Radio Al3acyn UAE Posted November 19, 2009 Assalamu 'Alaikum waRahmatullahi waBarakatuh All Praise Belongs to Allah (swt), and May the Salah and Salam of Allah (swt) be upon our beloved Messenger ŘľŮ٠اŮŮŮ ŘšŮŮŮ ŮŘłŮŮ Dhul-Hijjah is less than a day away, let us spend the remaining days to plan our ibadaah for these blessed days that are about to approach us. Inshaa Allah, November 18 ( Next Wednesday ) will be the first day of the Hijri month of âDhul Hijjahâ Below is a transcription of a lecture on how to benefit from the blessed days of Dhul-Hijjah by Umm âAbdur-Rahmân. May Allâh reward the sister who transcribed the lecture, with the best in this world and next, ameen. InshaâAllah the information below will help. âBy the ten nights.â [Al-Fajr 89:2] The âten nightsâ which Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] is swearing by here, are the first 10 days of Dhul-Hijjah. [1] Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] swears an oath by them, and swearing an oath by something is indicative of its importance and great benefit. Ibn âAbbâs [radi Allâhu âanhu] narrated that Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] said: âThere is no deed more precious in the sight of Allâh, or greater in reward, than a good deed done during the ten days of Sacrifice.â He was asked: âNot even jihâd for the sake of Allâh?â He said: âNot even jihâd for the sake of Allâh, except in the case of a man who went out to fight giving himself and his wealth up for the cause, and came back with nothing.â [2] So, my sisters take note of the following: Have the intention to spread this important information. It is a great chance to collect uncountable hasanât . It is a great chance to renew your relation with Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ]. Prepare now so you can start from the first night/day of the month [i.e. as soon as Dhul-Hijjah is announced]. You donât want to miss a moment of the best days in the sight of Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ]. Since the Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] referred to the 10 days of Dhul-Hijjah as: ââŚno days better than these days in the sight of Allâh.â [3], the scholars have said that these are better than Ramadan. [4] Therefore, be very vigilant and donât waste these precious moments. Ask Allâh to help you to benefit from this period of His special Grace. Ask yourself these questions [non-rhetorical]: Did you intend to benefit from these days? What have you done to prepare for these 10 days? Did you prepare a program? What is your plan of action? Here is a brief guide to help you to prepare for the best days of the year [inspired by a lecture by Shaykh Muhammad Hassan YâqĂťb]: Read the Qurâân:  Plan to complete the reading of the Qurâân within this period. If you read three juz a day, it can be accomplished. It is not difficult. Ask Allâh to make it easy for you. We know reciting one letter is equal to ten hasanât . If you read three juz everyday, it translates to thousands of millions of hasanât. SubhânaâAllâh! And this calculation is just based on the 1=10 ratio. These are special days of His Grace. Therefore, donât even think about how much Allâh can/will increase & add it for you. You cannot fathom it. He is Kareem. He knows that you have ikhlâs ; He will not count it as 1=10. He could raise it to 1=700 or even more. And this is what you can earn every day of these special days. Keep in mind that reciting the Qurâân is a good deed and Allâh specially loves the good deeds done in these days: âAnd if He [subhâna wa taââlâ] loves the good deeds, He will love the doer of those good deeds.â [5] If Allâh loves someone, He will not punish them. Remember this concept so that the deeds you do come from your heart [donât be like a machine]. Honour the rights of the Qurâân when reciting it. Increase in Nawâfil Prayers:  Increase your supererogatory prayers. Ask yourself these questions and make sure that your heart gives you sincere answers: Do you have an aim? Do you really want to be closer to Allâh? Do you live with this craving? Do you really love Allâh and seek His closeness? If, you want this, then know that Allâh teaches you the means to gaining His qurb . Allâh says: âFall prostrate and draw near to Allâh!â [Al-Alaq 96:19] This is the way! Prostrate in sujĂťd to Him [subhâna wa taââlâ] and you will be closer to Him. The Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] said: âThe closest that a person is to his Lord is when he is prostrating, so say a great deal of duââ then.â [6] He [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] is commanding us to make a lot of duââ while in sujĂťd. Are we obeying his order? Yes? We need to do more. For he [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] said to: ââŚmake lots of duââ.