Nephissa
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The only thing I liked about the movie was the
song. Found myself singing it all the way from the movies to my house.
I was five and you were six
We rode on horses made of sticks
I wore black, you wore white
You would always win the fight
Bang bang, you shot me down
Bang bang, I hit the ground
Bang bang, that awful sound
Bang bang, my baby shot me down...
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Along with the breakdown of the family has also come the breakdown of true friendships and true affectionate relationships.
I remember growing up in back home, holding hands, or at least walking arm in arm, with my close girlfriends. No problem.
I can remember resting heads on each others shoulder in the classroom. No problem.
I can remember my brothers having tight
friendships with their boys, hugging and kissing each other on the cheek in public. No Problem.
Now folks can't even be tight with someone of the same sex unless there's at least some whispering.
This is crazy! Does liking someone of the same gender make you gay?
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Subhaana laah
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It's a known fact that there is a higher ratio of women to men so by sheer numbers alone, there are more women than there are men. When a Faarax is removed from the "available" list, it adds more stress to the situation for the single Xaliimo who wants to have a responsible and loving 'husband' to bare babies with.
Personally I don't like the idea of sharing a husband, but if worse came to worst… I'd probably be down for it.
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Anybody can edit the name. Considering all the comp.geeks out there. So you can take that out, not enough evidence. These hoochie mamas are not Somali, Ayeeydood xitaa Somali maaha.
Hate to admit i'm jealous
Hell they're pretty, wish i had abs like theirs, and not this jello. -
Shoot man! I did not like it at all. 4 thumps down (Boooooh.) One hell of a crazy movie if you ask me. What was the Cartoon part? I almost walked out of it. Not worth a penny. Thank God I saw it on nigga's night (Tues.) lol.
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Hibo Nura & Zaki maad sheekada private ka dhigataan, sowtan page yadiiba buuxiseen?
Hiba Nura topic sharaf leh baad la soo shir tagtay, laakin walaaleey cayaalka huruufka ka daa.
Midbaa kor ku soo yiri (can't remember his nick) Af Somali gaja gaja baan ku hadlaa oo ma aqaan!!!! Bal yaa u qoray intuu qoray lol.
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Since the chat on this forum does not work.
Where do you nomads normally chat? I would love to get acquainted with you.
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I don't understand how people get offended by stuff that's none of their business. Some of you act like he cheated on you personally. I don't get it. :confused:
If he were above me as a human being (which nobody is), then maybe I would hold him to a higher standard, but since I have enough common sense to know that he is " just a man", why would I waste my time and energy worrying about what he does in his personal life? Is he my friend (No), brother(No),cousin(No). Then why would Kobe Bryants' indiscretions stress me out?
Kobe Bryant owes you nothing people, he doesn't even know you exist, so relieve yourselves of the anger and stress he has caused you. It's pointless. :rolleyes:
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lol@Jidawy & the rest.
This incident happened when I was about 8 or 9yrs old. My Dad who was at the time diabetic kept all of the one time use needles for his insullin shots in his nightstand. My little brother and I used to steal 2 (only the plastic part w/o the needle) every afternoon and have a water fight. (fill it with water and spray it on each other's face like a watergun.)
Up until one rainy afternoon that we found a frog laying in the garden. Told my little bro to do our afternoon routine and while he's at it to grab few needles aswel. To make it short, we managed to capture the poor little frog, and I gave him his first water injection, gave him shots after another till we heard (BUC) the frog exploded. We run & cried like hell. Everyone came out and there we were Busted.
Boy oh boy did I get a gooood a$$ whipping or what!
So Lucky, animal cruelty is in most Somali kid's gene. Seen Somali kids who were born here in N/A, never been to Somalia or its surroundings and the minute they see a dog go "WOOH WOOOH" just to annoy the crap outta him? lool. It defenetly gotta be Genetic.
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Samir & Iimaan walaalo.
Allaha u naxariisto.
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Admit Nothing, Deny All
Here’s a note to all men. Admit nothing and deny everything. Again, never admit anything and always deny everything. Always! If you are caught in the act—deny it. Say it wasn’t you and stick to it.
