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  1. asalama alaykum wrhmtullahi wbrktu

    sister latifah I'm not scholar..I'm just sudent.

    I ask my allah to give us a good knowledge.

    as we know - hadith said -- That which is lawful is plain and that which is unlawful is plain and between the two of them are doubtful matters about which not many people know. Thus he who avoids doubtful matters clears himself in regard to his religion and his honor, but he who falls into doubtful matters falls into that which is unlawful, like the shepherd who pastures around a sanctuary, all but grazing therein. Truly every king has a sanctuary, and truly Allah's sanctuary is His prohibitions. Truly in the body there is a morsel of flesh which, if it be whole, all the body is whole and which, if it be diseased, all of it is diseased. Truly it is the heart."

     

    narrated by Bukhari and Muslim..

     

    olso...This is one paragraph of one of muslim sis's book _Initiating and Upholding an Islamic Marriage_ (Dar al-Fikr 2000, available at www.furat.com) - Allah reward her - which I found needed revising. She writes (p. 156):

     

     

    "In response to numerous inquiries on the topic of oral sex as it is practiced and understood in the West, the consensus among the sheikhs and traditional scholars is that it contravenes the adab (proper Islamic behavior) of an Islamic marriage, and is revolting to a sound human nature (fitra). When the actual details of oral sex have been described to them, they plainly say it is haram (unlawful)."


  2. Asalama alaykum wrhmtullahi wbktu

     

    As we know divorce is way to live...

     

    "Aroosaa Jiidan Furoow baa ka daba jiidan.. I heard that since I was a Child..."

     

    1) As a Muslim wat do u think about divorce??

    -If a man wants to divorce his wife, he should make sure of the appropriate time, which is after she has finished her menstruation period and before having any sexual intercourse with her. If she is in the period or in a state of of cleanliness during which an intercourse has taken place, he should wait until the appropriate time. Then he pronounces divorce, such as saying, “I am divorcing my wife --”. He says this once only. If he says it three times, he commits a sin. He informs his wife of the fact so that she starts her waiting period, which extends until she has completed either three menstruation periods or three cleanliness periods. During this time, she stays with him in their family home, they use separate bedrooms. He is responsible for her upkeep, and he has the advantage of reinstating the marriage if they both agree, without having to have a new marriage contract (Nikah). If the waiting period lapses and no reunion takes place, the divorce procedure is complete and she re-joins her family. After the waiting period is over, they may still be reunited in marriage, but this will require a new contract and a new dowry, provided that this is their first or second divorce.. ;)

     

    2) As a Somali wat do u think about divorce??

    -somali are Muslim..So they can treat as muslim..

     

    3) Wat are the traditional ways of goin about a divorce?

    -Parents frequently ask — "Is there any way I can protect my children from the aftermath of our divorce — a way to reduce the pain and loss they might feel — to help them accept the new situation and adjust"

     

    4) How do u think a child is affected psychologically and emotionally by a break-up in de household?

    -It depends how the perants are giving their children more Attention..

     

    that's my knowladge about Divorce... take care


  3. You wonder what my shade is, What it represents. Call me anything; An extremist, a fundamentalist, Anything you desire. I don't care.

     

    My shade is My protection from this evil world, from roaming eyes, from diseased hearts. Call me anything; Vain or Submissive. don't care.

     

    My shade is My Protection of my beauty, reserved for one special gift that God has given me; My Life Partner.

     

    This world is but a fleeting moment about to end at Any Time. The Signs are here. The Day of Judgement is coming. No one will enter my grave with me except My body, my heart, my soul.

     

    Call me a pessimist, Distressed, Repressed, Oppressed, I don't care.

     

    My shade Covers me Like a tree from the sun; Like a coat of wax on your shiny new sportscar.

     

    My shade My protection, is my Khimaar, I am a woman of Islaam.


  4. runaway^virgin you said somali magac,

     

    so why don't we post only somali magac..?

    like, ayaan, cawo, batuulo, muxubo, jaamac, warfaa, ;) etc..

    so let's start Over Only somali name..


  5. sis malaika ..

     

    you Q? is

    Who was the Muslim African King who changed the value of gold in the world while making pilgrimage?

    bro Qa'Qa tried to answer and he said

    the king name is Mansa Musa for Mali

    Malaika let us know if he got the right one sis.. we w'll give them 1 more points..

     

    olso batuulo traied to answer Qa'Qa's Q?.. And she said.

