for me i love doing the opposite of what ppl want me to do ....... qabiil ??? i respect my qabiil but what does that have to do with marriage. Anyways the most important thing in the man i would marry is his religion.......and about 99% of somalis are muslims so i couldn't careless about his qabiil......if we can only delete the qabiil issue from our lives...... things would be better, ppl would love each other and we would have peace in our country.