Salaam Blessed Spot on. Most wives could be both but at different stages. But the romance can still be maintained if both partners make concious effort. After all romance adds spice to marriage life. The odd surprise weekend getaways (I am sure babysitting can be arranged for a day or two), the dinners and gifts etc. Make room for love even if you 20kids. I read somewhere the more your lives intersect, the more you will connect, and that connection is the magical experience of love. It's the experience of 'we'. PS Kartida iyo fariidnimada waa loo dhashaa.

A muslim would never turn in another to muslim to gaallo. if he does, his aqeedah waxbaa si ka ah. When wll you people understand that? What is extremist bal? Instead of reiterating the same rubbish some neocon would say, remember these people are your muslim borthers and handing then in would be a grave mistake. Meiji Who has ever supported suicide bombing in the west?

Salaam Trolls How are we? Malika.. hon.. let me give you advice. First eat the ice cream, then eat the rest. That is what used to happen to me when I go to a restaurant for a desert, and place uma heyn jirin.. till i came up with this genuis idea.. Start with desert first, then order the main course. Why are people talking of Eid? Sow ma harin 5 days oo dhan?

Originally posted by Abtigiis & Tolka: Anigu ma isku qaadqaadaa oo runta ma sheegaa? Godkii wariiriga ka buuxay lee ku dhacee. Why are you prone to falling into these kinda traps?

Hello Faheema Now you will be let into all the senior secrets. Juxa Any excuse for faheema's cakes lol. I should say MaashaAllah tabaarak. Maheena qabow ma aha weli..but you are right.. mahaan wouldnt have been my first choice either.

Faataxo iyo albaqara iga hoo dear juxa. When are you off by the way and are u still coming my way? Raaxo kumalahoo.. honey..If soaking my cares away and getting away from London quruntooy, is raaxo, then I am 100% guilty

Haye Zu.. Maanto hurdo ma jirto? Shaqo la'aan baa waxaas ii geysey! When you dont do jack like moi, you no longer get excited the approaching Weekend. I am looking for this lecture on mp3 format: Imam Suhaib Webb - The Qualities of Men Mentioned in the Quran. Any help would appreciated trollers. Duca raadsada Good old google couldnt help. Edit: War Sayidow..even on Fridays in Ramadan? Come on yaakhey!

Soo dhowoow. Zu Xey tahay harowsiga? Waabsi.com dheh!

Hello Trollers I cant blv it is friday. Beryihii baa isugu key qasmey. Cure men= Adorable creatures.. all you wanna do is pull their cheeks, pat their heads and say "kuji kuji kuji". Where would we be without them?

Haddii uumiciyo leeyahay. Yes

mmm I wonder what gaallo food taste like? It should at least take their shahaada.

I read something on ISlamonline.net but they were really clear. Touching and hugging dont break the fast but the actual intercourse does. That was my understanding. In your case, if intercourse happened, both partners couldnt have forgotten...but i think you mean petting and caressing as long as you dont ejaculate. Maybe Nur or someone else can clarify. PS There is no shame in seeking knowledge.

miyaad danqatey D? Iyaguna Alla la xisaabtamaya.

lol@ position is still there,firmly secured..haa uu biqiin! I didnt get it. Che was feeling left out..miyaa Malika.. Youknow..that is the challenge. Engage a convo with those you never would on cyber world. So I am off to politics section.. see if i can stomach it.

Originally posted by Ducaysane: I feel that I am one of those people that you dont wana have a conv with these days. you know I like you and your name waad dalacday Mr D You know you were busy with the new dhucdhucyaasha yimid. Miyaad u heysaa tabar habrihii hore

I am finding hard to believe that some people here are agreeing with the ridiculous law S.Barre soo dejiyey back then. It was clearly against the shariah. The killing of those sheikhs was grave mistake and some sy..we are still paying for it. Alle jannada ha ka waraabiyo sheekhyadaas.

Che Dont you see the welcoming committee Zafir got? Ish calaa. As for those I never had direct convo with, there are many.. so tartiib tartiib aan u faduulin doonaa. SOL became too sweet and sickly..therefore few cross words with few SOL members is needed. Little frisson is needed here. Has anyone noticed how Johny improved his somali?

lool Cara.. ..sheekada sidaas bey u socotaa soon.

Clarify your question Che. Do you mean the fans of Zafir or those I dont address for no reason at all? I am so happy today..wax la iiga farxiyo aa la i siiyey. Bless them.

Just cos it has been out of your reach making a woman happy Ngonge, dont mean we cant be happy. So long aan la iga xanaajin and get my way, I am happy. Easy. Malika Too late now to go to London..seeing it is rush hour.

There are people on SOL that I never addressed or had a direct chat with forno reason at all. Zafir I am glad u found yourself, to your way to SOL. You have such fans here

lool Malika.. How are you hon?.. You maybe right.. we are so caught up in the future, we forget the present.

Good afternoon qaraabo. Zafir.. Miyaad soo dhuntey maanta? Hello sheh..poor heart, I feel for you sista.

Originally posted by Nin-Yaaban: It might be perfect for the first few yrs, or until u have ur first child, but it goes down hill from there on. That first spark when u first met is never gonna be there, and as long as you two can tolerate each other without having to kill each other than it's close to perfect in my opinion. OK, NY..so in your opinion, what would maintain the spark in a relationship in the long run?. Surely if the couple are aware of the pitfalls, they can be conscious of the what might come in the future and make an effort.

Ma qaraar baa ku haya?