Dinki Winki when ever you mention anywhere the prophets name. you are supposed to say salallahu cayleyhi wa salaam or peace be upon him. or example prophet mohamed (saw) or (pbuh) example.

Do I remember the days.......I have had the same experiences. People I have no idea come to me say stuff like that. Or OMG LOOK AT THIS GIRL NAYA MIYAADAN ILAHI KA CABSANEYNIN OR ARE YOU NOT SCARED OF ALLAH. I WOULD BE THE REBELIOUS ONE AND TELL THEM OFF. LIKE HOW DARE U SAY THAT TO ME. OR YOU DON'T HAVE A RIGHT TO SAY THAT TO ME. SOME TIMES I WOULD CRY AND SAY WHY ARE THEY SAYING THINGS LIKE THIS TO ME THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW ME. I was the girl in the whole neighbourhood who would be playing soccer with the boys and before I know it somebody somewhere already told my parents ohh she is playing soccer wit the boys. Or mothers marching down to my house and telling my mom OMG she is a girl. She is supposed to be home and doing the girly stuff. I wore jeans, tshirt and well my haircut short. Total tomboy grow up with boys. My mother saying hooyo you are a girl xishood. Ofcourse I would have to go to them and apologize for telling them off. My mon would say hooyo Ishoda ey ku helin or beware of they eye meaning older people. But but but their is but for me There is a saying YOU WILL ALWAYS FIND someone WHO PRAISE YOU SAY STUFF ABOUT YOU BUT ITS VERY RARE TO FIND SOMEBODY WHO TELLS YOU a GOOD advice. As somalis its our culture to do that. Ofcourse there are people who say these things in a bad way like omg but also some of them are really sincere about what they are telling you. Its always good if you are giving a person a advice about apearance or life style to do a in a peaceful, respectful with out seeming boostful way. Like rendavou said a Nasiha. Ofcourse our elders some of them lack this trait but they mean well. Hey lets be patient wit these people and say are done thank and walk away. Its up to you if you want to take it or not. The other day I was passing by a neighbourhood and I saw this boy about 12yrs I noticed he was somali. He looked familiar but I was not sure. Well he was hanging around these kids in a ghetto neighbourhood. Very dangerous and I was walking by them and one of the kids was like whaz up mami. I looked at them and ignored them they were smoking weed. anyways I recognized the boy he was a family friend. I called him up I seriously wanted to lecture him on why he was hanging out there and why he smelled like weed and how his pants was about to full of his behind. And then I remembered damn girl you were once young and naive too. I told him hey get in the car and Am going to drop you off home. The ride home he was all quite and scared that I was going to tell his parents. But I didn't say anything. Next time I saw him talked to him in a nice manner and He replyed thank you. And he said that usually he doesn't listen to people who yell at him and judge him. He gave me my own lesson of ONce I too was young!!!! Chi CHi

