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  1. Posted

    There is nothing called SIJUI... smile.gif it was invented by our Blood thirsty brothers...The walendos..

     

    Somalis are spread from Djibouti to Tanzania..So how do u call a somali from Djib..?WASHENZI? :D:D

  2. Posted

    Rudy tell them.............and I quote..

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    female wise, my best friend is sujui!! lol.. she so cool!

     

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    >>>You are one of the toughest custodian of ISLAM and we appreciate that..Your believe is strengthened by our unity in Enforcing HIJAB to all our muslim sisters..

     

     

    It is good we have such muslims around.. smile.gif

     

    Last but not least..some sisters of ours think that by wearing hijab..and putting on TOMMY HILFIGER Jeans..which i am sad to say..(shows real curves..is ok

     

    Please avoid that also smile.gifsmile.gifsmile.gif

     

    Thank you all..

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    >>>>They are cautious (or maybe just bilaa dhiig smile.gif ...i c That is why we are sooooooo different. .......Thank you very much..so you know

     

    But lakini...who said ati 110% of walendos are WAJUAJI..what do they actually know..?

     

    How to kill his brother.. :D:D:D but where does he get the certificate of killing..does that involve so much knowledge really?

     

    The ones who PRETEND to know..wajuaji ndio wametu bore jo..guess u one of them

     

    pole JINGA... :D

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    icon_razz.gificon_razz.gif lakini waseee... smile.gif na vijana ni lazima tu understandiane..Incase anybody thinks it was'nt a good idea..I had previously expressed my wishes for all my sijui dudes..You may suggest another way we can communicate and articulate our policies and expand our Brotherhood/Sisterhood.

     

    I think we form a great percentage of SOL Nomads. smile.gifsmile.gif

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    >>>>>under the Hijab Necessary part, which forgot to mention wearing Hijab as a sign of worship and spirtuality towards Allah.

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    now Juba for the FIRST TIME you are talking ISLAMICALLY..Alhamdulillah.. smile.gifsmile.gif

  9. Posted

    So being naive also doesn't help..neither does pretending to sum up unwanted statistics. Nobody did ever say that we are a separate somalis..we know we are one group and have the pleasure being at SOL together...

     

    What you don't understand ..& you may never understand is the point that there are some of us who will like to look more learned than the others, hence calling us Sijuis..you brag you have statistics..we are talking about estimates..We are already subdivided coz we also call them walendos..The main Group pretenders...

     

    I normally argue with those who can grasp some information from my threads... smile.gif

     

    Ati wewe sio Fala.. smile.gif

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    Source: www.thestar.com

    BY: JUDY GERSTEL

     

     

    .............."But you cannot get away with walking around half-naked and not expect bad stuff to happen.

    Proclaiming our sexual power, we're willing accomplices to a society that exploits female sexuality and, perhaps more than ever, treats women as erotic objects. "

     

    Not all that long ago, says Francine Pelletier, "women who flaunted their sexuality lost all credibility. She'd be deemed a floozie —and that was it."

     

    But that's no longer the case. Au contraire.

     

    Now, a brazen display of female sexuality is not only tolerated, says Pelletier, former host of Fifth Estate. "It's encouraged.

     

    "There's a real pressure, a bullying, to be that hottie no matter who you are."

     

    How and why we got from there to here, and how it feels for women, is territory Pelletier explores in her documentary television series, Sex, Truth and Videotape, airing Monday nights at 10 on Newsworld.

     

    The introductory show last week focused on confessions about sex by such celebrities as comedian Mary Walsh and novelist Susan Swan.

     

    It gets even better over the next five episodes.

     

    Coming up on Monday, "Sex and Beauty" looks at the relationship between a woman's appearance and her sex life. Do beautiful women have more and better sex? Future episodes explore sex and age, the matches people make, and "the first time."

     

    What possessed Pelletier, a self-described feminist, to explore the status of sex in the lives of women?

     

    In a word, Afghanistan.

     

    During the war there, Pelletier says she was "bowled over by the sharp contrast between, on the one hand, images of women veiled from head to foot and on the other hand, the images of women here — Sex and the City images."