â Remember, the Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] loved us and he knew that we have a lot of needs from Allâh. This is why he taught us the way to get those needs fulfilled. Therefore, if you have needs, then you cannot leave sujĂťd. Any sajdah without khushĂťâ & without duââ is a big khasâra . Let us not be losers from now on bi-idhnillâh. When the Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] instructed us to do a lot of sujĂťd, it means to perform a lot of salâh . âWith each sajdah for Allâh, He will raise you a level with it. And cancel a sin with it.â So, the more you increase in your sujĂťd, the closer you are to being a winner. Examples for increasing nawâfil salâh :  a] Salât Dhuha: Also known as al-Awwâbeen, may be offered as 2, 4, 6 or 8 rakâât, prayed after the sun has risen and before the time for Dhuhr approaches. [7] âAl-Awwâbâ means one who is obedient, or one who turns to obedience. Bi-idhnillâh, we want to show Allâh that we are of those who are obedient. b] 4 rakâât before and 4 after Dhuhr: âWhoever regularly performs four rakâât before Dhuhr and four after it, Allâh will forbid him to the Fire.â [8] c] 4 rakâât before âAsr â The Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] said: âMay Allâh have mercy on those who pray four rakâât before âAsr prayer.â [9] Bi-idhnillâh, you stand to gain the mercy of Allâh because of the duââ of Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam]. Do you want the mercy of Allâh to reach you? Donât leave these 4 rakâât. d] Tahhiyatul masjid: Greet the masjid with two rakâât: âIf any one of you enters a mosque, he should pray two rakâât before sitting.â [10] e] Salât at-Tawbah: It could be any bad deed, any sin, you hear something bad , you see something bad, you feel your heart constricted because of something you have done and you didnât mean it, etc, you can erase it immediately with your prayer of repentance. Make a good wudhĂťâ and offer two sincere rakâât of repentance. Ask Allâh to forgive you. If itâs from your heart, then know that Allâh will cancel your sin. g] Qiyâm al-Layl: With this prayer, we hope that Allâh will illuminate our graves; will bestow nĂťr on our faces; will cancel our bad deeds, bi-idhnillâh. Pray at least 2 rakâât. If you are able to follow the Sunnah, then pray all 11 rakâât . Remember that in these special days and nights, Allâh is sending His special mercy. Do you think that this special mercy will reach everybody? Do you think that it will reach the one who is in front of the TV watching a movie? Or listening to music? Or do you think it will reach the one who is making sujĂťd, rukĂťâ, tilâwah, making istighfâr, etc.? We have to show Allâh that we want this special mercy. We need to make ourselves eligible for it. Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] swears by the night [sĂťrah Fajr]. Therefore, take care of the nights. Donât be among the losers. Write this in bold and make it your motivational factor for the special days: âWe wonât be among the losers!â Remember: âOur Lord, may He be blessed and exalted, comes down to the lowest heaven every night when the last third of the night is left, and He says: âWho will call upon Me, that I may answer him? Who will ask of Me, that I may give him? Who will ask Me for forgiveness, that I may forgive him?â.â [11] And, now that it is winter, we get really long nights. So itâs a good chance to maximise our hasanât. Donât forget while you are praying qiyâm that Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] Loves this deed. Therefore, He [subhâna wa taââlâ] loves the doer of this deed also. If we were lazy before, we will be active and good from now on bi-idhnillâh. We will not be among the losers. If these days and nights are a king who is distributing gifts of gold while announcing: âCome take these gold nuggetsâ, wAllâhi, you will find people standing in long queues and hordes to collect them. SubhânaâAllâh, Allâh is spreading mercy during these days. He [subhâna wa taââlâ] is accepting supplications. He [subhâna wa taââlâ] is offering unimaginably wonderful blessings that we donât even know of. So will we not work to get in those lines to gather Allâhâs gifts? Makes lots of Dhikr:  Do a lot of dhikr, especially in these days. âThere are no days greater in the sight of AllâhâŚâ [12] So what did the Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] tell us to do in these days? That, we need to make the dhikr of tahlĂŽl, tahmĂŽd & takbĂŽr. [13] As soon as the announcement of Dhul-Hijjah is made, start your dhikr: âAllâhu Akbâr, Allâhu Akbâr, lâ ilâha ill-Allâh, Wallâhu Akbâr. Walilâhilhamd.