Guzel

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  1. It is hope that makes people go back to abusers, hope he will change and a need to work the marriage out. But i never understood women who put up with it for years and years, living on the edge because the person could flip anytime is not a way to live. Aden married a stranger, four marriages is not an easy matter to hide.

     

    Why is her name Aden though?


  2. Narniah;899805 wrote:
    Savages..

     

    These Somalis who settled there really shouldn't have. Why? I really never understood why Somalis feel this closeness with black Africans who are gaalo cause most of them hate the Somalis with passion.

     

    I'm not surprised, as Somalis in SA have been suffering a similar fates for decades.

    I doubt you met most of black people or they have treated you with contempt. Xenophobia in SA is not limited to Somalis only.


  3. oba hiloowlow;891758 wrote:
    man the people im talking about dont care about Somalia never did, they dont even like somalis. they are selfhating youth suffering with inferiority complex.

    They must be very small in number. The Somali youth activists I know have supported the Somali droughts, Syria and now Gaza. It is no use saying " i hate arabs", mosques all over the UK whether owned by Pakistanis or Arabs were fundraising for Somalis during the drought.


  4. Aaliyyah;890295 wrote:
    It might be all about intention. But, you are not in anyone's heart to know whether their intentions is right or not. Islam forbids something for our own good and even if at times we might not understand the wisdom behind a certian practice due to our limited knowledge we still have to abide by it.

    I am only responsible for my own actions and intentions. Contact between the sexes is part of our daily life whether it is a doctor and patient or the guy sitting next to you in the bus, it happens all the time and we dont think about it. I view a handshake the same way. For someone not used to any contact with the opposite sex, then I understand how they might interpret it as sexual.


  5. I use shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie on my wet hair to make it curly then I gently dry it, at night time I put castor oil on my ends. Chime Edwards from youtube is my hair idol because of the thickness and lenght of her hair.


  6. Apophis;869961 wrote:
    Normally, these kids are placed with families who are culturally similar to their parents but this problem can be solved if we had more Somali Foster caregivers , here in the UK. So all you ladies should step up!

    Somalis live in overcrowded houses and would not be considered for forstering. In most cases families step up and children are placed with relatives. I think mental health of the mother is behind the reason children being take into care.