the clans and they will be coming as an entity, to iron out their collective grievances with the south. Somaliland as a region has already done a lot in settling disputes and old wrong doings, they don't need to go back to square one. Lastly they will be present as a country and they will be weighing up their options. Ideal the south could iron out all its difference, grievances and problems first and foremost, then come with their compromise agreement. SL role is to listen and then collectively decide if greater union is indeed better for them than their current state. If they decide collectively that they wish to continue alone, then so be it, at least most things would’ve been ironed out. If this day arrives and the people of Somaliland rightly or wrongly decided that they will like to continue being Somaliland, and the strong newly formed south decides to fight them into submission, then we’ll be back in the 1980’s and it will be the start of another miserable bitter conflict. If however the south says well “p*iss off then, we are going to be bigger and better and then you are going to be sorry you did not join us” then who knows future generations may have better conditions on both sides. All I know is you cannot beat someone into submission, and this goes for SL actions in LA.

^^^Hater, burco hates you too, In fact when I went back home, burco told me to tell you that luugaah ayah kaa jeebinas if Burco ever sees ya!

^^^Indeed :rolleyes: I’m adding “spineless liar" to the collection. You was not talking about imaginary women, scroll up and read the sequence of threads if you are having short term amnesia. It was clearly a direct reference to me. Don’t add insult to injury. Don’t worry how I treat Ngonge, that is clearly none of your business and as your are two different individuals evidently I will treat each one accordingly.

Dude your clarification is the same as mine. When someone has blind loyalty in my books means they are owned! and have shitless of a brain. In fact as your correctly said, qoofak their brain baa laaga qabsaday and they follow regardless of wrong or write. How dare you? Aad iyo aad baad uu edaba taartehy! And then to top it all off, you tell me that ooh my Somali is better than yours. Edaba baan laagu baarin! Ngonge: No, I'm not that easily manipulated and I have not forgotten, but I know you mean busybody as in being up in the UK Muslims business and since I'm apart of that community I have no problem with you pointing out my role.

Ngonge, he means your collection of women aad "domestic-gareesy" i.e. your defenders, kind like your slaves, don't find harm in your tasteless humour, don't shoot yourself in the foot by name calling them. :rolleyes: I've never seen someone who in an attempt to defend you calls you a collection of someone else and a blind follower/ slave with no views of her own. :mad: :mad: shid uuuf caleek

^^^I think Brother Red has a good heart, also I think he makes perfect sense, but ya'll fail to understand him. From what I understood of his stance: 1) He supports all Somali’s regardless of where they are 2) He supports the largely peaceful north ability to remain so, and does not support anyone trying to extend the conflict into those regions. 3) He supports Al-Shabaab effort in trying to liberate Somalia from Ethiopian and warlord influence. At this point he arrives at a conflict, because al-Shabaab has members from south and north and inevitable will want an Islamic greater Somalia. Red have no problem with this, as long as it is practical, fair and does justice to all. However he is not willing to lay down the secessionist card for a non existent union of conflict, nor is he willing to take unfavourable terms. Negotiations can only take place when there is someone or something to negotiate with in the south. Red thinks Al shabaab can deliver this something that will sustain southern Somalia and facilitate any negotiations. What you and Xiin keep forget is that the north is peaceful, therefore there is no need to entertain ideas of war between the north and Al-shabaab, because if al-shabaab take over and stabilise the south, there will be no need to go back to warfare, they will just come to the table. I understand the SL admin will not entertain this, but the Admin cannot defend what no one is SL regions wants. If there was a better alternative than SL (i.e. a better union with fairness and justice) I can see many people jumping ship. However people who support SL do not have to make that decision at this moment because there is no better alternative. I don’t see what is so hard or conflicting about having this view. Also there are lots of “if’s”, If Al shabaab take over, if the north refuses to come peacefully, if they get fair and just terms for a union. These decisions he will make when the events arrive depending on the circumstances on the ground.

^^^^Easy there dear, I'm married already Loooooool @ Cilla Black

:confused: ^^^really?? I don't remember.

Bella sis, have you figured out how to use the PM function yet?? soemthing tells me you'll need to ASAP

^What aspect of her? You should be careful dear.