â Many people mistakenly believe that you chant this only on the day of âĂd. But, it is meant to be recited from the beginning of Dhul-Hijjah. BukhârĂŽ related that Ibn âUmar & Abu Hurayrah said that they used to go out in the streets making loud takbĂŽr. They did not think that this was riyâ . They were busy with declaring the [signs of Allâh. This practice has now become a forgotten Sunnah. Why do people feel shy to follow this Sunnah? These are the days of takbĂŽr, tahlĂŽl & tahmĂŽd with raised voices. Therefore revive this Sunnah by doing audible tasbĂŽh during all of the ten days of Dhul-Hijjah. For women, when you are in your homes, raise your voices. You will remind your children, husbands, brothers, etc. Make it like a habit so that you will find yourself doing dhikr automatically. While walking, reclining, working, eating, just keep doing dhikr. Send a lot of blessings and salâm upon the Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] consistently. Just one hadĂŽth should be enough for the believer who loves Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam]. It is enough honour that when you send your salâm to Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam], Allâh returns his soul to him in order to answer you: âThere is no one who sends salâm upon me but Allâh will restore to me my soul so that I may return his salâm.â [14] Therefore, send your darĂťd & salâm from your heart. Feel that special honour in doing that deed. Istighfâr:  All kinds of dhikr will make your relation with Allâh stronger and stronger. How many Muslimâs are there today? 1.5 billion? In one minute it is possible to gain 1.5 billion hasanât. Allâhu Akbâr! How generous is Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ]. No one will give you like Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] gives. So how can you gain 1.5 million hasanât? By making istighfâr for all Muslimâs. The Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] is reported to have said that when a person seeks forgiveness for all believers, Allâh will write for him a hasanât for every one of those believers. [15] Just say âAstaghfirullâhâ for yourself and for all the believers, from your heart. Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] is forgiving & generous. On the Day of Judgement, when you will see your book, you will find the record of your sins in it & you will feel regret. But, SubhânaâAllâh, you will find between these sins, Astaghfirullâh, Astaghfirullâh, Astaghfirullâh. Bi-idhnillâh, Allâh, the KarĂŽm will cancel those sins that have istighfâr beside them, around them, after them. Luqmân taught his sons to make istighfâr. He said: âOh my sons, istighfirullâha qâidun, istighfirullâh qâimum, istghfirullâha râqibun [make istighfâr when you are standing, sitting, reclining]. For the mercy of Allâh is descending.â Indeed, rahamât are falling down like rain. So try to be under those rahamât. Look at it this way â there are seasons of mercy during which Allâh sends down abundant mercy [like during Ramadân, like the days of Dhul-Hijjah, etc.]. Allâh is always generous because that is one of His [subhâna wa taââlâ] Attributes, but He says that He gives more during certain periods. Allâh is RahĂŽm always, but He says He has more mercy during a certain period. These days are like those special-rate promotions or sale season. Therefore, donât leave or ignore this sale. Go and ask for more. Keep saying âastaghfirullâhâ, âastaghfirullâhâ, astaghfirullâhâ, keep insisting on it till Allâh forgives you. Start from the beginning of Dhul-Hijjah. ââŚnor will He punish them while they seek (Allâhâs) forgiveness.â [Al-Anfâl 8:33] We are informed that there is no punishment from Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ a] on the yastaghfirĂťn . Allâh relieves all problems with istighfâr. Those who are persistent in istighfâr in their lives, disasters and calamities will be repelled from them. Mercy is like a cloud on the head of the mustaghfirĂŽn . How do we know this? âWhy seek you not the forgiveness of Allâh, that you may receive mercy?â [An-Naml 27:46] Allâh is telling us to make istighfâr to gain His mercy. Let your istighfâr ascend to Him and His mercy will descend upon you. Fasting:  Fast as much as you can during these blessed days. If you can fast all of these days, then do so. Even in any regular day, Allâh has promised a great reward for the one who fasts: âWhoever fasts one day for the sake of Allâh, Allâh will keep his face seventy years distance away from the Fire because of it.â [16] So what about these special days for which it is said: âThere is no deed more precious in the sight of Allâh, or greater in reward, than a good deed done during the ten days of Dhul-Hijjah.