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  1. Came across another minority group in the somalian society.I remember being told the story of the Zigwa people as they were taken from Tanga , Tanzania. neva heard of these guys (ZIGWA) they say u live n u learn.. the website u gav sidasis for the somalibantu didn't work for me ...... But i really liked the one bout the banaadir peeps even thou i don't think is all true but ta say the least it was informative... The Banaadirs (also spelled “Benadir”) are people with their roots in ancient Arabia, Persia and South and Central Asia. Their name is derived from a Persian word “Bandar” which means “harbor” or port, reflecting their origins as seafaring traders who crossed the Indian Ocean to the easternmost part of Africa and established centers of commerce which linked that continent with Asia. Q) who were the ppl (blacks) livin in the somalia/banadir region at that time? Q)how did these ppl find the land Q) how come all of a sudden the history of somali started from southern somalia? asxantu Q
  2. Astonished, Amazed, Surprised and Mad (by this topic)...am feeling the same thing ur feeling right. This weekend i went with my father in-law ta visit some of his old friends, after talking bout issues regarding Politics, Culture and religion some how the topic of somali JEWS came into effect walaahi i couldn't believe wat i was hearing.. they are called YIBIR they say that they were part of the felasha's but some how they migrated ta somalia long time ago, they adapted the somalian way of living (being nomads n all) and languege....they say that the word YIBIR came from the word HEBREW...... this is so krazy ..... PS: if anyone of u has ever heard such thing please share and if NOT please find ways ta get more info on these ppl by either word of mouth, books and internet.....ama be on it like glue asxantu
  3. loooooooooooooooooooool loooooooooooooooooooooool the mysterious works of DA MAAAN.... asxantu
  4. posted by ngonge 508, let the girls be, man. This is their right of passage. All young, single girls moan and whinge about the bad treatment of Somali women. In some parts, they’re right but they exaggerate things so much it ends up sounding as if they hate life, men and equality! Never fear though, saaxib. This is a temporary affliction. At times it can also be interpreted as a cry for help! Here she is, young, beautiful, intelligent and extremely charming. How could the world not take notice of all that? How could society give most of their attention to some Faarax who seems to be a lesser person than her in everyway? It’s a travesty! Don’t people see the SUN when it shines? Don’t they see the MOON on a lovely clear night? How could they not notice her (the sun, moon and stars all rolled into one)? Yet, they have no problem noticing some silly howling Wolf? She demands equality, she wants to be treated and regarded in the same way as the undeserving Wolf. She will not rest until her demands are met. One day, they all get married and leave all the rage of youth behind. Now, they have a responsibility and a place in society. Now, they can look down on single feminists and say to them “Oohinta badan jooji oo wax esko fal”. Now, they’re in a position of “authority” and can dispense advice to all and sundry. Now, they can sit back and look at all their young sisters fighting for “equality” and smile to themselves thinking “ I can’t believe I was once as angry as these girls!” Now, they get the chance to practise and implement all those customs they used to find abominable as young people. Now, they can put all their efforts and energy into maintaining the Somali way of life. Now, they can say there are no men better than OUR Somali men (and my husband is the best of the lot). Now, they can boast about their ability to cook an amazing feast, clean until everything shines and provide all the comforts and dedication required of a “good” Somali woman. Now, they can brag about having the best behaved children, best dressed husband, best decorated house and quickest and most comfortable way in accommodating visiting guests (no matter what time of day or night they arrive). Now, she’ll smile proudly about her ability to save, about her fruitful efforts to keep her house a good Muslim home. Now, most importantly now, she will vehemently display her total rejection of Western ideas of equality and feminism. But, until that day comes, stop raining on their parade, saaxib. caleeek caleeek caleeek yaa akheee....hadaan gabar lahaan lahaa waan ku siinlahaa saaxib ducona waan kuugu darilahaa .. wiil iyo caano ...gabar iyo caano asxantu
