Qalbi Adegy: IS that not the essence of forgiveness?? Also bare in mind the three conditions that validate repentance. So long as you fufil those three conditions necessary for sincere repentance, it is like you have not sinned at all. The mercy of Allah eh. Subxanallah. The hadith from the prophet: “One who repents of a sin is like a person who has not committed a sin”. Narrated by Ibn Majah. Check out this talk C&H Also in addition of that person being considered sin free, with regards to Ayah "The adulterer marries not but an adulteress or a Mushrikah and the adulteress none marries her except an adulterer or a Mushrik, most scholars believe that it is repealed with the following Ayah: {And marry those among you who are single, …}. [24:32] Imam Qurtubi said: ‘This is the view point of the majority of scholars’.

^^^LOOOOL, you are so evil, leave the girls alone!

Val or something indeed. do you have to perform?? No never did one can't help you. I love Krispy kremes, yummy, I eat far too many of those things! Psssst lool @ move and follow.

HAHAHAH @ JB waax waalan! LOL

^^^Adam, brov ma illia aragtey Siren: No I have not read it yet, I was suppose to on sunday while lazing about, only I was rudely awaken at 8am on a Sunday morning and spent the rest of the day (till 5pm) slaving away, cooking, cleaning and waiting on guest. Apparently no one bothered to tell me we invited half clan to my house on A SUNDAY :eek: :mad: I will read it this weekend inshallah, LOOL @ Cara!! Pssst; I think they are just surprised you have female bits, hence the looks lol, you do meet freakish people (normally white men) who find hijiabified women hot. I will give you a useful tip than holding your hands in front of you! LOL. Make your hijabs out of heavy material, not silk of nylon, use heavy or embedded materials. It holds all on its own. Those little light materials are a killer when the wind blows and suddenly it molds to you. :eek: Siren: A little head scarf that goes around your neck is not a hijab, I mean hijab that fulfils the hijab criteria, over your shoulders and covers your bosom.

Maybe riyaal pays well

^^^Maxaad kuu qoosli, you loser, baal win just one time, I am kicking your ***!! Sheh I will inshallah.

You can always wear a cabayah and hijab, only people who will look at you are freshies (arabs/ asain) or people who fear you, both keep their distance, particularly if you give them an evil look. That is your protection. Outside of that, just ignore them

Can you edit and call it something other than rape. P.s. Security guards looking at anything with a pair of legs, don't bother about them. Better you just ignore them all together, just nod at them hello. In any case black men waaxab loo saar Somali girls. Meel kaasta, "hello, my African sista/ queen" with a big chessy grin.

^^^I saw her in the park with a book, maaxad kaa raabta?

^^Sounds like sufism and slightly wrong, waax normal maa heesi?? I think your first suggestion baa lugu qatey

^^^Yes you can off load your layers and do it in the nude if you wish. lol. As for the tennis, Aaah if I go into it, you will not believe me, I will show you one day. I did not plan to do all that in one go, I was just walking home, when the rest came along, then I had to jog because my habo was waiting for me and she said hurry up.

^^^Waar nag daah waaxad sheekisid, from Ibtisam to Mijo Jiir (does it look like I hail from near ilko jiir!) waaxas anagu lama baaxano.

^^ARe you free friday?? Faheema was meant to txt you all, but err she pulled a muscle

Kasuumo?? does that not mean underwear in southern Somali?? Quuril Ceyn (don't want to take the pis*s)

^^^then my PM will be full!! Sheh I think that is a great idea, I'll change to Sheherazade with a full stop at the end LOOL So evil, Ngonge is getting it! LOOL Sayid LOOL that is an idea

Sheh@ I walked home for 2hrs and 30mins, then I did boxing (we'll call it shadow boxing 10mins) then I played tennis for 1hr (not the usual way of playing tennis), then I jogged for 3mins. Malika get a farah to do it.

:eek: @ LAyzie. I don't see what is so difficult to understand girls. You remaining a virgin is not a social obligation or for your husband or for anything else for that matter, it is because of Religion, why do you keep talking about double standard iyo sharaf and bullshid. You are all looking at this kinda upside down, it is irrelevant what the guy is at this point, it is as absurd as saying I will stay a virgin because Hebalaayo from down the road has made the same choice. Okay if you decided to keep your virginity for any other reason than religion, then this is a different story, however if your reason is religion, you are really barking up the wrong tree by trying to police others. It is between them and Allah. What is worrying is that someone of you seem to only keep it locked out of fear or what people or husband would say, rather than an obligation, even more worrying is that you do not see someone who has broken Allah's laws, a major sinner, as that, but rather term it experience, iyo this and that. Miyaad waalan tiihi miise I'm confused. This person is a criminal and until they repent, they will remain so, how can you almost glorify it? Abû Hurayrah, may Allâh be pleased with him, said that the Messenger of Allâh, may Allâh bless him and grant him peace, said, “A fornicator does not fornicate while a believer, a thief does not steal while a believer, and a man does not drink alcohol while a believer. When someone does that, the halter of Islâm slips from his neck. If he repents, Allâh returns to him.” Would you marry someone who steals or drinks, the answer is no, so why would you consider and almost be proud of a guy who slept around and try to make it a positive attribution. As for boys versus the girls, well the crime is the same, and in Islam the punishment is the same, so is it really relevant if other humans can tell if you have cheated and not a virgin? The warning is to both: “Do not go near to fornication. It is an indecent act, an evil way.” (17:32) “Those who do not call on another god together with Allâh and do not kill any person Allâh has made inviolate – except with a right – and do not fornicate. Anyone who does that will receive an evil punishment.” (25:68) C&H: I had this discuss with Aaliya about this ayah before and I gave her some explanations, I tried to find the thread, but can’t find it. I will dig up the evidence for you if I can, but in short, the person is judged on their current state, so a former reformed fornicator does not have to pair up with another reformer, they make their repentance to Allah for their mistakes and are no longer in that category. The ayah is relevant to those who do not repent and remain in that life style.

