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  2. Posted

    Originally posted by J.a.c.a.y.l.b.a.r.o:

    If you are shy, you will be perceived as weak, less friendly, not interested, or just plain "boring" -simply because you don't know what to say in social situations.

     

    Because of these are other negative traits associated with shyness, women rarely if ever give the shy man the opportunity to know whether he can be "upbeat and nice to be with" once she actually got to know him.

     

    The shy man gives the impression of being inferior and less able to succeed and provide for her and women feel a certain level of contempt, sometimes overt, but sometimes residing deep at a subconscious level for shy men. Women aren't as warm as we're led to believe. They are most often hard as nails. That's another reason why jerks are more successful.

     

    Simply put a shy man is simply unattractive to women because of his display of social awkwardness.

     

    Jerks are never shy. Since the jerks don't care about anyone else, they have nothing to lose, and can approach women in a completely relaxed and confident way...And women LOVE jerks.

     

    Women are eager to reject shy men. I wonder how a shy women feels?

     

    There is one element of shyness that might serve you well though - the desire be trusted and liked for you are. But most often will have nothing to do with that. But there is that rare case from time to time.

     

    Women say, "Nice guys are boring because they lack confidence, assertiveness and sexual passion."

     

    You need to ask yourself, "Are women really worth all this trouble?" Many men are saying NO these days. The guys who get the girls end up more miseable than the guys who don't.

    Who wrote this crap?

  13. Posted

    ^^ lol@ local Masjid.... Now, Baytalllah is shopping grounds for potential mate? Okay

     

     

    siphoningdilemma

    I vote for adaption… good luck and I hope you reconsider marriage vs staying single...

  14. Posted

    Originally posted by Bella*Princesa:

    As we all may know Umar ibn al khattab (radiyal lahu anhu) offered his daughter hafsa(radiyal lahu anha) to both Abu Bakr and Uthman ibn Affan(radiyal lahu anhuma) one after the other but they both declined because they knew that the prophet salalahu alayhiwasalam had expressed an interest in marrying her.

     

    At the time Umar (radiyal lahu anhu) wasn't aware of this so subxanallah you could imagine how he must of felt...he just offered his daughter and they rejected, so when muhammed salalahu alayhiwasalm proposed to hafsa(radiyal lahu anha) Umar(radiyal lahu anhu) was delighted

     

    So my QUESTION is for the GUYS..Inshallah im sure most of you all plan to get married one day and have children inshallah. So If Allah(swt) was to bless you with a daughter, how many of you would offer her to a noble brother who you know is seeking marrige?

     

    Would you or wouldn't you, would you think it would be 'lowering' your status???

     

     

    and for the LADIES, if your father was to present to you a noble, god fearing brother, would you decline?

     

    share your thoughts...
    :D

    From what I hear, most Somali fathers find such task too daunting and embarrassing. so such idea does not work well for us.

  15. Posted

    Originally posted by G.T:

    quote:Ms DD and Malika will walk up behind him in an ally and scary him, I should then run out and knock him dead with a hammer, then take
    his purse
    and make it look like a robbery. That plan is good but again I want him to KNOW.

    SO he carries a PURSE mmm, Ibti your man is so sissy no need of whacking him like that..Just slap him and he will come to his sense :confused:

     

    As for the hargeisa girl, whether that is real gentleman or her dream husband, wish her the best.
    looooooooool@slap him

  16. Posted

    I have notice that some people on this form receive extreme thrill out of belittling the newcomers.. Why?

     

    Zash, welcome and i think you should do it.... but make it simple.. good luck and congrats to you smile.gif really

  18. Posted

    1st post *extremely thrilled*

     

     

    Aww, such sweet n short entertaining story. I must say somaliwood should knock ur utube doors very soon.

     

    ps i hope u find her very soon ..my wishes are with u n her