^^^Loool @ empty qasacad Never happened to me before- I'd like to think this was a one off

CL I don't need to, He would know I don't put with up with randomness- I don't need to ask, I already know. I'm sure he has female friends (co-workers, old friends, friends of friends, wife or friend etc) I just don't want to hear about it, nor would I meet them or ask them to dinner. If he wants close close female friends, dinner, cinema, phone calls and endless meetings I will gladly donate him to her or them and they can keep him for good no big deal.

^^^Cut out juice- what do you mean- I thought fizzy drink was bad and juice good. What I'm suppose to wash my food down with?? Sheh: But thats 360 swing to things I never ever eat- some of the fish you listed I don't even know where they sale. Brown bread taste like sand paper and never tasted brown rice. Salads are for goats and soup is just hot water with milix. I don't want toe be a health freak- just normal, sheh your list is ODD, can't be normaly! C&H list looks more normal!

Loool @ Sheh!! CL I won't let him female friends before marriage- what makes u think I'd put up with them AFTER marriage.

ShehIf I take sugar and cake out, it will look like this: 10am breakfast: -Tea, orange juice, (I don't normally add sugar to my tea or even coffee) Lunch 3pm - Sandwich- always white bread or roll(Tuna & Salad) or bowl of Cornflakes (I have fruit after if I eat cornflakes) - Juice 8-9pm Dinner - Chicken sauce or grill chicken with chips or pasta, juice 12am: Water or juice. I tried that, I nealry died of gaajo- remember I told you I had cake free month- I changed the cake for Mango slices and Melon for a month. Now I hate both and the Mango made my tonuge sore :eek:

^^IF she was English she would not make me feel like that- if she did not act the way she did I would have no reason to feel anything towards her. CL Lool I try to keep the evil side in check. Serenity- is he guilty of anything?? Maybe the pressure of having baby and all is getting to them. Paranoia.com

^^^It still seems like a lot of hard work, specially in the winter and some pain by the looks of it. Okay here is my typical day. 10am breakfast: -Tea, orange juice, slice of cake or muffin 1pm snack -Tea & Biscuit. Lunch 3pm - Sandwich- always white bread or roll(Tuna & Salad) or bowl of Cornflakes (I have fruit after if I eat cornflakes) - Slice of cake or packet of crisps - Juice and sometimes fizzy drink snack 5pm chocolate 8-9pm Dinner - Chicken sauce or grill chicken with chips or pasta, sometimes with slice of cake, juice 12am: Water or juice. Looking at it now- I eat 6times a day!!! LOL maybe it is not so hard.

CL- she did not seem to know I did nothing- I felt like I was being asked to justify why he talks so much! Damn him- maybe she thought he was lying to her or something. The evil side of me was tempted to say "ME? I never worked on that project, no one we are good friends and go out all the time" That would teach him not to talk so much and her not to ask questions she might not like the answer to.

Yuck indeed- I've deleted his e-mail and number and I'm avoid him like sun avoids the UK. Not nice at all.

CL it made me feel and and just uncomfortable. I mean gosh! Juxa it was not funny, I was made to feel like I did something wrong or somehow contributed to a fight that was going on behind closed doors. Also I felt like she was being a bit too fake nice. :eek:

. Lool @ pretending to be walaalked. :eek: Akhaas and half. Married men should not have any females who they talk to more than once a year or mention her name. I recently run into a wife of a guy I did some projects with, this is how the convo went: Him: Xalimo this is Ibtisam who I did that project with a few months ago Her: Hi walalo leans in to give me a hug and kiss "my husband talks about you all the time" Me: err, smile at her Her: You've worked together on few things have you not? Me: Haa Her: Ha markii aad halki waxas ku qabteen na waan ogan Him: I invited you, but you was busy Me: At this point feeling like I'm stuck in some domestic situation. then she asks me about where I live, with who and if I am married Her: Haye what are you guys planning to do next together Me: At the moment I'm taking a break from community work, I don't know about farah Her: Ok, well you should come around for dinner- its lovely to meet the Ibtisam farah talks about markasta, you know put a face to everything. Him: Looking embarrassed " I just said wa gabad ficiina" you are going to make her think I say lots of stuff Me: I got to go, lovely meeting you sis Her: Okay, but please come around- how about this weekend, I'll get farah to come and pick you up. Me: I can't, sorry but we'll arrange something inshallah.