  5. looooooool@ngonge...ilaahey ha kaa abaal mariyo ..I hope lil cute gal appreciates wat u just did for, going out of ur way ta help her drool....be gratefull sis... ps: please do clean after yow self asxantu
  6. put me down ......i got nothing betta ta do anyways .... my plane will arrive the same time ngone's long awaited villain arrives. ps:flight#112 asxantu
  7. posted by mrembo how do u define love? to me love means psychological thingy which acours in one form or another by intentional or accidental... Personnally i hate those ppl who think being in luv is this tremondously endless delight (it will fade sooner or later) that's the honest truth luv it or leave it some ppl agrue that luv is emotionally related thingy/issue, that's when i say if u act upon ur emotions wheneva a situation strikes @ u , then ur a foolish and enemy to ur own self... My short stay in this world i will insha allaah treat errbody the same..with respect,trust gentleness,politeness,gratefullness,helpfullness, honesty and if that isn't luv then wat is luv? asxantu
  8. Subxanallah..... that's wat ppl do when they don't have IIMAAN n YAQIIN... i suppose she will be added to the list of ppl who failed the IMTIXAAN OF DIS DUNYA. what's your take on this? she deserved it.... SO MACSONKOR TO HER asxantu
  9. Wara Xisibi and Ngonge.. ya all married !!! the hell.. aint ya all scared that your wives may come to SOL one day and read all of your flirtatious posts..???? darman brah there is nothing ta hide am pritty sure they do that as well at thier own time. but overall i don't think mer lady will have too much ta say bout me being flirtatious.... posted by DA What in the heck. Did you guys have an arranged marriage? no arrange marriage involved sis we met.we liked each others company, we dated for 8 months, i proposed, she siad cool, i aksed her hand, wat eva happened after that is TAARIIKH..(truth was always TOLD).. but i soppose ur one of them gals who likes ta hear the guy say stuff like ur my life, u complete me, i can't live with out u, i luv u honey blah blah blah..all bogus.. one thing u hav ta know is that (is the doing that counts NOT the saying ) ...... i respect, appreciate, trust, be honest and surrender ta my wife. Any thing more then that is SIN to me ..... asxantu
  10. I mr.xisbi want ta thank some of u for correcting my spelling error....DA i thank u the most for ur help, i always knew u had a big heart. it's amazing that we all suffering from the same kynda problems huh. But i thinks we all have ta cut down spending money on da BLING BLING and do activity report/recorded transactions on ur accounts ta see wat u have spent for that month or wat not... ps: lakkad my beloved brother will it possible for u to (calaanjis) wat u wrote cuz i is didn't get it.....read fine prints...say wat..no time brah..always on the run....wam bam tank u ma'am..that's my van....who's that fan..he just ran....heey am getting good @ dis rhyming thingy.. asxantu asxantu
  11. ok CUTE_GAL ama be real with yall...... I was in luv once in my life about FOUR years ago, BUT i had called off the relationship b/c it was too much for me ta handle. i don't have ta tell you as u already know the constant thinking bout that person, the slidest/innocent mistake they do drives u tada roof, taking the bus on a SUNDAY afternoon ( when u know buses run after every 30/45 min on sunday), wanting to be with them 24/7, anything that they say or do looks/seems wonderfull to u, endless hours talking on the phone and thinking with ur heart instead of ur head so it was unbearable for my silly heart ta embark on such journey. am a type of person who has ta have conrol over situation all the time n i didn't like wat was becoming of me after long serious thinking i one day came to the conclucion that SHE N I shouldn't be a pair. I swear while i was telling her that it was OVER a tear came into my eye ( believe it or Not that even gav me more modivation ta call it of) cuz this luvthingy was too UNENDURABLE for me. she called me selfish and other stuff n she cried but i told her the honest truth. BUT alot has changed i got married now.. do i think bout her? sometimes do i regret bout the brake up? no NOT a single moment did i feel sad/shyt after ? no did i miss her after the brakeup? don't remember do i still luv her? no did i meet her after the brakeup? yes...no feelings were there do i luv my wife? no do i respect my wife? yes...beyond recognition do i like my wife? yes do i care for my wife? yes...with all my silly lil heart will i be there for my wife? till death does us apart will i wish luv on somebody? no.......neva asxantu
  12. checkmate

    BUDGETING

