Somalia, Taleexi was trying to change the topic, and you are trying to help him/her? along to avoid and weather the storm. Shame on you both, xajji xanjuuf baad ka baqaden!

Saalax, what community, when did the said clan leave the community? Hoodlums and former supporters of garadag- I am neither, just pointing out the obvious, and a reminder that the next president will need to govern such hoodlums and all community, not just the said clan. I think you will find that labad lamaan in sanaag have more in common than say one would have with Duur's sub clan in hawd of hargeisa or in Go'ad. IF you try to argue otherwise you will just look like a Diaspora online clanist rather than reflecting the reality. :Rolleyes:

^^^^Lool wax walan!! Okay noted, can't say I share that view/ experience or feelings. waan ka xumahey inaad iis fashilisey, so iska raalin noqo

^^^^ Oodweyne kama baryayan dee in any case, Oodweyne of all people would otherwise be singing their praises if it were not for this nonsense of a meeting.

I really really dislike people like this said man, who clealry is just looking for his interest, pockets and benefit, every society has them, I think if each society shut the road behind them and stopped this nonsense of walking backward and forward within months, then they will disappear. Tomorrow he will be walking the other way because the grass is greener there and people will welcome him back instead of treating him like the loser he is! Then if and when he switches yet again, he still gets a welcome by the other party. A win win for him sadly!.

This meeting is ridiculousness to say the least. If anything it illustrates that THE said clan's different categories have nothing in common. It is a waste of resources and at the wrong time! On a different note, I think the new parties have done more haram than good for Somaliland, with clan emerging (I mean break down into tiny little subs) each wanting a share of parties. You would think parties will dissolve the clan division, but no. Such waste!

Faheema learnt Somali and Punjabi- she did not really go to an Arab country Adam, Iam sure you can judge that yourself, plus Im the worst person to ask, you should ask someone more sentimental and love dovy- like Malika or Val, although you if you have to ask- then you already sort of have your answer. Juxa would say, buy her another box and iska suuk, dont sound like your in a rush either I dont want to see you singing this five yrs down the line. Ngonge keeps speaking on Juxa words? leesh? Howdy everyone. Che Bengali- you are joining my family P.s. why are you not answering me on Skype- why must I ask you on SOL

Your friend is indecisive and too hasty then, after all that fuss and deciding he wants nothing to do with her, suddenly after his hotheaded reaction, now he is doubting his judgement. I hope your friend does not read sol (you know all the girls who never go out live out in the virtual world anonymously) Okay I;ll leave your friend alone! Lol at stalling on purpose- maybe she is just not so sure and confident about commitment and all the responsibility that come with it. At 25 and 26, you are both too young with so much of life to live. She does not sound like a model seeker- insecure and paranoid men are waste- no one wants to baby sit a grown men and smooth his ego P,s, about the topic- you never did tell us how you proposed after all that research?

Timbuktu is on my visiting wish list- maybe next summer. ElPunto, arre you kidding??

loool poor farah! a lesson well learn and one he will never lived down!! Che who do you have a crush on? do share

Hey val Im good, how you doing. As for Adam, Im just trying to help a sister out dee and give him a gentle push.

Adam, Your friend jumped ship because he saw a picture with no hijab, had she jumped ship because she revealed she was a former drug alcohol addict, we would not be having this discussion. My objection is based on people whose so called policies are based on a facades of looks, dress or perception. If you find out for yourself they are a waste, then of course you would head a different way. But if you are superficial enough then you will end up with superficial stuff like covered niqabis with undercover lifestyle and he probably deserves it. That guy I mentioned spend years dating endless girls we though were loose and he'd never marry and always said when he married, he will find himself a good "pure" girl. Well he got his version and rightly so! Interestingly enough Adam, you should marry your poor queen- how long does an engagement last these days? People will start to think she is a bad girl hanging with you for so long even worse if you dont for whatever reason decide not to marry eventually- shock and horror you will ruin her chances of finding a good man as they will all judge the fact she was with you for so long. Juxa Val sorry to hear that!! Malika dont come here (SL) to relax, JB is mad for advertising it as a place of rest! JB sorry to here so, how is the Moving Library- review the old thread and write your reviews dhee

Che IF he was my brother I would've Laakin I am pretty sure that neither one of my brothers wrote that!

The book is selling for $60 on Amazon! At that rate it better be blood well written and a documented master documentation!! I hate reading sad depressing literature, so I'll give it a miss.

