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  2. Posted

    **slap**@Nomad...come'maan!! "wit an italian accent"...

     

     

    ne one who like doesn't know dat movies is LIKE such_a_dork...talk about dorkas malorkas@Nomad...

     

    u like...need to get out more....anotha movie line..."as if!!"

  3. Posted

    "My name is ______, you gill(kill) ma fa'der (father), perpare 2 daie (die).."

     

     

    OOh..who knowz this movie n' da name of da guy...lol I LUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUV this movie..ma fav all-time..i always be forgettin' da dudez name..

  4. Posted

    Khayr..tuug waaxid...n' all da otha wanna-be tuugz...yeah i'm talkin' about yall faraxs that be posting q's like "what would u like a man to say to u, do when hes around, act like on the first date" i'm talkin bout q's like this 1 "what kinda gift do yall like">....I mean..com'on!!..for cryin' out loud!!..wherez da fun in giving da man all da answerz ladies!!...if they don't know wat how to act, wat 2 say, wat 2 give u...they should LEARN It.. n by EXPERIENCE..(oh yeah, i'm talkin' about goin' thru a whole lotta dates from hell,unfortunate meetingz wit qumayo-kaleyz ,go to a damn shaash saar if u have 2..lol..) n' NOT gettin' da 411 on halimo likez n' dislikez by just comin' in here...

     

     

    itz just 2 easy 4 dem yall...

  7. Posted

    OMG...dat last one...DATZ EXACTLY WAT I'M DOIN NOW..aaAAH!!!

     

    i HATE...

     

    **loosin ma chapstick..ugghhh...GOD!!..for all da money i spend on dem..ya think i'd have atleast one..

     

    ***WINTER...hate da snow, da sleet, da ice, da winds dat make ur dark-*** cheeks rosy red..i hate everything dat comes wit Winter..Winter wonderland my Somali behind...I HATE IT

     

    ***folks dat always got somethin' up there butt dat they can't wait a freakin' sec when they goin' somewhere witcha..."soo bax..soo bax..".."god ur always late"..Kir Kut ...KALAN KAC!!..dat wat i say to them..u know who u r..!!

     

     

    -phew!..dat felt good..but intaas in ka badan waa dambi...so imma leave it @ dat..

  10. Posted

    As a young person i've always been told that FGM is an absolute neccessity in our religion and a prerequisite to performing prayer. Now the FGM am referring to as the brutal kind, more commonly phrased cliterodectomy. Long story short, am doin some personal research on it and came across this article on IslamiCity.com which i thought was relevant in some sense to our discussion....

     

     

    Female Genital Mutilation: An Islamic Perspective

    A war is raging, with extremists on both sides, over the issue of circumcision. On one side are fanatic secularists whose antipathy to religion has induced them to engage in a crusade against all forms of circumcision, including male circumcision, as a form of child abuse. On the other side are ignorant traditionalists who have ascribed to religious belief cultural traditions involving horrific forms of female genital mutilation (FGM, which they defend as a form of "female circumcision"). In between the extremes are many well-meaning people confused about the actual nature of the scientific evidence and the religious prescriptions regarding all sorts of practices involving any form of cutting in the genital areas.

     

    In this pamphlet we shall concentrate on female genital mutilation. Male circumcision is clearly a Muslim tradition. Although it is not prescribed in the Qur'an, it was definitely approved of by the Prophet and he was himself circumcised. The beneficial health consequences of male circumcision are widely known, although some medical groups have begun to waver as to whether they are sufficiently great to justify the fact that infants are circumcised "against their will." We leave this debate for another time and place and mention it here only so that the lay reader may be aware that there is a broader context to the debate over female genital mutilation, which is the debate over whether any form of infant mutilation, including male circumcision constitutes child abuse. We restrict ourselves here to the subject of female genital mutilation and leave the debates over male circumcision and the piercing of infant girl's ears to another time and place.

     

    A concise discussion of the main subject requires a detailed prolog to clarify some issues regarding both the nature of Islamic law and the medical terms used to identify the various forms of FGM. Understanding the background of the matter will permit the reader to understand the Islamic position on this question.