Have an Alibi
Always have an alibi even when you don’t need one. If you don't have one, get one.
Seeds of Doubt
Plant the seeds of doubt early—just in case. Tell her how you were walking down the street and thought you were looking in a mirror when “a man who looked just like me drove past in the same kind of car I drive.” Be sure to casually mention this on well-spaced occasions. It may come in handy later for denial. “That wasn’t me in bed with that woman.” Remember, deny. “You must have seen someone who looked like me.” No more is necessary because the seed was already planted. Don’t tell and always deny. Tie this together with a strong alibi and you can confuse the sharpest mind with the element of doubt.
Yo Business
Keep your business to yourself. There is no need to brag or discuss your business with your friends. It puts them in an awkward position and it also puts them in a position to cause mucho trouble. Don’t give them the power. Don’t tell. If they don’t know they can’t tell. Your buddies will do you in by accident or sometimes on purpose—the backstabbers. Don’t tell. If they guess, deny it because she will eventually ask one of them and if they don’t know, they can’t tell. Take it to the grave.
Married Playas
If you are married you shouldn't be playing these games, but if you are the same rules apply—keep your mouth shut. Admit nothing and deny everything. It’s cheaper. When the private eye shows the pictures at the divorce hearing—deny it. Say the pictures are fake like in the National Inquirer. Talk about body doubles, but deny it. If they bring the woman into court, act like you need glasses because you’ve never seen that woman before in your life. Lie in court? Please! Deny. Never admit. After the judge gives her everything you own, all your money and even your dreams—deny. When she sees you years later and asks—you know the drill.
Never Tell
Never, never, never tell. When the urge to tell the truth comes over you, remember this advice—admit nothing and deny everything. Carry the burden alone, but never tell. If you feel you must tell someone—tell a doctor or your psychiatrist. Tell a stranger, but never tell a friend. Don’t put a burden on them. Don’t force them into making a decision. Deny.
Lies and Damned Lies
If you must lie, and you must, tell a big lie. Tell a lie that even you wouldn’t believe. The more outrageous the better. Make her think “he must be telling the truth because no one would be ****** enough to make up a lie like that.” Lie early and often just to get comfortable with it and deny you ever said it. Don’t even admit that you might have said something like it. Deny.
Finally
Don’t be surprised if someone of the opposite sex has read this article and does the same to you.
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lol pearl shyte. Do you see what I'm seeing?
I see a multiple personality disorder suferer.
j/k
I'm obssessed with flosing, & staring at people's teeth to see if they got food between them somewhere.
Come to think of it I should be a dental hygenist.
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SCWW sisters & brothers in Islam.
As we all know the blessed month of Ramadas is approaching us.
I thank Allah that He is giving us another occasion to witness this blessed time in our life. May He help us to benefit from this season of virtues and blessings and may He grant us His love, mercy and forgiveness now and forever.
Amiin.
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I would never trade a handsome man over a sissy who cooks for me.
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None of us like to admit ignorance.
The "I don't know" part isn't just for the Somalis, it goes for the Gaalo people too. Have you ever asked for directions or instructions? They'll never tell you they don't know!
As for the titles it indicates very high self confidence/esteem. Let them be.
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Hello nomad sisters, here's a piece about a book called "Raaxada Guurka." Hope some of the chosen words of the author is not offensive to any age, religious, or particular group. If so, I appologize in advance.
Give your honest opinion.
NINKAYGU MUXUU IGA RABAA
MUXUUSE RAALLI KU NOQDAA?
Haweeney garoob ah baa beri ii sir warrantay.
Waxay tiri: Markaan guursanayey waxan isweeydiinayey Su'aalahaan soo socda:
Muxuu ninkaygu iga rabaa?. Maxaan sameeyaa si uu iiga raalli noqdo?. Ma wuxu doonayaa inan ahay qof diinta taqaan oo ku dhaqanta, mise inaan u lebbisto sida gabdhaha gaabsiga loogu tago?. Ma wuxuu doonayaa inaan lebbisto dhar jirkeyga inta ka bannaani ka badantahay inta ka daboolan, mise wuxu rabaa inaan qaato Jilbaab iyo Niqaab?. Ma wuxu doonayaa inaan ahaado qof furfuran oo dadka dhex gasha, mise qof xirxiran oo isaga uun meel ugu xiran?. Ma wuxu doonayaa inaan ahay gabar la koolkooliyey, horteeda loo daayey bad shirtaana aanay jirin, mise inaan ahay qof waayeel ah, deggan, sida hooyadiis u caqli badan?.
