Diamante

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  1. Posted

    It's a simple and brief question really, but one that got into my mind as i was trying to fall asleep last night.

     

    Say a woman leaves her husband. She fears for her safety and life, and not only hers but that of her children as well. Say she fled the country altogether and lives someplace far from her husband. However she is still married to him. Thus after several years she meets someone she thinks is a good man and wants to marry to him. What will she do, as she is still married to her former husband and if she goes back its a risk to her life. Under islamic law what is the best thing for her to do?

     

    Also, when answering to this question, could you include some hadith (if there is any and if you know any) related to this? Is she still obliged to get a divorce from her husband, even though of years without communication etc? Also can he refuse to divorce her and has he the right to?

     

    Thanks

     

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  4. Posted

    Truth has nothing to do with it.This simply confirms that the men will automatically stand by their man whereas a woman who runs around wont get any backup from her friends

    runs around?...easy with the emotional outbursts fellas....that was a joke, however urs was not.

    we all know thats its men that cant keep their lil friend in their trousers redface.gif

  6. Posted

    ^^ :D:D ...haye... u beat me to punch yaah icon_razz.gif

     

    anyway i agree with Qac Qaac...ehm for the first time i think...all this nag nag being exchanged back and forth is useless.

    What happens happens, who's going to be the man to stop it? A few post on a somali website are gonna solve this how?

    Be realistic, so you spoke your mind, well good, u should feel better, but don't turn this into some battle.

     

    Istacajib

  8. Posted

    Diamante,

     

    Eedo, midhaa adigaa waxaaga ila hadal ah oo af-jini laga dhigay. Fiiri, nin ganacsado oo aan waqti ka dhicin ma maqashay waligaa, lacagtana toosh ku raadiyo meesheey gasho? Haa hadeey tahay jawaabta, waa aniga. Hadaba, meeshaan lacag ma taalo, maxaa iigu qasbee inaan meeshan soo galo marwalba oo waqtigeyga dahabka ah ku lumiyo.

     

    Eedo, raali ahow, hadaa shaqo rabtid ila socodsii waxaa hada naga banaan boosas ah sida xisaab-dajinta, suuq-geynta alaabaha aan warshada kasoo saarno. Ciyaar maaha runtii, ee fadlan iisoo *** "resume" iyo waayo-aragnimadaada oo kooban.

     

    Insha allah, waxaan kuu rajeynayaa inaad noqotid qof waxtar leh oo nala shaqeysta. Privite-ka kusoo qor wixii warbixin iyo meesha lagaaheli karo, sida email, iyo fax. Fadlan phone number kaama rabno hada, sidaas nooga raali ahow.

     

    Ganacsade Alleubaahne

    Muqdisho, Somalia

    (Ganacsiga soo dajinta iyo dhoofinta Alaabaha warshadeysan)

    meeshaan lacag mataalo miyaad dhahday?...yaaba kugu yiri lacag kasoo raadso meeshaan...middeedi kalena shaqo raadis ma'ihi walaal, mid aan aaid iyo aad ugu kalsoonahay ayaan heysta, marka taada iska heyso...haddi kale maa SOL ku-post gareysid positionka banaan...maybe kuwaad kusheegeysid shaqo la'aanta ayaa kusoo jawaabidoona.

     

    Khalas hadda, waan iska kaa deynayaa...waqtigaada uu "dahabka ah" marabi inaan kaasii lumiyo

     

    istacajib

  11. Posted

    ^^^....alla qof meeshaan maxey isku bogtay :rolleyes: ...faanka noo aayareeysii

     

    waxaada waa ii nominate gareya oo af-carabi ah saaxib...

     

    qof aadna kashaqo badantahid ama kashaqo yartahid meeshaan majirto...ee think twice next time when u call anyone here shaqo la'aan...comprende

  12. Posted

    sounds terrific.... getting exited of the prospect of wearing a dirac again

     

    first thing you would have to do is figure out how much your budget is....is going to be a big bash or someting intimate....how many people to invite etc

    then second look for the type of venue/place/hall u would use, how much it would cost you...meeqo qof ayee deeqdaa...eventhough u gave out one ivitation card per person u know they will try and sneak hooyadood, habaryaro, adeero, ayeeyo etc :D

    then the catering....how about everyone brings packed lunches/dinners....great money saver, plus no complaints afterwards....u know how somalida are...markey wax kasta dirqijiyaan, ayee wax kasheegaan :rolleyes: lol...or u could ofcourse go for the whole kaboodle...maincourse/dessert n everything.