     

    It must be understood that Islamic law has a well-defined tradition of jurisprudence. The sources of Islamic law include both revelation and reason. The efforts of scholars to attain understanding of the shariah (i.e., the Divine Law) through various tools (which we shall not detail here) is called ijtihad.

     

    One fundamental of the Islamic law is that what is not prohibited is allowed. This makes for a great deal of tolerance in the religious law. As a result of this tolerance many pre-Islamic practices were not immediately eradicated by Islam. When such practices came to be unpopular (or unfashionable) in future centuries, the tolerance of Islamic jurisprudence was mischaracterized by those inimical to Islam as "backward." It was as if someone from a genteel class of society were to condemn America's toleration for body piercing among its young people as proof of the "barbarism" of American law. It would be wise to remember that there is a great burden of proof that Islam puts upon those who wish to prohibit a practice, and that the requirement for such proof is a strength of the Islamic law. Toleration is a strength, not a weakness.

     

    In this discussion I shall refer to any form of permanent cutting the genitals as "genital mutilation." Some may feel this is prejudicing the case, since the words certainly sound pejorative. I think the term is fair, however, since the purpose of all the procedures under discussion-and the purpose of male circumcision and of the now commonly practiced forms of body piercing, including the piercing of the ears done by almost every Western female-is unquestionably to mutilate those parts of the body cut or pierced. The issue of interest, then, is not whether mutilation is involved but rather whether it is religiously (or morally) and/or medically desirable or contraindicated.

     

    Although there is no reference to circumcision at all in the Qur'an, there is a well-established tradition of male circumcision in Islam as a "sunnah" act. In the Abrahamic tradition this act is understood as a fulfillment of a covenant with God, but there are numerous health reasons for the practice. There is no mandate at all for female circumcision, however, neither in the Qur'an, the traditional reports (called hadith), nor medical theory.

     

    Although female circumcision is not mandated, one tradition of disputed authenticity permits (but does not encourage) the removal of a minuscule segment of skin from the female prepuce, provided no harm is done:

     

    A woman used to perform circumcision in Medina [Madina]. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said to her: 'Do not cut severely as that is better for a woman and more desirable for a husband.' - Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 41, #5251.

     

    One does not want to make too much of this tradition, as it is classified as "weak" by Abu Dawud (the compiler) himself. Nonetheless, it clearly forbids severity in circumcision and bases such limitation on both the potential to harm the woman and the potential to make her less desirable to her husband. Yet, despite the restriction against severity, the Prophet did not here prohibit circumcision completely.

     

    Permitting such a ritual constitutes an act of tolerance by Islamic law for pre-Islamic practices, and may be overruled by the Islamic prohibition against harmful acts. Consider, for example, that Islamic law protects a woman's right to sexual enjoyment, as demonstrated by the fact that a woman has the right to divorce on the grounds that her husband does not provide sexual satisfaction. It follows that Islamic law prohibits clitorodectomy (partial or complete removal of the clitoris) or infibulation (excision of part or all of the external genitalia and stitching/narrowing of the vaginal opening), or any genital mutilation which impairs the woman's ability to enjoy sexual relations. Such prohibitions are consistent with the hadithic warning against severity in female circumcision.

     

    If the Islamic law does not mandate female genital mutilation and tolerates only the most mild form of circumcision (and that only if it produces no adverse effects in the child), then how does it come about that so many people from certain countries with large Muslim populations insist that savage acts which exceed these limits are not only permitted, but required by Islamic law? The answer becomes obvious when one realizes that Christians from many of these countries also insist that the tradition is mandated by their religion as well. People often confuse traditions rooted in local culture with religious requirements.

     

    Immigrants from such countries now residing in the United States stand between the culture of their heritage and the American culture of their environment. They cannot and should not be expected to abandon their religion. There should be no doubt, however, that the young amongst them, at least, will be willing to abandon old-world cultural practices at odds with their adopted culture when such practices are unsupported by religion. (This is because they carry no cultural bias towards such practices. On the contrary, they may absorb biases against them from their adopted culture.)