     

    She found it "unimaginable that we actually live on the same planet."

     

    The tension between the two sets of images stirred Pelletier to investigate how the dichotomy between the madonna and the ****, "which still exists so strongly in that part of the world, could have disappeared altogether in so short a time in this part of the world."

     

    The 51-year-old veteran journalist began with no bias.

     

    "I just waited for the answer," she says.

     

    Society, she thinks, forgot to ask the question.

     

    "We think because we're awash in sexual imagery, that we're a permissive, liberal society and that everyone's happy with that."

     

    But are women really happy and comfortable with this? (And, she wonders, parenthetically, are men?)

     

    One conclusion Pelletier reached, even after hours of videotaped conversations with women, is that it's difficult to make sense of the "progression" from an era in the recent past that was oppressive to women to the liberated present, which, Pelletier believes, is nevertheless "not women friendly."

     

    And yet, she acknowledges, "Part of it is our own doing as feminists."

     

    We've gone from centuries of being seen as "erotic objects," she points out, through the feminist era of "wanting to have a bigger say in things" and therefore deliberately sidelining our sexuality to, finally, a post-feminist reclaiming of female sexuality, a sexual liberation promoted by the likes of Madonna and Camille Paglia that is almost assaultive.

     

    "If a young woman today thinks — and I think they do — that it's perfectly all right to have her tits hanging out of her blouse, because everyone does it and it's her body, that's (considered) `girl power.'

     

    "But you cannot get away with walking around half-naked and not expect bad stuff to happen.

     

    "For men, this dichotomy of **** and virtuous woman is much more alive than it is for women, especially young women. There's a dissonance."

     

    Besides, she says about this "tremendous rush by women to be sexual, to look like the buxom, long-legged blonde" — "it's become ridiculous. And men don't even like it that much. They can appreciate the esthetics but they're not overly impressed by the women. In fact, they're embarrassed by the behaviour. Women are looking more and more like whores in their eyes. It's gone out of all proportion."

     

    So where does the pressure come from for women to be openly sexual, to show up at work and on the subway with cleavage (even in winter!)? Pelletier calls it "a real bullying aspect to sexuality — you will be a hottie: that is the new commandment.

     

    "This model of the perfectly desirable woman has become the model overriding all others and it's impossible for women not to want to be that, in a way."

     

    In the end, Pelletier suggests, we women have fallen into a trap of our own making.

     

    Proclaiming our sexual power, we're willing accomplices to a society that exploits female sexuality and, perhaps more than ever, treats women as erotic objects.

     

    "The influence of Sex and the City gave the overriding impression that women were totally controlling their own lives, had developed healthy sexual appetites and would go wherever these appetites would bring them," she says. "But, at the same time, they were still looking for Mr. Right. They were these gorgeous, sexy girls who flaunted themselves and suggested the world is a better place for being able to do that and that there is no price to pay: `men will like you, you are who you are, you can make mistakes and carry on.'

     

    "But I think it is more complicated than that. Much more. Every woman over 40 knows it's much more complicated than that."

     

    As for those women wearing burkas in Afghanistan who inspired Pelletier, she says, while acknowledging the oppression and terrible constraints, "It must be a relief to be someone invisible and not have that pressure."

     

    "We have our own uniforms here. We think we're so free, but we are living under our own constraints." smile.gifsmile.gif

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    I thought I said they are 'a pack of pure player' and pretenders..

     

    You are talking about the 5% remaining...oh Thank you smile.gifsmile.gif .. i didn't know that

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    ...IKISIMAMA PANDA"...issue :D ..Raula you are so generous with u stories..

     

    One more thing I hated about mats is this...

     

    You know in the morning (Nairobi)when students go for school..we used to gather in groups to wait for mathrees..gossiping about madems na teachers..

     

    We select the latest mat with real mangoma(oLd sChOoL) smile.gif filled with amm supuus be they Somalis or jareers..The somalis were making us jealous coz they used to groove na mababi..majareers,ma antenos..na hata ..wangoso..So tunawalenga and all goes well.