Muddo markii la'iqabay waxaan billaabay inaan isweydiiyo su'aalo kuwii hore ka duwan:
Muxuu ninkeygu isaga kay indhatiraa, dumar kalena u dhugtaa laga yaabo inaan anigu wax badan qurux dhaamo?. Muxuu u kari la'yahay inuu ila fariisto ama meelna ii raaco?. Muxuu waxaan sameeyo wax uga sheegaa, isagoon isaguba naftiisa la xisaabtameyn tiisuna mar waliba la qumantahay?. Kolkaan caadada ka dhaqdo oo uu dhowr habeen ila baashaalo, muxuu iiga xiisa dhacaa?. Inkastoon cuntada ugu fiican u kariyo, guriga nadaafaddiisa ku dadaalo, dharka si yaab leh ugu dhaqo, haddana iima soo jeedo oo wuu igasii jeedaaye maxaa dhacay?
Su'aalihii aan isweydiinayey bay tiri, kolkaan guursanayey iyo kedib markaan guri degey, jawaabohoodii waxan ogaaday kedib markaan gurigeeygii gacantayda ku dumiyey oo lay furay. Haddaba waa inay bay tiri dumarka walaalahay ahi tijaabadayda ka faa'iideystaan intay goori goor tahay, intii ay hadhow tooda ka sheekayn lahaayeen sideyda oo kale.
Waxan ogaaday (waa siday gabadhu tiriye) in ninku kolka uu xaaskiisa la joogo yahay carruur cagaweyn, uuna jecelyahay inay dumar oo dhan keligeed isku wada tahay. Wuxu jecelyahay:
1- Inay hooyadiis uga egtahay xagga degganaanta, caqliga iyo diinta, sideeda oo kalena ay u koolkooliso oo wuxuu doono ugu yeesho.
2- Inay saaxiibtiis ahaato uu dantiisa, duruuftiisa iyo waxyaabo kale oo uusan qof kale oo bina'aadama u sheegan kareyn ayada u sheegto.
3- Inay u ahaato adeegto dhega xiran' oo iyadoo aamusan siduu doono ugu adeegta.
4- Inay u ahaato qof caqli iyo xikmad badan kolka la yiraahdo hala hadlo, wax kasta oo laga hadlayana si cilmiyeeysan aragtideeda uga dhiibata.
5- Inay u ahaato sida dumarka weriyeyaasha ah, kuwa dharka xayeysiiya iyo kuwa aflaanta jila ee aynu maalin kasta Taleefishanka ku aragno, micnaha inay tahay naag qurux badan, lebbis qurxoon, lana socota moodada dharka wixii maalin kasta cusub.
6- Inay u ahaato sida naagaha jirkooda iibiya oo si layaab leh jirkooda u kala dhigdhiga, badeecadoodana usoo bandhiga, si ay macmiishooda usoo jiitaan..
Waakaas qaabka uu ninku u fekerayo, maadaama uu ka daalayo kana xiisa dhacayo naag keligeed ah ama qaab gaar ah leh, si gaar ahna u fekerta, si gaar ahna u lebbisata. Wuxuu jecelyahay inay u ahaato dhammaan dumarka aynu soo sheegnay oo laysku dardaray, maalintuu doonana noocuu doono ka helo.
Haddaba, haweeneydu ayadoo kaashanaysa dumarnimadeeda waa inay garan kartaa goortuu sidaa inay ahaato ka rabo iyo goortuu sida kale doonayo.Waa inaanay jilbaab usoo xiran habeen uu kululyahay oo uu galmo diyaar u yahay, waase inay usoo xirataa dhar khafiif ah oo layska dhex arkayo, isla markaana ay sidii qof waaya aragnimo iyo xikmad leh ula dooddaa, caqligiisana la hadashaa, rag fara badan baana dumarka caynkaas ahi soo jiitaan.