    Ahlaan wasahlaan ok guys here is the real deal, when it comes to badgeting am completely lost in more ways then the other. first thing is that i have always had a spending problem and the second thing started bout a year ago when my bank gave me a creditline of $1200 dollors in my chequing. how the creditline works is (there is money in ur account which u don't see,for instance if u hav $300 dollars in ur account the bank reciepts will say u hav $300 in ur account n $1200 dolars as over draft protection, but if u lets say decided ta write a cheque for $500 dollars now ur bank reciept will say $-200 dollrs n $1000 as ur over protection) hope that made sence. Lately wheneva i get my two weeks pay, my bank tell me that i have $100 in my account ( which means the rest of my money got deducted to cover my over draft protection) my next pay same thing all over again (it's like am pouring water in a cup which is upside down hopein i will get some water in there ta drink from, but the fact of the matter is it has ta be rightside up) ps: if u have the same problems please share, if ur a badgeter n have any suggestions please share and if ur a critic know that no one is perfect.....(including U) asxantu
  13. Oodi qaadis ama jiidis isku meel baa lageeyaa Qooq maroodi ma jabee ninkiis aa jabo Habar fadhida lagdin la fududaa Hal fari fool ma dhaqdo asxntu
  14. war mikarofoonka wali ma anaa sita.... marxaba Association: Faculty manager: Zoo: cheese: asxantu
  15. Q) How many times can you say that you've ever been in LOVE? A) i don't know Q) BE HONEST? A) i got 99 problems but luv aint one asxantu
  16. loool heey guys hook me up the ms brooks i have tests i think she needs ta take asxantu
  17. GIVE A LINE, OR ACTUAL QUOTE THAT SOMEONE IN SOL WOULD SAY, OR HAVE SAID" Guess who would say this: heey wait i know i know hhmmmm me no noooo no wait i know i know you asxantu
  18. ilaahey afkaaga vimto qaboow ha ku qabto ... istaas ka baxay? markii iigu danbeeysay waxaan ogaa asoo baabasiir ku dhacay, marka ma ogi in uu fadhiyo iyo in uu istaagsan yahay marka alaahu yaclam .... asxantu
  19. ok lemma take a shot at dis beerka wadnaha qalbiga xabadka laabta shafka maskaxda miyyirka sanbabada kalyaha, meelahaas oo dhan buu jaceelka kasoo buttaacaa who said dis??????????? asxantu
  20. posted by aeryan I dont know...am still trying to put it all into perspective. In the meantime, its back to working, saving, shopping and paying off debts while I await that knight in the shining macwiis to arrive and complete me. looool very creative, may allaah grant this wish ta all the single females in SOL, so that the somali knight in the shinning macawiis can put some of yall outta ur miseries posted by sissade Another question which arises is how do you define a good parent?/parenthood . As far as now we have been discussing the wife to be based at home and be educated. though it takes 2 to keep the household running. Any ideas ? sis i now believe u hav touched a critical subject which has flattened our entire communit. how ever i blame the fathers in most cases (they either abandon/neglect thier families or devorce) 75%of the kids raised in the western world have no fathers and outtof that 75% ONLY 25% have morally educated mathers. so where the rest 50% goes or does we will neva know..... asxantu
  21. Darman thanks lakiin bro. Inan could be male or inan female both. the way the person sounds, it sounds like a male. hadaba qoraalka af soomaaliga saxda ah aan idiin sheego INAN= wiil/single male INANN(shaqal ayaa korsaaran)=gabar aan wali la guursan/single female asxantu
  22. wat some wadaado are doing right now in toronto were they works as a cab drivers while his wifes and kids are collecting welfare Brother qac'qac if u read my post carefully u will see that i have said some wadaado NOT all wadaado, so should clearify the issues of generalization. the second thing i would like ta mention is we are all sinners wadaad or no wadaad (no body's perfect) and it's wasn't my intent to discount the wadaado or any1 else brother wat i have wrote is a true fact which happens everyday, i just can't believe you were that oblivious in subjects of that matters (living in the heart of gossip town) but on the real walaal qofna maanan aflagaadeyn, run uun baan sheegay asxantu
  23. Dantiis ma kase maro horteed uu duugoobaa Hubsiimo hal baa la siistaa Waano iyo abuuris teebaa horeysay asxantu
  24. go rudeboi go do yow thang blud........just like how we say in minnidishu fake it until u make it blooooooooooooooooooood asxantu
  25. posted by benny that was the 20th June.. today, 21st June.. site not up!! come on now Admin.. there are alot ppl who are waiting for you to fix the site!! patience is a virtue >>>>>>>>>Mr.benny asxantu