looooooool one of my friends...her dad paid for the wedding party she had. But, when she got married she was only 20 and the guy being her age labadooduba lacag may haysan so her dad was more than happy. laakin adiga if ur hitting 30 and expect her family to pay for the wedding or the furniture adaa cirka roob ku og..

walahi do you think i am joking? im not!! unless your buying some crappy furnitures if you want lasting ones invest in them...kuraasta fadhiga is about 5 k..your dining table a good one is about 3k that alone is 8 k..i added another 5k for sharaxad/carpets and anything else your house needs etc..im serious 13k meel dhigo ama like one of my edos every year badal your furniture lol im sure now she spend more than 20k lool..wa your choice. salaam

Stoic, thanks for the advice and your good wishes. I do dislike videos myself..especially when they will end up across seas with million relatives la ogeen meshay kaso galeen.

loooooooooooool@especially in this tough economy...now everyone has a nice alibi somaha for being cheap joking! anyways, I have no idea lol...but just guessing like i said earlier at least 10 k for a wedding? and apartments costs abt 1000 + monthly..as for furnitures hmm maybe another 13k...i mean im trying to go as cheap as possible since you lost your good job recently due to the recession lmao.. salaam

adaa mudan walaal. Also feel free to post any other updates.

^thats true too. dabcan reer laascanod iyo reer buhodle way isku hurayan nafta taasi wa run. siiba hada oo la arkay dadkan inay caadi aheen oo xumaan isku wada sacabinayaan.

We all know this guy irevolution is a script. Reer buhodle iyo laascanodna ma aha dad lakala sarayo oo wawalaalo laakin reer laasnanod and I'm not saying this cuz I'm from laascanod but the fact remains that back in 07 althou they were unhappy with the somalidid crew they opted to not fight back so they were never defeated and rather waxay dorten inay baaq nabaded diraan oo ilaa hada dirayeen xita oo rajaynayeen in balayadan ilaahay hadeeyo oo sadexooda magaalo ku imaan qabaan . Laakin markay arinti si leeg buhodle gaadhey oo reer somalidid buhodle damcen dee halka waxa ka cadaatay inay somalididkan nabad rabin lakin umad kale xaqeed u badhedheen marka reer buhodle alhamdulilah way iska celiyeen oo marwalba ku guleesteen taasna waa wanagoda gesinimadoda iyo ilahay mahadi taasna waxay ku tusasa inay rer somalidiid mesha waxba ku haynoo yago clan dhan ah hal tuulo ka adkaan kari wayaan baryahana mudaharad wa ka dhaceen my hometown laascanod sida reer buhodlena markay ku talo gostan inay dagalaman reer somalidiid shekadodu waba so gabagaboobasa its just a matter of time kan manto dhan reer lascanod magaya ee script ahna wuxu isleeyahay reer ka dhex shaqee laakin ma soconaso rer lascanod iyo rer buhodle waa ul iyo diir

Loool no I changed. I don't mind paying the house with him inshallah its like you said earlier its good to invest in something worthwhile aroos 20k ama 30k ku kacay wax laga faidayo baa iska yar ka aheen in wax laga sheego oo manto dhan lugu xanto

Didn't even notice your dialect. Maybe its your nickname cambuulo that made me think your writing was girly.. Bt now that I think about it cambuulo just means digir lool

Chimera;786960 wrote: I'm glad you're content, I remember you as a girl with adorable dreams and now you're a dignified woman doing away with childish things, I get it. I just recommend that you still demand a lavish wedding, and motivate the Farah into saving money. You could tell him eventually that you are okay with a small wedding but instead would like that money invested in a specific business, with you owning half. With 25k you can open a successful shop with 50k you can open two, etc and live comfortably. lol that sounds like a good idea. laakin waxan ka ilaaway that I want at least 300k guri ah iyo gaadhi

Miriam1;784986 wrote: Plus you don't need to spend that much on a great wedding - max $6000 - that could easily include everything from the hall, dress&accessories, food and transportation. At the end of the day its the people there that make it special - and what's more lovely than having an intimate wedding with your closest family/friends. my cousin's marriage costed 6000 dollars on the girls only wedding night and another 4000 on the nikaax expenses so her wedding expense totaled 10 000 dollars..hadad meel kireesanasid uma maleenayo inuu 10k ka yaranayo. Thats the lowest u can go..i think!!

kan faroole la dhoho horta wa kudaaf saaqid ah...laascaanod maanta maalinti loga baahna ma aha. Galkacyo haka war doono.

loooooooooool im actually rather happy. Nothing sad about it ...the cheaper your wedding is the more barakah it gets. Thats the best lesson I can learn from all that I observe around me...crazy weddings and divorce the next day...take notes Adam lol.. salaam

On the note...I got a friend who's doing a dinner party for close friends of both the bride & groom. I don't think it will cost even more than $500 max. Way to go gal. Raula, actually I plan the same except I would include the family too lol...walahi i guess at some point you grew up or caqli ba ku kordha. I always dreamed about walking down the isle with my farah and all the fuss lmao..but lately not so much!.. salaam

loool cafis walaal. Something about your writing comes across a girl dunno. MY BAD!!!!

sool, sanaag iyo cayn taako qudha haysan maysid. alaabtaada ka uruurso abaal laawe ha hadaaq aqoon yare ka hadaaq itaal yare ka hadaaq hilfahaaqa ka xanmaabro saado noolow run baad sheegtaye ..allena ha u naxaristo intii buhodle ku dhimatay xaq ayeey ku dhintene. buhodlena wax u yaal baa iska yar

I have no memory of somalia, that first memory I mentioned earlier was in egypt cairo. Odeysomali when were you in egypt we were there from 90- 92...but my memory of cairo is vague nothing solid.

It all depends where you are. Back home men can have two or three wives and over 25 kids. Some of my uncles back home are on that boat I'm sure 20ka ciyaala waxa afar ciyaal oo qurbe jooga kuma bixin...so ka firsada dabad ki sadex ku raba asaga uun baa walanaya

Looool@yuryur, priceless!! Alle ayeeyoyinkena ha xafido inti waalid noolna nolol wacan haku simo inti dhimatayna alle ha u naxaristo oo janada haka waraabiyo ameen yaa rab

Cambuulo you and I are the same age how cool is that anyways my heart goes out to you sis that yur first memory is gun shot..how scary is that subhanalah

Lol wan la socda in hoyadu umul baxaso laakin xafladu waa more for the baby kolay saas ban modayey but at the end of the day I guess its for both

chubaka its the somali culture that when a baby turns 40 days they hold a party for him/her.

dagaalka maanta ka socda buhodle reer baa bilaabay, reer buhodlena gurigooda uun bay difaacayan. Marka reerkas wareeray ilaahay dadka maskinta ah haka xijaabo waxkalo la dhoho la garan maayo.

nabadiid raba dadka kale in uu dhoho nabadiid baa tahay..aduun gadoomay

^ LOL. you'r funny!