     

    So as it continued, we used to get perks and favours from different mats and the Somali ladies used to get the highest favour till sometime mat imejaa na madem wasupuu hata wasomali walikuwa wakisimamisha mat even on the way..na hata imeshona..dereee anashuka..the lady is given a nice seat..and she gets a nice ride..nobody asks for chapaa..IKISIMAMA PANDA like..

     

    It continued like that until one night kuna mabeste walitushow ati..kuna dem msomali alikuwa akipataga favours za free lifts mpaka ikafika soo kadha wakamshow ati alipe jo..ati alikataa ku deliver the Goods smile.gif ...alikuwa akizi deliver kidogo kidogo kwa beste moja lakini alitakikana azi deliver this time kwa group kama manamba wanne hivo..

     

    One day dem akiwa ndani ya mat..akaambiwa leo ni leo..yacni dividends..Dem akalenga kimchezo chezo tu..eh akaambiwa basi ale mangoma tu hawezi kushuka..The mat went 8cycles mpaka hata lights zimeanza kuwa dim jo..

     

    So wakaenda na dem huo msomali mpaka wakam 'RAPE'

    in turns na kumtupa Ngong jo..imagine..Imagine all that happened with just small small favours for her..maybe even less than a cent US dollar per 3-5 trips but accumulated to 5 Dollars..Just imagine...

     

    So the lady couldn't reveal any information but as you know most mat guyz..are players..so they won't mind telling you as a joke..nilimwahi ati huyu dem wenyu and so on..The story caught us unawares..Coz huyo dem alikuwa anatulengaga vibaya jo..sisi mabeste wasomali..

     

    This guyz may or may not have AIDS...so we assumed they atleast they did some stuff with her ..and most Somali never used to mind that..most ladies passed the same scenario..na tunawajua wengi by names..although some relocated to UK and other parts of the world...and we also mind keeping secrects smile.gif

     

    It used to give me bloody maseeyr..and am sorry to say that.. smile.gif

     

    Anybody with some more stories..

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    >>>>Some Walendos are good but 95% of them are always pure liers..You may find a freind whom you doing business together na ana kukatia jo..This is really terrible..That is why I prefer to say that we have slightly better understanding..or the capacity to understand situations more than them..packs of pure player pretenders...and we are daacad..

     

    Their ladies are more of money chunkers..for real smile.gif

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    >>>>>Mazee let us try to be realistic..we have many sijuis doing great everywhere from Australia..the UK canada na ma states..

     

    So we arrange something like A summit..a small one for that matter where we can discuss about say anything including couselling,Matchmaking and even ethics..

     

    I think we have slightly better culture than our walendo brothers..do u guyz agree? smile.gif

     

    we can even talk BOLITICS... smile.gifsmile.gif

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    For the truth to be told...anyone with a very nice mali wive whom they live with respect and love will never and never find a different taste..

     

    So u thought the spanish blondes are from Jupiter...what can they that our Xaliimos can't...

     

    Don't try it..Respect for our dear Women.. smile.gif

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    Originally posted by Supuu:

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    I have an antipathy for White chicks...with emphasis..white..
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    I like Spanish girls,i wouldn't mind wedding one.

    LOOOOOL....

     

    Maybe that is why he didn't find a very nice Somali Blonde.. ;) ...and when he gets one..he will divorce her to search for his taste at Spanish and Sweet Latino Lolitas.. :D:D

     

    What about the chilli-sauced Indian ladies.. :D:D

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    May be 'You should wear some glasses'..Iranians are persians..Right..Eastern..but You included Prophet Mohamed who ain't Iranian.. smile.gif ..

     

    That was where we brought ISLAM...and arabs..We ain't saying arabs have the best culture around but due to their 'Crook culture'..it was ISLAM that came to tame them..

     

    Most importantly..who can argue that there is no equality in ISLAM..maybe u are assuming IRAN ain't ISLAMIC country...

     

    Can you say...the name of the country..?

