Ismalura

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  1. Lyzie G this is a public forum where everyone posts what they think. If I inbox you an idea than my bad lakiin I can say anything on here. I simply pointed out that your assumption is wrong ee why are you being so defensive. Gee ! people are sensitive here !

     

    LOL @ preaching to the choir. Good for you !

     

    PS: my user name= Ismalura. It is simple courtesy to try and say people's names right :rolleyes: .


  2. Reminds me of the joke....

     

    Why Do Men Die First?

    If you put a woman on a pedestal and try to protect her from the rat race... you're a male chauvinist.

    If you stay home and do the housework... you're a poofter.

    If you work too hard... there's never any time for her.

    If you don't work enough... you're a good-for-nothing lazy prick.

    If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay... this is exploitation.

    If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay... you should get off your lazy *** and find something better.

    If you get a promotion ahead of her... that is favouritism.

    If she gets a job ahead of you... its equal opportunity.

    If you mention how nice she looks.... its sexual harassment.

    If you keep quiet... it's male indifference.

    If you cry... you're a wimp.

    If you don't... you're an insensitive *******.

    If you make a decision without consulting her... you're a chauvinist.

    If she makes a decision without consulting you... she's a liberated woman.

    If you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy... that's domination.

    If SHE asks you... it's a favor.

    If you appreciate the female form and frilly underwear... you're a pervert.

    If you don't... you're gay.

    If you like a woman to shave her legs and keep in shape... you're sexist.

    If you don't... you're unromantic.

    If you try to keep yourself in shape... you're vain.

    If you don't... you're a slob.

    If you buy her flowers... you're after something.

    If you don't... you're not thoughtful.

    If she has a headache... she's tired.

    If you have a headache... you don't love her anymore.

    If you want it too often... you're oversexed.

    If you don't... there must be someone else.

    Men Die First Because They Want To!

     

    Some truth to it but it is not such a bad thing to be complicated.


  3. Oh ok. So the argument is not on the soo maal part. Markaas I have no idea what this other names are but the Italia thing makes sense.

     

    @ Aaliyah I know no one is neutral in their views but when it comes moderating one could be unless some one breaks a rule. However, it says in the rules that "moderators are not neutral and have their own views" and even though I find that kinda strange I am ok with it. At least they say it up front.


  4. I don't know if you still remember it but this argument started off with "getting married at 30 is ok and a girl can still have kids" ....and I guess that much is evident to The Zack by now.

     

     

    Forget the stats and all ! if some one wants to have a kid at 40 they should....most people have accesses to this resources and nothing is certain anyways. It is a free world, you know.


  5. I know it is part of a hadith that is usually taken out of context by people like al shabaab and misused to explain that women are of less value than men. And women staying at home according to Alshabaab and the like has everything to do with 'naqusatul cilmi wa diin' and 'arijalu qawamuuna' both of which are taken out context.

    I said this because it is funny to see how flexible their principles are and how they can't even stand by one of their most conservative views.

    These people are nothing but a curse ilaahey dadka ha ka qabtee.