    Sheikh Usman dan Fodio

    Bro Qa'Qa' Let us know if she got the right one.. good luck..


  6. Originally posted by muslim sis:

    Bismillaahi Arahmani Arahim

     

    Asalaama Alaykum Wrhtullahi Wabarakaatu

     

    Dear Bro & Sis in Islam..

    here's A Quiz between Guys, vs girls,,

     

    If the First
    Girl Post A Q?
    Guys
    Must be Answer..

    If the
    guys
    Answer the Q? correctly,
    Guys
    w'll post their Q?.. If they Don't Answer correctly.. they don't post... when the first
    Guy
    Answer first Q? he 'll post one Q?,

    for example
    Girls:
    Q? is how many years did prophet"pbuh" live in makka?,
    Guy's:
    Answer.13yrs.

    Girl said Correct.. then first guy w'll post his Q?.

    The Answer's w'll be in Order.. Good luck..

    Be carefull..

     

    This is my first Q?..

    When Tariq ibn Ziyad led the campaign in Spain, what were the numbers of Muslim soldiers and non-Muslim soldiers?


  7. Bismillaahi Arahmani Arahim

     

    Asalaama Alaykum Wrhtullahi Wabarakaatu

     

    Dear Bro & Sis in Islam..

    here's A Quiz between Guys, vs girls,,

     

    If the First Girl Post A Q? Guys Must be Answer..

    If the guys Answer the Q? correctly, Guys w'll post their Q?.. If they Don't Answer correctly.. they don't post... when the first Guy Answer first Q? he 'll post one Q?,

    for example Girls: Q? is how many years did prophet"pbuh" live in makka?, Guy's: Answer.13yrs.

    Girl said Correct.. then first guy w'll post his Q?.

    The Answer's w'll be in Order.. Good luck..

    Be carefull..

     

    This is my first Q?..

    When Tariq ibn Ziyad led the campaign in Spain, what were the numbers of Muslim soldiers and non-Muslim soldiers?


  8. In those days before Islam, women were treated like slaves or property. Their personal consent concerning anything related to their well-being was considered unimportant, to such a degree that they were never even treated as a party to a marriage contract.

     

    Women were used for one purpose, and then discarded. They had no independence, could own no property and were not allowed to inherit. In times of war, women were treated as part of the prize. Simply put, their condition was unspeakable.

     

    In addition, the birth of a daughter in a family was not an occasion for rejoicing, but was regarded with humiliation. The practice of killing female children was uncontrolled.

     

    With the advent of Islam came the verse from the Quran condemning those who practiced female infanticide.

    "And when the news of (the birth of) a female (child) is brought to any of them, his face becomes dark, and he is filled with inward grief! He hides himself from the people because of the evil of that whereof he has been informed. Shall he keep her with dishonor or bury her in the earth? Certainly, evil is their decision."

    (An-Nahl 16:58-59)

    Alhamdu lillaah free At last.


  9. subhana allaah that's sad story brother.

     

    The Muslim woman knows that the man has the right of qiwaamah over her, as the Qur’aan says:

     

    (Men are the protectors and maintainers [qawwaamun] of women, because Allah has given the one more [strength] than the other, and because they support them from their means . . .) (Qur’aan 4:34)

     

    olso- The Qur’aan has described this relationship between men and women, which brings love, harmony, trust and compassion, in the most moving and eloquent terms.


  10. I am a Muslim woman

    Feel free to ask me why

    When I walk,

    I walk with dignity

    When I speak

    I do not lie

     

    I am a Muslim woman

    Not all of me you'll see

    But what you should appreciate

    Is that the choice I make is free

     

    I'm not plagued with depression

    I'm neither cheated nor abused

    I don't envy other women

    And I'm certainly not confused

     

    Note, I speak perfect English

    Et un petit peu de Francais aussi

    I'm majoring in Linguistics

    So you need not speak slowly

     

    I run my own small business

    Every cent I earn is mine

    I drive my Chevy to school & work

    And no, that's not a crime!

     

    You often stare as I walk by

    You don't understand my veil

    But peace and power I have found

    As I am equal to any male!

     

    I am a Muslim woman

    So please don't pity me

    For God has guided me to truth

    And now I'm finally free!


  11. Allaahu Akbar!

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    Allaahu Akbar!

    thnk you sis for sharing this pictures, some of them i saw it before wajazaaka allaah khair Mizz