     

    damn i could go on and on...soo u keep us posted...will try and come up with more ideas

     

    skips out exitedly, thinking about which colour dirac to wear

  13. Posted

    "Children Of War"

     

    The children of somalia

    Are left behind

    Victimised and scandalised

    Betrayed by those they trusted

    Shot at and bombarded

    Sad eyes and bloated bellies

    Searching through the rubbles

    In the hope of finding a bone or two...maybe

    Wandering along the warn torn streets

    Dodging the bullets from the evil machines

    Silent...stalking...suffering

    Not knowing if tomorow will bring their ending

    Selfish warlods took it all

    How can this be subjected to a child so small

    Children should be the apple of our eyes

    Instead they're killed, abused, and demoralized

    What's happening, is this supposed to be their fate

    Discarting of their innocent lives

    As easily as they were made

    Somalia, the Horn of Africa, once tall and proud

    Only bears the cries of the children uttered out loud

    Is this the ending, or is this the beginning

    Don't they ever stop at nothing

    How much more can a child take

    How many more are they willing to break

    What can we do but pray to God

    Keep hope that one day,

    One will live a bit longer,

    Eventhoug it's not a lot

    Children of Somalia, dry your eyes

    For the day that will bring an end to your suffering will come by

     

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    Nice piece Il Capo

  14. Posted

    my fav song goes like this

     

    dhabarka iyo laabta iyo,

    dhinaca wadnaha baad,

    dhamac kuu beerto,

    dhaawac baan qabaayee

     

    it's called Dhabarka iyo Laabta

    and its song by Cumar indha Yare, but i believe its a cover, but i dont know who sang it originally

     

    anyone knows?

  16. Posted

    "Oh, sorry to say this but I swear I thought you were a Senegalese because the only few Diamantes that I have met were all from Senegal" I say.

    hahahahahahaha....waryaaaaa...how dare u say that!...bas waaye..i wont read this anymore...watch my name get dragged thru the mud like that. u know how long it took me to come up with it, and now i watch how it gets destroyed in a sec.

     

    exits crying vehemently

  17. Posted

    I don't think there should be an investigation into who did what during the war. There must be forgiveness for the past.

     

    But despite all our problems, we can still live together again. That happens all over the world.

     

    such wise words...it brought tears to my eyes walaahi, shows u the strenght of women, and their clear head at times like those.

     

    thanks MOTI...bless u for sharing

  18. Posted

    ^^ very well said sis

     

    its true that the somali people have recently started to adopt this despicable behaviour. and not only the ones in the west. It's happening back home too. Although they use more harsher stuff. My aunty who went back last year told me that they use oomo iyo saliid mixed together to make some brew they use to kill the fetuses. :(

    wax kale iska dhaaf, they are putting their own life at risk..subxanallaah

  22. Posted

    ^^^ they don't like it because of PEOPLE like YOU...u figure it out odayga

     

    LOL!!! dawaco

     

    ur not joking around yaah! the poor beggar would be skinned alive...they would pounce on him like a christmast feast....ohhh how i would love to capture the fine moments on my Kodak Polariod :D

     

    P.S. how come the sky is blue :rolleyes: (while the stup!d questions are on a roll anyway)

  24. Posted

    I scare you because I bare the truth

    I’m wearing the signs

    When you see me there is no reading between the lines

    You envision hell as your place to dwell

    While I envision paradise and its smells

    I walk with pride on this land

    We both prostrate for a higher command

    So stare at me as you please

    Cause my Nikhab and my clothes bring me appease

    I love how you got the last lines together.

    Hope we see more of you....keep them coming sis

  25. Posted

    Luuqluuq marow lazim laamigaas kusoo dhacaa.

     

    Canjeero sii u kala koreeso aaloo kala qaataa.

     

    Khamro hadaas cabtid, marqaan aad noqohee

    Like DUH... :D:D tank yuu Nin Yaaban...saan u qoslaayay baan fuuray

     

    reer xamar ppl like simplicity yaah