^^Yeah, I agree- she needs to show she is open minded enough to take steps to educate herself and then it may show she is receptive to what they may say to her. Now she just wants them jumping up and down to proof they won't explode.

^^^Music just makes people emotional and irrational. The women needs to stop being so self absorbed and get on with life, I'm seriously how selfish and self pity is not a good trait. All that calcal over some dude. Now they have song lyrics that don't make sense :confused:

^^^Err Naf yar means tii sii baqatisiey- wabey ka haadi doonta in a minute style. Now I ignored it the first time, don't try to justify and ha isku key tirin. 3K and 55K to you guys, rip off- can I sale that to the sun

Fu-fu and Urban How about if I want to keep eating chocolates and cakes and junk food- is there a way I maintain healthy feeling/ looking toned muscles? I don’t mind my weight as it is, I built my muscle mass already- I can feel them- but I can't get them to show? so now what? I can't eat 6meals a day, nor can I not eat before 6, I hate brown bread, race, oat and anything brown. I live on sugar and cakes. Maybe I will post my food intake and you can draw a picture for me.

Lool @ you too, so I am islan naf yar- hmmm Juxa it was about you guys taking 50% and the client getting 5%

lool I think music makes people imagine things that are not there and the shitan really uses it to get into peoples head. In particular I think love songs brainwash people into something which does not sit well with reality- they end up with crazy expectations which borders on worshiping someone and visa verse and the complaint songs make normal everyday problems huge and the hate songs feed off people's anger and create a mounting out of dust. Now breakup songs I hate the most- they make people sit around all depressed, looking to the shitty past which suddenly becomes all about the magical days- even though really it was mundane and boring, but somehow the past becomes something impossible to attain, the future appears bleak and the present like dogs world. This is followed by the survival songs- which are just as bad and contradictor. So really I think people should avoid music at all times, particularly, if they are happy, sad, heartbroken or angry. I was forced to listen to MJ many times by suited men who keep tapping the damn feet on the train- like they are going to break into a dance in moment now.

- CAIR is under performing - They could do so much more- but they are passive and don't do enough to mobilize their huge Muslim following and membership. - They should use the AIPAC model and be more effective for the community - Muslims should not feel the need to be apologist for terrorist, nor do I go around telling people "sorry, but I'm good, I won't blow you up" Same way Christians don't apologies for extremist individuals who happen to be Christian, or black people apologising for every black criminal and nutter. But at the same time, we Muslims should be proactive in spread dacwa, educating people about what Islam is, this is our fundamental role. If this is done effectively enough, we won't need to have a disclaimer of "I'm not a terrorist" - This women is ignorant and Islamphobic individual who does not care for the truth. If she wants to comment on a certain topic, group or issue- it is her role to be informed and search for information. It is not going to land on her lap, nor can she make her campaign based on Islamphobic views and then hide behind “why did they not come to look for me and denounce this or that”. She took the time to find Ayan Hiris, I'm sure she does not have to work as hard to find a Muslim. - Lastly any smart normal idividual in position would’ve looked to the scriptures to judge a group of people, rather watching 1% of the said group and planning a campaign on their actions. Her ignorance really cannot be excused and she has no place in mainstream society. She only needs to look to her own religions history to see how this method works against her. Still having said all this, I've not read her website, just skimped through but I think Lazy gave me enough to go on.

Last I heard back in Nov he was well and fine- a little bad tempered but otherwise he was fine. Why ma deeyna baad ku leedehy?

Kul sana wintum bikheyr, Friday and new year- ya salam.

Morning all. Happy new year people. Kul sana wintum bikheyr and Jumca mubarak. New year- new start. This year less nacnac (both sweets and talking rubbish)hard work and better health. Juxa you (people like you rather) was on the cover of the metro this morning- soon as I read it I thought of you

^^IT is snowing And all the above.

^^^As I said he has just had more opportunity to cheat and with no strong reason NOT to cheat (it seems like his marriage was all but in name) It is not about being faithful to a person (if that was the guys everytime you fight or with your husband and wanna kill him you would cheat) Wa in naart lagu xuuxiyo

All men are not dogs- someone people (men &women) have principles that govern them and some don't. If you as was rich as him, had as many offers and had no moral or religious limitations, then I'm sure you would run wild too. Being famous and rich is a magnet to the groupies and gold diggers. I’m not surprised really. Aaah it is snowing heavy here

^^^Please don't come in her and insult me and Ngongs guru!!! :mad: This is a friendly thread- no name calling. Be reer magaal bloody qardho wali.