Shakti

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  1. Fabiana ..aaahhha. u make it sound like a romantic movie!

     

    Reality Check . U r on to something! That could be it.

     

    Lieutenant Xalane … like u, i laughed so hard when she told me about it

     

    Didi Kong whats "sap"?

     

    AAliyah416 lol..

     

    Me …insecure ah? Well when u listen to her complaining about work load, family, relationships. Than u have every right calling her insecure, until than… all rights of name-calling belongs to me, The only word that is currently available to u is childish

     

    TenaciousSoul* now, u sould like her.

     

    Sakhar i will tell her

     

     

    LayZieGirl .. that chucky cheese parts was very funny ..lol….I almost fell of my chair .. I see u haven’t taken ur Prozac yet. right?

     

    XulaXu , well as u know our CULTURE does not give us the permission to talk about these sort of things as openly as we would like, and I didn’t use the word tampon coz I did not know people comfort level with such word. I know from experience many of our men find it discomfort until they get married.

     

    I also notice, when we pose the same question to married women they find it normal for a men to talk such a way and while single girls frowned and shocked by mere thought of men talking such a manner especially a girl that he does not know well.

    So I can understand the mix reaction between u people.


  2. I can see the title of the thread is inviting some playground activities. Carry on kids :D Che-Guevara and Khalaf,shall I bring sand 4 u guys?

     

     

    Reality check, she hanged up becoz on their 1st formal talk he managed to bring tampon into the discussion, it wasn’t about his past relationship.


  3. Originally posted by 21st Centry Digital Boy:

    Took a while to get here, I hope journey was worth it!

    how so, like me, u didnt get ur password.. and the journey is very much worth it!

     

    Welcooooooooooome


  4. Originally posted by Che-Guevara:

    LooooL...Why does the stories almost always involve in a friend. It is never the first person narrative.

    Loooooooooool

     

    yoyoman,thanks 4 the tip. from now on wards if I need 2 inform u guys something that happened someone else. I should reference it as my own incident even though we all r anonymous members. Seems like a oxymoron to me.

     

    Yoyoman, if u go and read all my post u will see its all about me even the embarrassing ones. Unlike u im not here 2 impress anyone. Just sharing my experience with u guys 4 free.. Darn u somalis no more story telling 4 u guys :( u actually managed to hurt my feelings

     

    Kalfazla, Stop this sheik act bro im not buyin it one bit. spare me plz


  5. I hope ya'all had a good weekend :D

     

    anways, Since there is some what discussion about where 2 meet people.I was wondering about what is suitable 2 talk about during the so called dating process. Coz now a day I hear a lot about guys not knowing how, what and where to talk to girls. I find more and more guys confused about this subject ?

     

    Anyways here is a story which happened to a friend of mine That might suggest some misunderstanding

     

    About 5 month ago a friend of mine met someone and exchanged #s with him. The girl met one of those dudes that sounds amazingly bright through the small talks but when it comes to serious personal discussion he was more towards the unexpected fields(at least on her assumption ).

    One of their 1st/last serious phone discussion was about his ex, she accidentally found herself on this ex-Girl friend territory. The dude actually offered to explain himself as 2 why he broke up with his x-GF. His explanation was that his ex-gf was the jealousy type.

    My friend dared to ask him as 2 what made him to think that way, he responded with some nonsense; saying that he was the type that brought material stuff for his girl friends…. EVERYTHING 4 her, even her feminine products . (4 the sake of SOL members, im trying not 2 use the T word)

    HUH was my friend reaction. She nicely asked him 2 repeat himself... When she confirmed that he actually said the T word .

    She said “good bye”.

    He asked “why”

    She said “that wasn’t a suitable thing 2 say 2 a lady”.

    He said “I thought we were adults”

    She said, “This isn’t a matter about ones age but one class, Macsalam” she hanged up.

     

    So here is question, was it a childish thing on her behalf to hang up the call or our men r losing track on how and where 2 talk 2 a girl?

    Some training might be useful for some I think. Any help/books out there.

     

    I personally think, she was a bit childish 4 doing such thing coz he might have been nervous talking 2 her thus saying all the wrong stuff. No need 2 break a sweat, we all been there but my friend doesn’t think so.


  6. Astonishing BlueEpocha for u have seen the un-noticeable by some (including me)

    At 1st I was annoyed by her pic but after reading ur pointers, I can now appreciate the picture under different aspect.

    To me a pictures usually says 2 things, Good times or bad times .. that’s it!!! The rest is pink skies 2 me.

     

    Anyways, I highly doubt that was staged by anyone.. its just another picture with halimo showing off her new dirac, I bet

     

    David_Letterman Thanks for bring this 2 us. its really a great pleasure 2 see our women doing such remarkable jobs, May god bless them and their family smile.gif


  7. Originally posted by Peaceful Mind:

    I'm wondring what about other places..??