LOL LOL, dhadkaan max heesta!!!!! Sii soco, soo soco, wadaadad ayaa liiqi at this rate!! Xabsadey is due for a switch soon miyaan aheyn

Chimera depends on why he let the advances slide? For God I assume, in which case his reward with Allah not HER, and his "scarifies" noted. As for does it give him the right to be paranoid and judgmental- actually no it does not- it is a personality trait- not a god given right, shaqadiisa ma aha- social, religiously or otherwise. If everyone worried about themselves and their actions a little more and a little less about what everyone did, doing and may do, we might actually progress in life. My interest is in this person NOW- where they are heading, for what reasons and how they plan to get there, their morals, behaviour and religious aspirations NOW and the Future- My interest in the past is in passing reference. ]b] Religious knowledge without action is useless, religious clothing without the moral code to back it up is false advertisement, a lie.. Hypocri/sy. [/b] You can always ask her or him- but running off is both childish and immature I had a friend like yours once, He judged and run off from some xalimos because in his view, she had too many male friends, one hair was showing, and he glimpsed her ankles by accident while she run for the bus. He eventually married a niqabi hijabi who was technically/ physically a virgin but all the guys in her area knew about her belly button piercing and beauty spots surrounding her left breast- they were respectful enough not to tell the poor bugger- so last I knew he was happy. I'm just saying; The ankle showing girl later married a south American brother- last I saw she was happy. I am a firm believer that one way or another- everyone gets what they truly deserve, be it a ***, thug or a saint, and you should pick based on a little bit more than her ankles were showing or I saw his muscle showing picture 10yrs ago. P.s. In saying all that everyone hates something; for example I have a severe dislike for guys who is acquainted with everyone- Every time you try go for a walk or out, half of town must be greeted! people should have small group of friends and that's it. Lool @ your perceived convo with children. Maaddeey- good to hear.

Maaddeey, it is nice to know dhad xishooda ayaa adunka ku haadey- recently qof kasta dhaf ayau iska ka so oodhanaya, and then adiga ayaa dalac lagu racaya if you point out the unnatural aspect of their forward behaviour. Thanks. And please never call me, last I remember you was joining some somali religious fraction or another.

Malika, he sent me another one after a while saying "u really missed da chance!" I wanted to Text back Piss off, but I figured he is winding me up and I hate people who write in slang!! What the hell is "da, u, wid" ish, I worked too hard to learn the correct English and after all the hard work of my childhood, people want me to revert to speaking like a retard who can't spell!

MAybe you should stop hanging with so much make up then JB sorry I mean errr girls.

/salamAlikum Hello everyone; I got a random call from this guy: "hello Hello Ibtisam, I've been looking for you, it took me three weeks to get your number. Errr, so what can I do for you I am a man who has seen you several times, hawaad ayaan ka jecladey, so I've tired really hard to find your number and who you are, I even saw you this morning Look, thank you laakin waad isaso luggoysey, salamAlikum. Click." The cheeky bugger then sends me a txt in English: " Since u are from Buroa then u can't understand the value of man!" So which soler is visiting Hargeisa? And JB who did you give my number to? :D :D Adam, your male friend is too judgmental, probably for better, imagine they got married and then he saw the picture- sounds like the type that would've divorced.

LOOOL @ Ngonge!!! Miskiin lol Salam everyone!!! Xxxxx

Looool Wax Walan!!!! There was an old man sitting where you where sitting when you took that picture the other day (I was at the next table with friends having coffee) he sat there for a while and then asked his friend "OH Nur Madows wa maxey? Goor mu furya" I nearly choked on the coffee! Nur Madowey eh! lol Loool @ Serenity! save them please.

Wow!!!! Im touched, thanks Laakin I think we should skip this topic, I would hate to think my whole trip and existence here will be over shadowed by the actions of a selfish coward. For some people, it really is too late and they are beyond help, you just move them out of your way and let them meet their maker for all their evils. The sliver lining is, fortunately I had enough leverage to get him removed, I got a few punches, while his patients often died due to lack of post C-section follow up, malpractice, and infections. At least I dont have to see the faces of relatives, while they blamed his crimes on God and it being her time to die. That is worth more than a few punches. Blue Im not a doctor, Somalis (and in North cases Indians) have an obsession with Titles, they insist on calling me professor or Dr, both which I find offensive, since I am neither. EDIT: Adam I agree. Thanks Since no one will help me with posting the pictures- Im just gonna post them on the blog instead of here.

I met Ngonge real cousin today :eek: Small world. Nice, very pretty girl, I didnt tell her I knew you.

Blue they boys posted a few- and Im waiting for LSK to show us an easier way to post pictures! current system requires i host them somewhere else first! Yiiiks. Thanks Malika, funny you say that, for the most part the long term diaspora returnees living here have formed a clan-less clan closer than their different clans.