     

    ISLAMIC REPUBLIC OF IRAN..

     

    But they deviated from ISLAMIC Teachings.. smile.gif

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    >>>>>Western freedom is to be tested soon...if they can't allow a muslim lady to wear her Hijaab..Then there is no reason to tell us they are democratic...

     

    Otherwise most european Countries and The US/CANADA group has started seeing the reality of ISLAM growth in their societies..ISLAM is about freedom...On a limited scale..Tilted towards believing in your God Allah as though you are seeing Him...

     

    If you cam't HIM...HE sees you.Whether aad asturaantahay or otherwise..You will be answerable to Him and Him alone..

     

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    This figures are really disgusting..why do they normally claim it is only MUSLIM women who are harrassed and abused..

     

     

    1,900 raped every day in America

    WASHINGTON-Nearly 1,900 women are raped every day in America, according to a study released on Thursday that paints a much grimmer picture than US Justice Department figures announced earlier this week.

     

    The National Victim Center, which promotes the rights of victims of violent crime, said 1.3 adult women are raped every minute and 683,000 US women are raped each year, based on a survey of more that 4,000 women, including 579 rape victims.

     

    One in eight adult American women has been raped, bringing the total of rape victims to at least 12.1 million, it said.

     

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  24. Posted

    Simple and it remains the truth ..that ISLAM came for the best treatment among other world religions..There is a lot of inequalities in other religions..for example Women are recognised as 'EVIL' by the christian Congress..

     

    Whatever..Think of it as A western propaganda anything that says about Women have no right..or this so called Wife beating..so on

     

    We said there is no wife beating in ISLAM..they show us pictures of women beaten..we showed them Women raped in the Christian World...so how is it ISLAM..

     

    So what was the story..Inequality but how...by stoning or lashing 100 strokes..or what..It is defined in the Holy quraan point blank..

     

    I urge all our men to respect their women and likewise all our women to respect their men..

     

    With ISLAM...i assure you everything is ok.. smile.gif

  25. Posted

    MS excel...or whatever you call yourself...

     

    Please assume that on this occasion am not talking about Arabs neither am I an arab..am a somali and a muslim..am talking on behalf of some guyz or may I say pretenders(MUNAFIQUUN)...who antagonize ISLAM..they say they submit to Allah while they are doing the other way...

     

    I said it is ISLAM which is perfect..and people and especially the MUNAAFIQUUN are busy trying to create some stories like WIFE BEATING in ISLAM and INEQUALITY and so on...all this items are described very well in DETAILS BY THE HOLY QURAAN...If you read my previous threads...you will see some Equality and Inequalities..There are times Women have more qualities than men...in DEEN and there are times when men have more qualities..

     

    Most times you will see in Quraan...

     

    'inaal munaafiqiina wal munaafiqaati..(two)..inaal musslimiina wal muslimaati...(two)..inaal muuminiina wal muuminaati...

     

    showing two(a man and a woman)..If there is no equality it would read like...

     

    Inaal muuminiina only...or even inaal munaafiqiina only...and u will find in the HOLY QURAAN alone..do u see that in the BIBLE...?

     

    So there is no excuse of 'WOMEN IN ARABIA...or somali WOMEN or whatever...All muslims are brothers and sisters...the prophet s.a.w said in his last khutba...

     

    'LA FADLA LI CARABIYIN LI ACJAMINYIN..'..ILAA BI TAQWAAAAAAAAAAA..

     

    meaning There is no human who is better than the other..infront of Allah except the one who fears HIM.

     

    So don't talk about ISLAM wala prophet..wala a lot of nonsense sis.. :mad:

     

    Talk about the main story..

     

    ISLAM IS PERFECT...Read Quraan 'ALYOMA AKMALTU LAKUM DIINAKUM'meaning we have perfected your Religion...Mind u this was the last Sura of the HOLY QURAAN..

     

    IT IS ONLY .ARABS AND SOMALIS AND OTHER MUSLIMS WHO ARE DOING AGAINST ISLAM... smile.gif A BIG FULLSTOP...jaribu tena