    In my opinion, the places that I find appropriate to meet someone are; on campus, libraries (there is nothing sexier than finding a faraax so focus on his Studies ), friend connections, family friend (u just need 2 look closely), how about the mosque( faraax coming 2 Friday prayers .Mashallah all the way), bus/metro stops(like Cambarro , a friend of mine met her husband in a bus, they actually sew each-other for about 4 months before they started to talk… how romantic)

    Anyways, where u meets that person is unpredictable However there are some places that is more appropriate than others.


  8. Originally posted by Cambarro:

    It is not fun to preach, doncha ya know?

    lol.. so so true

     

    Aliyah, mashallah 2 u for pointing out the obvious so undoubtedly, But no need 2 explain urself. What u said was understood and appreciated by most, including me (thanks 2 ur words, Im now, club free 4 the last 19 hours… seriously, u never know what stone throwing will knock the Shaitan out of someone soul, so carrying on sister…)


  9. Sacidiya sister ..question?

    What if mr. Hebel found another ms Heblayo who is ms Heblayo cousins however is related to another heblayo that is related to mr Hebel. What would u say about that? :( thanks


  10. ^^ habartaaa .

     

     

    dont mind me Red, im just trying 2 reach my 100 mark AGAIN.

    Red thanks 4 asking how im doing, to be honest im sort of bored coz after Ramdan the darn company that I slave for day/night restricted all usage of MSN. But don’t worry about me, ill live

    :(


  11. i thought all the males were 2 scared 2 make any comment on this post...lol

     

    MC xamar, made by China? and have u ever called a xalimo by that word?


  12. Dr Khalaf spare me the psychoanalyzing session. All I want is 4 u 2 refer 2 me by my id.

     

    Last warning, before I email admin. Be afraid for u might find urself in a similar situation as me. Seriously its isn’t gone be pleasant when u no longer can log in as Khalaf or hava ppl refer 2 u as .......


  13. Originally posted by Khalaf:

    Devil means satan whom Allah has cursed, i dont understand why u would accociate yourself to the devil, but i wont use that term when addressing u.

    leave the understanding & the drama out of this!!.. last time Khalaf .. will u or will not address me by my ID name???

     

    This Id toke allot of hard work, creativity to produce it (ok fine, that was the only id available 4 what I was going 4...still hard work) And 4 u to have the audacity to not address me by my id is very insulting.

     

    next time u insult me, i will email the admin.. im very serious about this. :mad:


  14. ^^Just the way u've addressed my ID is clear evidence that u r one of those people who avoid the problems and drum up some sort of utopia state for urself. However, one needs 2 look at the problem 2 drive a good situation. My ideas about *yellow teeths* ppl are precise for I have lived amongst them 4 about 3 grueling years, enough 2 know, where there a$$ sucking starts and their yellow teeth Ends.. (A$$~irony)


  15. No we will not disregard the disregarded!!!!

     

    whats that Sacidya, Disregard the UIc Gov :eek: . *im not sure i spelt it correctly* :D


  16. ^^lol, Xulxul, bleach-flavored.. is that any good, i sure wouldn’t mind doing the same thing...

     

    now a days Its not only old men who call me by that offensive word but women 2!! my mothers women friends also refer me 2 that name.. My usual respond is "naya has name, naya :mad: " than, they leave with :eek: and never come back. :D

    I just wish I didn’t have to get the ambulance ready 4 Mom every time I say such thing… :(

     

     

     

     

    Originally posted by Nistisa:

    LOL @ habarta.

     

    How about when someone called you nayaa and you response 'Don't call me naya, i am not your naga.'
    smile.gif

    i could but i dont like 2 state the obvious or light a hope in his heart.

     

    Question , is it ok 4 a husband to call his wife such a word???


  17. **exuse my double post, im borad and i wanna reach my 100 post. u see im done being alien**

     

    now let me answer Reality Check's question

     

    4 me #1 but Only if he doesnt mind me having a husband already!

     

    Nur is promoting the 2nd marriages, which sadly leads to family separation. personally im very tired of these men who always advocating their selfishness as form of god’s will..

     

    “oh Sister, if u let ur husband marry another woman u r gone get tremendous ajir from allah ”

     

    oh yeah, will I receive the same ajir if i let him get married and i do the same thing, by marry someone else while im married 2 him??

    :eek: "subhanallah sister" ....

     

    so spare me. Im done with any thing that is pro-men! Y r we women always getting the bad end of the deal?? huh? :mad: i 2 would like to change my diet

     

    faraax here

    Ali Khan there

    abdi over there........ :D