Trying to write a report- my head is spinning and it is already 12.30am. yiiiks

Blessed!!! I miss your sanity!! xxxx How about you and juxa pilot this initiative If it backfires dont blame me laakin- haada ayaan idiin sii dardar weriniya. Plus not far behind this question will be something along the line of would you marry your friends ex-husband/wife I mean where are the limits? Somalis would make an interesting subjects for studying under a microscope with all our fire and energy.

Why do people always say what about the kids??? WHAT about them? I dont get it- they still have a mum and a dad- who are both happy and successful, lets ask them- bet they prefer that to seeing their parents at each others throat every day! I dont think you should invest together in any join ventures- everyone should do his/her own thing, maryah uun ba la kala guranaya markaas.

You know juxa- you a say that as a joke, but I seriously think that it should be a lawful requirement- get it certified- bit like a re-newly of vows. Just to confirm that you still want to be there. Do you think we can get odyaal beled to approve that and implement it.

Narniah, it seemed like you were answering the points i mentioned; backstabbing, deceitful disloyal etc. Sorry if you weren't. I dont mind you stance- everyone is different, what one wont do, there is always another one who will gladly do it- the beauty and diversity of this world. Bottom line is if you can do it and not feel ashamed, embarrassed or slightly guilty, then what does it matter what anyone else thinks/ does. Unless they are still alive and they will come looking for you. Which reminds me- Juxa, do you women here wear niqabs so they either can ku bood thir husbands other wife or hide from her. Strangers thing ever! lol

Leave my Bengali husband alone, at least he wont leave for another women/ xalimo, if he does ever leave, it will be for money and power- who can compete with that eh. I tell him terrifying stories of what Somali women do to their straying husband- he dies many times hearing them- they range from being cooked alive, dosed with hot oil and their testicles chopped off. Everything is replaceable dear, mid kale oo bidar leh aya la hela, and then you can tell him what an ***** the last one was.

Narniah, you asked what we though of a hypothetical situation, now it looks like you dont like my hypothetical answer It is morally wack to marry your friend's husband/ wife [acquaintance] is a different boat. Your friend is another matter, hence the issues of loyalty and morality. Of course they deserve to be happy- and I will help them as much as I can- for the sake of my friend but you can help them without inheriting your friends shid. As for ISlam- well you didnt ask for a Islamic opinion (it is fine and hala)- Islam also allows for wives- but I dont and won't. But I find people only use the Islam excuses when they want to do something they may be judged for. Juxa , yes juxa, they rock for a while, then their dog starts to stray and they lose their marbles and act like a lunatic.

Lol wax walan, Loyalty is very important, you would need to be a hardheaded cold heart backstabbing twat That aside- if you did, you would be living with your friend as the 3rd person in your relationship- it will be like a never ending ghost presence. Even a simple question of "so how did you meet your husband/ wife" will bring about dark memories and thoughts. In saying that if and when I am dead- I dont care what or who he marries. Stay away from relatives and close friends- it is just not worth it. It is as bad as becoming a second wife to your friends husband!

I thought it was real gold! shame on them if they give her fake gold- a real gold belt I insist. Yes lots of cash, but not too much- we dont want her to trade with the warlords on her return. And please dont offer her a husband!

I saw a comment regarding some of the other similar: Inan Falastiin u ordaysaa iyo inan Sucuudiga u ordaysa oo sidii Zamzam saraawiil dhaadheer ku jufan loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooollll, dadkii oo seexday bay line ka soo gaadheen. in KSA case it is certainly not due to lack of money for training. Juxa and Blessed- are u taking her some real gold?

4yrs/> I have only been hear for 1year and six months!!! yiiiks Thanks Juxa, hmmm sorry to hear that. I refuse to come back, until at least one of my friends visits me here!

I know weeliba miid suuneysan ayaa igu dhaca not the usual bif baf fly by you guys get.

Juxa- what ever happend to ur visits? your rubbish I have a flu

I think the new areas are full of mosques, the old down town areas, have the same historic big mosques. New expansion areas have a small mosque in every corner with big speakers on the outside. Thanks, waking up at 2am, I'm try these last few days- ramdan is moving so fast already

Abu Salman, thank you walalo, I thought as much. Now my only option is either to pray around their time- I keep thinking I will wake up later- after they finish, but have not managed it yet. OR I can risk going and telling them to turn the speakers internal only. I really like hearing the qiraah, until I moved to my new house, now I hear the athaan at least 5 times, and at any one point I can hear at least two alhumdu's been read, makes it impossible to do your own prayers. All those mosques and not a single women space. The sufi mosques picking up their chanting at 2am again.

I call them all Atheero :D Honestly, they find me frightening , never had any problems, they dont bother me. Other than to tell me "oo gabadh ybaad tahey ee" eeer yeah I kind of figured that- thanks genius!

Aaliya, she is annoyingly xuux herself. Maan jecleysan her tone and cantrabaqash. Somalis have a tendency that what ever their little view- they must shove it down your throat while insulting you. And she says Somalian!: "haau foolxunyah weli waan la hadla" she must spend all her days talking! lol

Juxa is a married women for the last 20yrs- she forgot how single girls function, labaada aniga ayaa singl-nimaad kaga dambeye. :D So it is honest not rabshad! Juxa I am working How are you?

Juxa, maxaad beenta ugu sheegii??? I found this for the Somali brothers!! nutcase! lol http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAAR3SFMFaE&playnext=1&list=PL99DAF3BCDAACA5CF&feature=results_main

Loooooool Wax walan iga dheh!!!!! loooooool

Belated Happy birthday to Pucca and Aaliyyah. MAny more years to come. Gosh time does fly!!!!

Looooool bladness is not petty- adigu miid bidaar leh ma guursan lahedy?? P.s I know you meant well.

This thread na miya laga soomey?? I have a question- if I can hear the qiraa/ reading of the quran really well from my house for salat tarawiix, but the mosque is men only- can I join the jamaca from my house?? I find it confusing to try and do my own reading in prayer because I keep joining in with his or end up listening. I either must stop praying same time as him (start much much later by which time it is past my bed time) or join their salah. Anyone able to shed light into this matter- where are the cyber shikhs?

Aaaliyyah, "Inshallah you will find someone who will appreciate you for who you are and not how you look" that is like a slap in the face nooh? :D :D no one wants to feel that they are total unattractive- or at least their partner perceives them as ugly but making up for it in other areas! lol ugu ducey one who is blind to his ugliness at least- sorry baldness

Well if your bidaar does not put her off it will be the 7 day old garlic, fil fil, egg and honey mixture atop your head!!!! That is just disgusting and nasty. uuuufff khaas!! Most guys with Bidaar just go for the clean shave look- which looks good on some people but depends on your face structure. In any case- dont you have anything else going for you? personality, other looks etc? if she has something against bidaar, chances are even if you married early- she would've left you once it started to appear. I hate pot bellies more than bidaar- there is just no excuse to have something like a pot belly which is easily sorted- bloody lazy farah's - particularly now I know all the efforts of garlic, egg, honey and god knows what else just for some hair!!! :D Good luck