there can't be relationship between guys and girls that is just wrong cause when i am with my male friends all they do is check me out and that goes for me too, you don't differently do that when you with your own friend. but here is the confusing part if i find the guy cute i totally want to be there friend but if he is not cute then what is there to talk about you know what i mean , but i sill wanna gang out with my friend no matter what. so male/female dose not work, if it dose they are both prentending . i actually read it in the pyscology mag , and it were interviewing all these people in the same situation and they all admitted that they had some form attraction towards the opposite sex supposly friend. believe the sister.