     

    For Muslims, cliterodectomy and infibulation should be considered haram (prohibited) practices and opposition to it should be part of our ongoing mandate to fight against superstition and oppression. As to the mildest form of female circumcision, the risks to the girl's future ability to enjoy sexual relations with her husband must place it at best in the category of makruh (disliked) practices. Since it has neither hygienic nor religious value, there is no justification for Muslims to engage in this painful and potentially harmful practice and it would be best to avoid it completely.

  11. Posted

    the mindless hoochie

    witda freebee c**chie

    the brainless beauty

    neva Smart n' OOgly

     

    the shoes n' purses

    wit the matching forces

    the jobless mami

    wit the shameful hobby

     

    the endless parties

    wit blunts n' Bacardi

    the nites witout recollection

    wit sex witout protection

     

    the hurt n'the pain

    the worthless gain

    the lifeless body

    the property of EVERYBODY

     

    the mother that died

    the repent she cried

    the father that lies

    the disowned n'wit no family ties

     

    the cyclic road

    the downhill mode

    the knife that penetrated

    the life that disintegrated

     

     

    the road that never ends

    without hope it neva begins

    the meaningless life

    without ambition or strife

     

     

    the sophisticated sista

    wit the educated mista

    the dedicated kind

    wit the golden mind

     

    the sho

  13. Posted

    Ash Tree (the Ambition) — extremely attractive, vivacious, impulsive, demanding, does not care for criticism. Ambitious, intelligent, talented, likes to play with fate, can be very egotistic, reliable, restless lover, sometimes money rules over the heart, demands attention, needs love and much emotional support.

     

    ...tru to some extent...(ie the intelligent, talented, ambitious, reliable..dun know bout da egotistical n' needin' attention part..think there was an error there.. :D

  15. Posted

    I'd enslaved Instinct's civilization wit ma weaponry (doesn't have 2 be gunz ;) ....have'em workin' like monkeyz 4 a piece a yoyo..one yoyo per 10 kuni kunies (kids)..lol jk

     

    but on da realz -I'd take 2 books- da Holy Quran (always calms me down..cuz i know i'd be freakin' about rite about nite time) n' Surviving in a Deserted Island 4 Dummies (yes there is such a book!)

  17. Posted

    u might as well abort it

    ur mood

    ur mind

    ur visionz

    u know imma distort'em

    u might as well support em (mine)

    u might as well deport'em (urz)

    u might as well cry n' call to supreme court'em

    u know u can't afford'em

    financially support'em

    u refugee

    quite

    or else

    INS will escort'ya

    2 Somalia i'll deport ya

     

     

    remind u of any1?

  18. Posted

    genuine care my patuti **booty**!!!!...washing your face wit a scrub to get rid of black-heads dats aight, or even using a facial mask once in a to invigorate da skin acceptable..BUT! totally changing ur skin color becuz of some sick twisted ideology dat society put upon the darker skinned individualS (**such as ma self-u KNOW "i'm black n' i'm proud**)NOW DAT ! my friends...is just down rite SAD!...n' 2 ma sistas out there...just know...itz all about "u"...B dark, B light, B wateva...just B u N more importantly STAY u..lol

     

    Salaamz

  19. Posted

    I'm glad u brought this up...there is indeed a noticeable portion of our elderly (mostly) population that have diabetes. Now the type differs (type I or type II)

     

    I'm really interested in diabetes tho...i'm goin' to school to do (hopefully inshallah) do research on it....especifically insulin secreting beta cells and islets.