â Allâh loves the good deeds in these days. Allâh loves siyâm. Put these two beloved things together. You are the doer of the things Allâh loves. He [subhâna wa taââlâ] will Love you, bi-idhnillâh. Any âibâdah, be it salâh, dhikr, Qurâân, that is done during some periods of time and with them, are also periods of non action. Can you do any of them from Fajr till Maghrib continuously? Which âibâdah will you be able to do non-stop? Siyâm! From Fajr till Maghrib during the best days, you will be able to be in a continuous state of worship. So please my sisters [& brothers], grab this chance eagerly. Also donât forget you have if Allâh wills, at least one duââ guaranteed with each siyâm â at the time of breaking the fast. So that is nine opportune moments during this period. Regarding fasting on the day of âArâfah, the Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] said: âFasting the day of âArafâh, I hope, will expiate the sins of the year before it and the year to comeâŚâ [17] So how does this happen? Does this mean that we can fast on that day and for the rest of the year we can do whatever we want of bad deeds? No! It implies that Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] will help us to abstain from sins. And, if you commit a sin by mistake, He [subhâna wa taââlâ] will cancel it due to His promise. Charity:  Spending for the sake of Allâh! Only Allâh knows how many trials & calamities have been pushed away from us, our family and loved ones as a result of our sadaqâh. Allâh knows how many times relief and ease has come to us due to the sadaqâh we gave. Therefore, give in the way of Allâh, as much as you can. Donât leave any raised hands return empty. Show Allâh that you love Him by spending from that which you love. Show Allâh [subhâna wa taââlâ] that all these things mean nothing besides gaining His ridha . Donât look and remind yourself of what you have already spent in the past. If Allâh wills, He [subhâna wa taââlâ] has accepted and written it for you. Now, think of how you can outdo that sadaqâh during these days. Spend from what you love and Allâh will love you. Preserve the Ties of Kinship:  Preserve the ties of kinship for: âNo one who severs the ties of kinship will enter Paradise.â [18] If it is difficult for you to call or meet every relative, then send them a message. But write with your heart and with the right intention. There is a man who connects with all of his near and far relatives. It is almost like a mission for him for the sake of Allâh. He [subhâna wa taââlâ] loves this âibâdah. Even those who are far away, he calls and connects them to the rest of the family and brings them all together. And subhânaâAllaah, Allâh has given him a lot of wealth and with such ease and has made his life easy, and as a result of his deeds. The Prophet [sall-Allâhu âalayhi wa sallam] promised this reward for the one who connects and maintains kinship: âWhoever would like his rizq to be increased and his life to be extended, should uphold the ties of kinship.â [19] These were just a few of the wonderful things we can do during the forthcoming best days of Dhul-Hijjah. Therefore, if we want Allâhâs help with these deeds and our schedule for them, we need to do a lot of tawbah. The Salaf as-Sâlih used to say that they would feel prevented from qiyâm al-layl due to their sins. They knew that when they want to do âibâdah and they are unable to do it, it is due sins. So, what do we need to do? A lot of istighfâr with tawbah, real Tawbah! Ask Allâh for help. Make the duââ: âO Allâh, help me to remember You, to give You thanks, and to perform Your worship in the best manner.â [20] Footnotes: [1] Ibn âAbbâs, Ibn az-Zubayr, Mujâhid and others of the earlier and later generations said that this refers to the first ten days of Dhul-Hijjah. Ibn KathĂŽr said: âThis is the correct opinion.â [TafsĂŽr ibn KathĂŽr, 8/413] [2] Al-BukhârĂŽ, 2/457 [3] Ahmad, 7/224 â Ahmad Shâkir stated that it is sahĂŽh [4] The verses [Al-Fajr 89:1-2] and various hadĂŽth indicate that these 10 days are better than all the other days of the year, with no exceptions, not even the last ten days of Ramadân. But the last ten nights of Ramadân are better, because they include Layl al-Qadr [âthe Night of Powerâ], which is better than a thousand months. Thus the various reports may be reconciled. [see: TafsĂŽr ibn KathĂŽr, 5/412] [5] Shaykh Muhammad bin Sâlih al-âUthaymĂŽn [6] Muslim, 482 [7] Muslim, 1238 [8] At-TirmidhĂŽ, 428 â classed as sahĂŽh by al-AlbânĂŽ in SahĂŽh al-NasââĂŽ [9] At-TirmidhĂŽ, 395 â classed as hasan by al-AlbânĂŽ in SahĂŽh al-Jâmi 3493 [10] Al-BukhârĂŽ & Muslim [11] Al-BukhârĂŽ, 1094 and Muslim, 758 [12] Ahmad, 7/224 [13] TahlĂŽl [âLâ ilâha ill-Allâhâ], TahmĂŽd [âAlhamdulillâhâ] and TakbĂŽr [Allâhu Akbâr]. See: Ahmad, 7/224 [14] AbĂť DâwĂťd, 2041 â classed as hasan by al-AlbânĂŽ [15] Classed as hasan by al AlbânĂŽ [16] Muslim, 2/808 [17] Muslim, 1976 [18] SahĂŽh Muslim [19] Al-BukhârĂŽ, 5986 and Muslim, 2557 [20] SahĂŽh AbĂť DâwĂťd, 1/284 Credits to Sister Noor for this compiling this naseeha. All Praise Belongs to Allah The Rabb Al'Aalameen. Jazakumullahu Khayran! Wassalaamu 'Alaikum waRahmathullahi waBarakaathuhu. Abu Affan, written on the 30th Dhu Al-Qa'dah Shawwal 1430AH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites