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  4. Posted

    allahu akbar

    many people still have their beautiful cultures and religion not yet been brianwashed by this stupid socety's cultures(usa and their allies) iam really gratful to GOD hearing from all of you and see some nice reactions specially muslimah and others this topic was realy a rebutable topic and was actually irrelevant to all of us but my purpose was to prove it and see where most young somails are. this topic was not suppose to be here.

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    Reason 1: Men can get sex without marriage more easily than in times past.

    The men reported that meeting women is easy: at bars, through friends, at work, and on the Internet. Though men want to become friends with a woman before becoming seriously involved, casual sex, they said, is easy to come by.

     

    Reason 2: Men can enjoy the benefits of having a wife by cohabiting rather than marrying.

    Men think living together is a good way to test out a marriage prospect. They also view living together as less risky than marriage. At the same time, the men in the study like the convenience of having a regular sex partner. And several said they appreciate the domestic benefits of cohabitation, and the ability to share expenses, but thought marriage unnecessary at this point in life.

     

    Reason 3: Men want to avoid divorce and its financial risks.

    Men feel that their financial assets are better protected if they cohabit rather than marry. They also fear that an ex-wife will take financial advantage during settlement proceedings.

     

    Reason 4: Men want to wait until they are older to have children.

    Although men understand that women worry about their biological clocks, they say they don't have to. And they don't want to be pressured into marriage by women who want marriage in order to have children.

     

    Reason 5: Men fear that marriage will require too many changes and compromises.

    The men savor their freedom to enjoy hobbies, late nights out and freedom from extra financial burdens. They want to postpone absorbing extra responsibilities until they are on extra-solid footing in a number of areas.

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    i understood what u have wrote bro. and we all know that this spirit need a help from God

    cus God revealed religion when he created this world

    he knows what is good for his creation

    i think u miss your piont of view that God made u (which means to worship only himsself)thats why u let ur self hunging up some where u cant reach.

    bro this is a short trip you need to read the quran and u will not think about this world and his confusion everything will be easy bro

    and i hope God will make our behave(camal) good.

     

    if i say something make u mad i ask forgivness

  9. Posted

    i think nothing is wrong if someone says what's up ma or what's up ma it just like they way people pronounce that word "man" sometimes they mess t up why u care about just let them say how ever they wanna say it sorry thats ma opinion if its hurts people have diffrent ideas

  10. Posted

    lol hodan u funny u know why they aint gonna date younger girls cus they can't do their job well and may be there is a problem tha leads to u know what i mean like u tear a part and some stuff like that

    older guys may be they get big *******so they wont tear apart yougn girl's ***** lol aight

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    Interracial marriage is a marriage between two people with different cultures and background sometimes it turns into a bad relationship and unsolved problems, either they divorce or have very little in common and their relationship won’t work.

    There are some aspects that must be followed in order to save interracial marriage. The partners has to respect each other’s experience and has concerned about how can come to a better understanding and to appreciate others, rethink stereotypes and misperceptions and build a relationship that works better. The other thing they have to do is to consider a wide variety of views. In this way the couples can grapple with the many sides of private problems such as different food, celebrating festivals. One of my friends told me that they were going to have a family reunion scheduled this year, but they canceled it because of NCAA (national collegiate athletic association) tournaments begun so they have to postpone that meeting till next year that can cause big problems between interracial families.

    Sometimes there are other things that must be taken into concentration and must be overcome

    First, there will be opposition and condemnation from some people in society. Children of interracial marriages are sometimes discriminated against and teased. Some of my friends told me that people call them “confused” because they are mixed. Second, people from different cultures have unusual differences to overcome. Often, intercultural marriages, more than interracial marriages (for not all people from different cultures differ in the color of their skin), encounter greater difficulties within the relationship. Cultural practice and prejudice is often more difficult to overcome than skin color. Third, as the old

     

    saying goes “when you marry the person, you marry the whole family” so one must be prepared to possibly encounter familial ostracization and condemnation.

    But all these difficulties have nothing to do with when it comes to matters of the heart, different colors or cultures should be irrelevant! It's a tragedy that so many people make such a big deal out of inter-racial couples; what's worse, their innocent children suffer the most. People like that should spend less time worrying about other peoples relationships and more time worrying about the status of their own love life. Even I used to believe that interracial marriage is not enjoyable but times are changing, and I think things have improved as far as this issue is concerned, but the best thing is romance whatever the problem is, they always have to manage and work it out

    Last thing love is a strange thing -- you never know if the person sitting beside you during a long English lecture or the one crushed against you in the crowded subway is the one you'll spend the rest of your life with I've realized that someone's race doesn't matter when you fall in love with them. What is important is whether you have any thing in common with them.

     

     

     

  25. Posted

    wow wonderful stories and interesting huh

    let me tell you about that

    secret beauty is in you mind girl na' wat i mean even if you are dark skinny long legs with cracked and crooked teeth and space between your teeth. make up s not gonna make you beauty girl!!

    watch out you natural skin and leave it like that i know you won't if not don't do alot of it

    ya feel me i hope so