I keep reading my name in other threads in convos I have nothing to do with, from politics to general, to women. It is confusing me. I need a name change, what do you suggest?

^^^Getting you and the house ready eh? lol Just hire someone to finish off and get new carpet. I am feeling so sore today it is not even funny. Sheeko and nus!

Sheh, she is speaking normal somali what is so hard to understand, I'll try the first bit for you: Adunyaad hanweeinda, ciidaal lo halgeemya (so much expectation, struggling for nothing) Hawad raag baa teegi oo dayaax hoos uu so deeg (some men went up to space and brought the moon down) Hobaalayow heedhe Hobaalayow heedhe Adunyaad hanweeinda, ciidaal lo halgeemya Hawad raag baa teegi oo dayaax hoos uu so deeg Hobaalayow heedhe Hobaalayow heedhe Dhad intii huurdo oogain haalisti weyenah Hobaalayow heedhe Hobaalayow heedhe Alah hob, hob Hobaalayow heedhe

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL Gosh, what a bloody idoi*t farah! LOOOL She sounds like hitler and very annoying, :eek:

^^^I saw that clip last year, I could not stop laughing for ages! LOOL. I hate them people, always taking people's cars :mad:

'Khat' is a popular stimulant chewed across east Africa. Now it is crossing cultural divides and becoming a drug of choice for an increasing number of young people in the UK. The khat plant, Catha edulis, has been chewed by east Africans for hundreds of years and plays a large part in the social lives of both men and women. It is banned across America, Canada and most of Europe, but remains legal in Britain. Khat user Steve [not his real name] is a philosophy student. He is one of an increasing number of students who are taking up the habit. Steve, who is 22, comes from a good middle-class family and in a slightly apologetic tone he tells me he was drawn to the leaves because they looked harmless. "They looked really natural, not like a normal drug and they were all wrapped up in this really shiny banana leaf." Crossing divides Chewing khat according to those who do it, gives them a mellow high. Some describe it as a cross between cannabis and cocaine. You're really alert," says Steve, "but at the same time you have a bit of the feeling you have on cannabis... not hallucinations but going that sort of way." In Somalia, khat is popular among taxi drivers and farm workers - people who have to stay alert while the rest of us are tucked up in bed. In the UK, some students are using it for the same reasons, saying it helps them stay up all night studying. It is relatively easy to get, and it's cheap too - your average bundle costs about £3 ($.4.20). When I went in search of some for this piece, I was pointed in the direction of an Ethiopian butchers in north London. They had sold out, but assured me they were expecting a fresh batch to be delivered in a couple of days. The woman behind the counter suggested I try down the road. Next stop and sure enough there it was, nestled innocently between the cucumbers and courgettes. "Aren't you worried about selling it," I ask. "No, why should I be?" The store owner asks, with a slightly bemused look on his face. "Its legal, we pay taxes and people want to buy it, so I sell it." Controversial status But there growing concern that khat houses are trying to appeal more to younger users. And that according to Asha, a teenager we meet at a community centre in east London, is setting a dangerous precedent. "I see so many kids who...start because they just want to try it, but then they end up going there 24/7," he says. "I know [people who] have ended up dropping out of college because they've been up chewing all night and can't get out of bed. Plus you get people selling other harder drugs in there." But it's not just the impact on academic results critics are concerned about Psychiatrist Dr Eleni Palezido reckons that khat can be a catalyst for mental health problems. "When you stop taking khat all the dopamine (a chemical associated with feelings of pleasure in the brain) leaves your system, so people get depressed, they can get paranoid, hear voices and it can lead to a full blown psychotic state." Cathinone and cathine are the main ingredients of the plant. Both are class C drugs in the UK, but the plant khat itself is not classified and can be bought openly in shops. Cathinone is almost identical to amphetamines and it is this that creates a high. It's known to cause mental health problems like psychosis and depression. And that is one of the reasons why some in the medical profession, like Dr Palezido, are worried. "Young people have no idea about the dangers, they think because it's legal it must be ok, but it's not." So far, the Government has been reluctant to introduce a ban on khat. Although, the Home Office told us they were "continuing to monitor the situation." Around seven tonnes of khat arrives at Heathrow every week from Ethiopia, Kenya and Yemen. The fact that it is legal here has meant the UK has become something of an international hub for illicit trade in khat to other countries where it is banned. There are no official figures on how many young British people are using khat, but Asha reckons the politicians should act now before it's too late. "The government should be doing something about it. They think it's just Somalis who are doing it but it's not....everyone's now getting involved." http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7942432.stm

^^^Qaxoonti Ms DD, err waaxan joogin haa ii advertise gaarinine please, caallah caalal kaareem