Keep to forgiveness, and enjoin kindness, and turn away from the ignorant. And if it should happen that a prompting from Satan stirs thee up [to anger], seek refuge with Allah: behold, He is All-Hearing, All-Knowing." Shytanka iska naara walaayal Bismilahi Rahmani Rahim “In their mutual love, kindness, and compassion towards each other, Muslims can be compared to the human body; when one of its limbs is afflicted the whole of it is affected in its waking and fever.†Do not envy each other. Do not inflate the bidding at auctions, do not bear a grudge, do not turn away from each other, and do not make an offer during (another's) pending transaction. Be worshipers of Allah, brothers to each other. Muslims are brothers to each other. He neither wrongs him, looks down upon him, nor humiliates him. Piety is a matter of the heart. He repeated this thrice. It is evil for a person to look down upon his Muslim brother. Everything belonging to a Muslim is forbidden to another Muslim; his blood, property, and his honor.†Abu Sufyan came with a group of people to Salman, Suhaib and Bilal (sp). They said to him: ‘Didn't the swords of Allah make the enemy of Allah pay the price?’ Abu Bakr (s) said to them: ‘Do you speak like this to the Shaykh, the chieftain of the Koraysh?’ Then he went to the Prophet (sa) and related it to him. He said: ‘Abu Bakr, perhaps you have offended them. If so, you have offended your Lord.’ Abu Bakr went back to them and asked: ‘Brothers, did I offend you?’ They replied: ‘No. May Allah forgive you, brother.’" [ This are all hadiths source http://www.alhaqq.net/Nawawi.htm SHAYTANKA ALA ISKA NAARO DON'T LET SATAN GET HIS WAY. AGAIN WE ARE ALL HUMANS WE ARE NOT PERFECT. To brother Abdilatif sorry If I misspelled your name. It is better If you are trying to advise your fellow brother or sister to do it privately like sending them a PM. It is not good to show all your brother or sisters fault. And again to the people who swearing or saying bad thing about the males or females. Its clearly ceeb. Isku xishooda we all have brothers and sister and I don't think we would like somebody to do that to our B or S. And also this is a public forum. I believe we do have to the right to post what fancy's our mind. Lets not get offended by some opinions. Again though we can remember to respect others opinion without getting offended. If this does not concern you move along. It's not good to light a fire where it is not needed or vice versa. Lets try to better than one If they are being ERR. If we don't then well lets just hope. “The Prophet (sa) was asked, ‘What should one pursue to be admitted into Paradise?’ The Prophet (sa) answered, ‘Being mindful of one's duty to Allah and good behavior.’ Then he was asked, ‘What indulgence pushes a person into the Fire?’ He answered, ‘The mouth and the genitalia.’’’ “I guarantee a home within the boundary of Paradise for whosoever gives up showing off, even when he is right; and a home in the middle of Paradise for whosoever gives up lying even in fun; and a home in the heights of Paradise for one whose behavior is excellent.†Remember that even though you are in a cyber world. Good behavior applies. I apologize in advance if I wrote or said anything offense to anybody. Ngonge my apologia didn't mean to Hijack. To all that died in the war. May Allah almighty bless all of them Janatul. Firdos Fi amanilah

Stoic Jazakallah brother. Very nice post. Its very true its very risky. Chilren are more immune to it though. Thanks

May Allah Almighty Rahim make this year the Victorious year for all Muslimeen. May Allah grant us all great benefits for the jannah.Amin May Allah ease the pain for all the ummah in distress.AMin For my brothers and Sisters in Sol May Allah almighty lead us all to the right path.Amin

Allah Jecliyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Man u made my day. That is exactly what was needed. Its so disguisting to see full grown men wearing jean up to their buttocks and you can see their boxers. They are walking and then pulling theirs pants like every other second. :rolleyes: I feel like slapping the sheezy out of them. Dude please Go home and wear something appropriate or wear a belt. :confused:

Amin Amin Amin To all of you thank you very much for your prayers and may ALLAH ALMIGHTY RETURN YOUR PRAYERS IN MILLIONS WAYS. aMIN MAY ALLAH HAVE MERCY ON ALL OF US AND THOSE WHO HAVE DIED. aMIN MAY THEY ALLAH SEE AND SMELL THE WONDERS OF JANATUL FIRDOS. AMIN JAZAKALLAH BROTHERS AND SISTERS

YEs msword that is him.

Innalilahi Wa Inailayhi Rajicoon She passed away this afternoon. May Allah grant her Janatul Firdos and the whole muslimeen who have passed away Amin Amin She is very lucky walahi She just came back from hajj last night.

Assalamu Alaikum Brothers and Sisters my bestfriend who is like a brother to me His mother is in critical condition and she just came back from Hajj. Please make dua for her. May Allah ease her pain Amin

I have to have Spicy Marsala Indian Chai Or none other Sijui Tea with Condensed Milk to start my day. Other then that I do Herbal Teas or Toffee Nut Latte at Starbucks.

I second Juba Quruxley

Do you mind giving me the source and where u got this article. By the way whats with your facination with bad restaurants. If am not mistaken you wrote something about KFC. Take easy La AGoniya ciao bella That picture of the rats dude :mad: oww my goodness you gonna make me not eat at all.