     

     

    motivation-close family member has diabetes

  20. Posted

    Hey..didn't know where to post this

    so i thought why not here...(sowwy@Deadly vision..nuttin' but luv rite :D )

    ne wayz...look @ minez right Hurr..lol

     

    Circle yes or no

    If you like watz below

    Let me let u decide

    While this poem I recide…

     

     

    Let me known ur name

    Let me know ur game

    Let me know how it iz

    To be called ur mizz

    Let me be ur gurl

    Let me be ur world

    Let me take ur hand

    And me make u man

     

    Let me take u out

    Let me make u shout

    Let me show u that

    Sex is not wat itz all about

     

    Let me make u learn

    Ur intelligence I yearn

    Let me be by ur side

    On a bus

    Or a million dollar ride

     

    Let me write for you

    Let me fight for you

    Everynight, a duca

    I recite for you

    I want to do everthing thats right for u

    Even if it means, it really aint rite for me

     

     

    Let me make u see

    Or atleast make u read

    This whole world is nuttin

    but a watery sea

     

    I found my fish

    Let me make u a dish

    U R my wish

    6’3”

    intelligent

    sexy

    well accomplished....

     

     

    DAMN! he's fine..lol

    thanx yall..

  22. Posted

    wat can i say..but that this topic is BASED n' BUILT on a GENERALIZATION...n' the mere fact that u didn't explain who the "they" were supports ma earlier statement of this topic being a...A BIG OL GENERALIZATION..(not a very smart one if i may add..i.e dissin' onez (sistas)ppl..not cool ..not cool at all)

  23. Posted

    whoah..i don't know..ma fav song(s)??...got a lot of em...

     

     

    Oldiez

    Can we Talk-Tevin Campell

    Seasons of Luv, Bendin' Knee, Don't let REal luv Pass U By-Boyz II Men

    I wanna Be down (or summin like dat)-Brandy

    Freak (i think itz called..goes summin'like.."imma a freak until day to da early dawn...")Some of yall know wat i'm talkin' bout..(n' no i aint no freak.. :D )

    Anywhere-112

    Fantasy-By Mariah

    You wont' see me tonite-Aaliyah/Nas

    My name is-MnM

    LUv is Blind-Eve

    Incomplete-Sisqo

    Tell me-Dru Hill

    It wasn't me-Sole ft. Ginuwine

    Best Man-Ginuwine, Case, Tyrese

    Sweet Lady-Tyrese

    Butta Luv-Next

    Missin' YOu-Case

    I Get So High, Breath Again-Toni Braxton

    Anytime, Back at one, 6 months-Brian McKnight

    Until the End of Time-2pac ft. RL

    How do u want it-2pac

    Gangsta Party-2pac (makes me feel BAD..lol)

    Bounce wit Me-Lil..i mean ..Bow Wow

    HardBall-Lil Rascals

    Promise,Gotta Be-Jagged Edge

    Dangerous, Give me Some Mo, Hoo Haa GotYallInCheck-Busta Rhymez

    I need a Girl, Part I & II

    Break u off-Roots

    Come Close-Common

    Luv of my life-Ericka Badu(gotta put his lady next to him)

    Sc8tr Boy-Avril Lavigne

    Give it to me-Busta ft. Mariah

    Letchu Go-Fabolous ft. Lil Mo

    Satisfaction-Eve

    Bonnie & Clyde,Crazy in LUv-Jayz ft. Beyonce

    n' da list goes n' on n' on....just of a few of ma fav tunez...n yall aint even got in to ma Somali Collection.. :D

  24. Posted

    rudy dat was Xaasid to da fullest..ma goodness man!...neva wanna make u mad...but on da real..i like readin' bout datez from hell typa stories...make ma dates seem alot BETTA...i mean...i have had ma share...but i'll wait ..i think it deserves da #1 WORST date in the whole Aduunyo..lol..i don't ppl sendin' me apology notez n' pity messagez afta i tell it so i'll just keep it fo a rainy day..lol

     

    otha than that...keep on havin' dem bad dates yall...cuz u can't know a good date until u know a bad date

  25. Posted

    the clock ticks on

     

    i walk around thinkin' i'm da ish

    silver plate, i'm da main course, thier favorite dish

    everyday wake up dress to impress

    dress for success

    its hard to confess

    how a little lie can turn into a such a big mess

    success...to be honest..i don't care much for school..i can careless

    i just wanna fell like i got da finesse

    all they want ...all they need...all they wanna caress

    i know school is important

    but its hard not to get distracted

    get ur priorities distorted

    and finnal abort them

     

     

    lol...didn't know wat i was writtin but here it is