Bluelicious

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  2. Posted

    NGONGE;754951 wrote:
    That wasn't the point you missed, silly.
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    Picture yourself downloading one of these apps. Imagine looking at these guys and then going on to do the "test", what man in his right mind is going to get "jealous" as they observe you doing that? Wax fahan.
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    No! Your the one who missed the point. You see when I talked about men getting jealous I meant the men who are in relationship and their girlfriends/wives who would watch this commercial. Their partners wouldn't like it that she gives such men attention finds them hot and would download the app it happens alot.

     

    Would you get jealous seeing your partner watch and enjoy that commercial? :P

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    Abdul arrange marriages only work out if both parties agree to be with each other and not if your forced into by your family like some parents do. Burahadeer what Aaliyyah was trying to say indirectly is that there was already a chemistry between the sheikh and the turkish woman at the start when he met her at the islamic society and that was enough for him to pursuit her further and approach the brother and eventually marry her. Chemistry is what makes marriage successful it's well known without it your marriage will break. In islam the importance of chemistry is also talked about so that shows you that it is very important.

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    Putting your address and alot of personal information on your Facebook is just asking for trouble the same goes for accepting and adding strangers to your profile. Now why would anyone share their address on their profile I call them nuts. The people whom they have on their profiles assuming they only have friends and family would know their address so that would be dumb.

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    Shaykh is discussing the facts of western dating and it's harmful effects which is haram in islam and not the halal dating which islam promotes. Ibtisam I wouldn't know how that man met his wife but all I can say is he probably did it on the halal way e.g halal dating or through family or through community or through mosque etc. Knight if it's western dating no.

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    May Allah bless Shaykh who has with his advices saved many young men and women from committing fornication before marriage, by pointing out the whole truth in such a manner that the youth of today find it palatable and adhere to his advices. Once Shaykh very candidly called out to the youth of the community:

     

    “When young men and women date with each other (before marriage), they think that by doing this I am going to get to know the person well and then I can then decide whether we will be compatible or not. Remember that this is a deceit. When a young man and young woman go out together they usually only show a front and their best side, and most faults are concealed. Therefore after a ‘love marriage’ people face problem immediately [because ‘they don’t seem to know that person anymore’].

     

    One can also make a assumption that perhaps these types of marriages face furthermore problems than other marriages [without pre-marital relations] because one has an already fixed an expectation that this person was such before and should be so now. Where as a couple whom have not had pre-martial relations will be open-minded and become willing to face any problem that come their way”.

     

    Another time Shaykh said “A young man came to me and said ‘Shaykh I don’t find my wife attractive any more, and neither does she find me attractive. I don’t understand’, he said ‘before marriage we were extremely attracted to each other’. I replied [said Shaykh] to this young chap. ‘It’s quite simple. The love that you had was actually an infatuation, and Shaytaan deliberately put that attraction in the both of you so that you went on committing sin before marriage. It was favourable for him to do so because you were both in grave loss. However, after you got married, your interaction became Halal and lawful, so in fact, instead of sin you were now gaining reward, so Shaytaan removed that attraction, because you were evidently in gain!”

     

    However, love can turn into an illness if it becomes obsessive, if it goes beyond its proper bounds, or if the object of love is not worthy. When such a situation develops, love indeed becomes a sickness requiring a remedy. A heart that is full of concern for others will be a heart that is full of love but not a slave to love. It is an empty heart that falls stricken for any visitor who graces its doorstep. So spare yourself for unneccesary heartache and don't do the dangerous dating game.

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    I'm aware of what's going on around the globe but politics don't interest me. They always seem to be unfair and unjust people and do whatever they can do in their power to get votes. It's a sort of popularity contest between who can get the most people on their side.

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    Catches the fish and gives it to her fish loving Asian next door neighbour who in return gives a bright smile back. And watches the dvd of eat pray and love what a good movie. I need to seek out my own spirituality. Sweet dreams to Chubacka.

     

    *throws a glass of water in the next persons face*

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    ^^ Lol that's how it should be right hospitality towards other people that's the only way to move forward and promote good communication between people. I have been a member on Somways and Slife but never a member of Somalinet heard alot of bad things about it.