1.The world's first billion dollar corporation, U.S steal, is founded by whom? by the fathers JP MORGAN,CARNEGIE BROS,C SHAWAB AND ? DONT REMEMBER THE FOURTH ONE 2.The first ever transatlantic telegraphic transmission is sent. Who demostrated its possibilities? DON'T KNOW SORRY 3.Which set of awards for intellestual achievement are handed out for the first time? DONT KNOW SORRY 4.Which country is unified as a commonwealth and a British dominion? CANADA 5.What does Russia demant from Chine? WASN'T IT TERRITORY 6.Which reingning British monarch dies on the 22nd of January this year? QUEEN VICTORIA 7.Which Russian revolutionary activist escapes from Siberia? GRIGORI RASPUTIN

WAAR SHIRWACOW HMMM NOWHERE TO BE FOUND!!! I HOPE THE HUSBAND DIDN'T BUMB U OFF TO NEVER NEVERLAND. BAAL HEEDHAYAL UH SOO DUCAYA WIILKA YAAR.

Besbaso ohh dear Lucky You!! Be very careful I live down the street from ya. I might just woof him away Good Luck Besbaso So when do we get invited to the celebrations, I hope soon. YOu know we gotta issh issh on the food. May Allah grant all your wishes. Amin

Bisinka maxaa tiri baal. Waar culus baa sheegtey. Ohh ya ku sheegay baal? Ma sheeku jiirto oh ruun baa. Waar walaalow waarka baal hobso baal. Cajiib Iyo Nuus. Adunka is running. Shirwac huno ideykeysu imikaan okay. Waxaan umaleyniya waarku ino yahay PraPaGando Cajiib baadhana. Marka iska ilaali people ka ohh hadalka baadhan...Too much talking talking is no good absolutely no good. I suggest u that u listen here here that u hear andy listen me here okayyyyyyyyy u istardandi me? I hope u istardandi me aaa what say okay. i mean say that if the girly is xaas then u live her aloni oky. they say in af gaaled plenti fishi in tha ocean I hopi u istardandi me very well me go now.

Originally posted by Maymuunah: You all remind me of something that had happened to a very close relative of mind. it is a strange story but believe me somali men do such hideous stuffs at times. anyway this relative of mind went for a vacation for weeks in a nother city. her husband who had remained behind had an ongoing affair( i mean shukaansi) with another woman long before she even went on vacation. however miskiinad didn't know what was an folding around her.I also heard that they were very close friend..cajiib close friendkaaga ninkaaga ha kaa xado dhibaato waaye... anyhow while miskiinad was on vacationing her husband married the other lady and everyone in town heard about it..it become the story of the suuq.. little miskiinad heard the story on phone and couldn't believe it. she took a flight back to her town and boy did the world came crubling on her..i wish she had poured him with a boiling water...naah i don't think is worth risking it and ending up in jail who knows...she would have been more luckier if she was in somalia she opted for many things but divorcing him( aah if only women could divorce too jk) never came into the option because she had kids..and raising kids alone become for her scarier than accepting a second wife in her husband's life..i bet she put the phrase " for the sake of my children" into action( may be they were other options but uuuuhm..oooh i feel sorry for her now. END OF STORY AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER.. :cool: you know what is even more scary to me..how can you live with a man that you don't trust?.."for the sake of your children" a life of a rolling coaster I think she is one of a He@# mother. She put her childrens needs before hers. I think that is very noble of her. The problem these days is we forget about our children and we become selfish. When you become a parent Me goes out the door. The children come first. Put that man well I wish I was her sister I would go all Gangsta on him and teach him a lesson or Two

Suggestions to Ambasador and Sheikh Better go back and Edit the tribal names u wrote other wise Admin will be on you behind.

Juba I concur

Cajiib Iyo nuus :rolleyes:

Thank you very much your name says it All No hard feelings dee

Cha Don't hate Congratulate!!!!!! Thats my girl Losers Finish Last

Where is GreenWatch??????????? Ohhh ofcourse the somali ppl don't even care about this!!! Why should we? Thats is what is happening ppl.

Very good article enjoyed it very much. We too have this problems. Somali Americans, English, Canadians we too are fulling in to this categorations of people. I just thought that they were talking about somalis but in reality they were talkinb about Turks.