TenaciousSoul

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  1. Can't she at least have some time to get used to her husband and tire of him

    lol.. see if he fits, huh?

     

    I just need to know wat other sister think about being in this situation.. who will agree their huband to marry a second wife or third or even fourth wife in the space of few months or less.

    by all means, he can sure remarry but he'll have to scarifies something.. What that something is will depend on, the actuality of this hypothetical question. :D


  2. as i read ur question, i cant seem to help wonder.. What thoughts provoked this peculiar question of urs..

    good question but u must admit, a bit peculiar

     

     

    Anyways, ANSWER; No, I wouldn’t press this red button, because I still have a lot to accomplish here and the after life..


  3. ^^ you‘ve just given me a great idea

    When i have my wedding (2056) I’ll be charging some admission fee for my disco wedding, do u think that will work.. time shall tell, huh?

     

     

    Seriously, wedding should be a happy/private/ clean sprit/ clam/ relaxing / reflecting moment between the 2 people but for some reason, we Somalia’s can’t seem to realize that… :mad:


  4. damn you Devilangle

     

    just do us a favor and change your name to Devil coz there is nothing Angelic about u :mad:

     

    STOIC, i like ur stories and do please continue written them. i can not wait for the next one :D


  5. Date: 17th August 2006

     

     

    Welcome change

     

    Plants develop differently in different climate. Animals can invent new ways of behaving to take advantage of new opportunities. So throw out old ways that don’t work for you. Take up change by forming news habits

     

    source-Inner space


  6. i just need to understand, y cant we be happy being single :confused: ... and if the answer is; we have needs.. than use some ice and quit watching romantic movies :D

     

    seriously, being single seems to be the best way to go vs getting married in this time and age!

    yes, im not brave enough to get divorced, since thats the fashion in somaliwood


  7. Unfortunately, a faraax will continue to be a faraax despite of degree that he may hold

     

     

    however do not despair i have some good news for u faraaxs;

     

    These reconfirmations may help u faraaxs to promote urself from faraax to x-faraax

    say these reconfirmations everyday, and u might just have a chance to a blissful life with ur Caraweelo/ Xalimo

     

    1. I faraax will not be the typical faraax and use the quraan as a guide

    2. I faraax will be a contributor to my family, community, country

    3. I faraax will always put my children 1st

    4. I faraax will love my wife with dignity and respect and caring beyond our misunderstanding moments

    5. I faraax will be a good representation for my wife and children

     

    ladies be my guest

     

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  8. ^ bravo bravo. you have truly coined an appealing term for our educated halimos.

     

    Sadly for u guys :( ..

    A faraax who is academically well equipped will always be a faraax; who holds dear to these dark substance.. qabil, womanizing, over smoking, jaad, no eager in improving the state of our people or nation or anything for that matter.... all that needs to be done, we halimos and Caraweelos are managing it well


  9. KEYNAN22, great thread

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    ME.. On the point, I must say :D

     

     

    u know something , i too have the same optimistic views as u do mr/miss me … I believe that Somali will be the ultimate example of THE recovered state. And I predict that Somali will be some day.. The superpower of the whole continent of africa

    As for the design of our motherland… well as a student of architecture... I certainly do not version or hope for Somali to have any high-raise buildings. it certainly does not compliment our environment nor does it compliment our culture.


  10. Let be be frank for once

     

    I use to wonder why there is so much lack of Kindness between Somalia couples. But never realized until now, that this whole thing initiates from the wedding process…. I mean, why would u anticipate any kindness from a man whom u broke his finical backbone on a ephemeral day ( as we know; we somaliyans do not understand the concept of moderation )

     

    Also, why don’t Somali women pay for the half of their wedding or do small wedding instead overspending all that money where no hungry people are feed ….. How ever way u look at it, its all harm

     

    As a woman, sometime I feel embarrassed the level of selfishness and cruelty shown by other woman when it comes to their future husband or his money.

     

    We should treat our future husband as we would treat our future children’s father.

     

    Am I wrong to think this way, maybe but one thing for sure, Somali couples lack kindness and if someone can enlighten me differently ( with no chemicals ) I’ll be grateful