Haweeneydii oo hadalkeedii sii wadataa waxay tiri: waxaan u sheegayaa gabadha walaashay ah in uusan ninkeedu u keenin guriga inay cunto u kariso, dhar u dhaqdo, aqalkana u hagaajiso, oo hadduu intaa keliya rabo, wuxu awoodaa inuu adeegto soo kireeysto. Walaashay, ninkaagu waxa uu kaa doonayaa inuu arko naag intuusan asagu doonan ayadu doonata. Nin kastaa waxa uu jecelyahay inay xaaskiisu waqti kasta diyaar u tahay, doonitaankuna aanu hal dhinac uun ka socon.
Haddaba aan khibraddayda ugu deeqo qoysaska isku cusub iyo kuwa mowjaduhu hadba gebi ku ridayaan welise aan bustaha bannaanka isu dhigin. Gabaryahay hadday dhab kaa tahay inaad gurigaaga janno ka dhigatid, gacalkaaga iyo adigana gabow iyo geeri waxaan ahayni idin kala geyn, waanadaydan qaado oo wax ku qabso:
1- INDHAHA: Isha ninku waxay haweeneyda ka eegtaa meel ayan iyadu ka maleysanayn. Saa darteed u lebbiso dhar kan ugu qurxoon, shardina ma aha mar kasta inaad lebbisatid dhar qaali ah, ama dhar qaawanaan xiga, sababtoo ah ninku waxa dabeecadihiisa kamid ah inuu wax waliba ka xiisa dhaco markay dhowr jeer kusoo noqnoqdaan. Saa darteed maalinba cayn uga dhig, maalin dharka haweenka gaabsiga meherad ka dhigtaa qaataan oo waxay dedayaan waxay daboolqaadayaan ka badanyihiin, maalin dhar jirkaaga oo dhan astura min madax ilaa majo, sida adiga oo Masjid u socda, maalin dharka ragga, maalin dhar rakhiis ah. Intaa keliya ma aha ee u allif qaabab lebbis oo kala duwan. Sidoo kale waxyaabaha raggu aad u xiiseeyo waxa kamid ah adiga oo beddela qabka timo feerasho, adigoo maalin sheexaysta, maalin gadaal u xira, maalin aafro ka dhigta. Sidoo kale mar timaha gaabsada sidii dhallinyarada cusub, maalin dheereysta oo daaya. Sidoo kale roosetooyinka (Bushimo caseeyaha) aad marsanaysid maalin isku duug oo daamanka, indhaha, iyo wejiga oo dhan casee, maalin khafiif ka dhigo, midab degganna marso amaba mid aan bushimaha laga garanayn. Sidoo kale Bisqin xiirashada, raggu mar waliba wexey jecelyihiin in wax waliba loo beddelo. Mar iska daa ha xiirine ha kugu bexee, dabeetana si kedis ah maalin u jar kana soo saar wax jilicsan oo sida xariirta oo kale ah, qaabab kala duwan u jar, mar sida gammuunka oo kale, marna mid yar oo ku yaal dusha Cambarka, mar kalena wada xiir gebigiis, iwm.
2- SANKA: Ninku ma jecla hal nooc oo Barafuun ah, saa darteed waa inaad bedbeddeshaa uduggaaga, barafuunkaad maalin marsatidna ha ku celin maalinta labaad. Mar Barafuun, mar Catar, mar Uunsi, iwm. Xitaa ninku marmar waxa uu jecelyahay inuu uriyo udgoonka dabiiciga ah ee xaaskiisa iyadoon waxba ismarin, waxanaba laga yaabaa in uduggaasi uu kala caraf badnaado barafuun kan ugu qaalisan.
3- DHEGAHA: Codka macaan ninku waa uu jecelyahay kolka uu ka maqlayo gidaar ka gadaal (Raadiye, Talefishan, iwm), haddaba ka warran hadduu codkaasi hortiisa ka yeerayo, ayna ugu heeseyso xaaskiisa uu jecelyahay. Saa darteed kula hadal cod macaan oo koolkoolin leh, una qaad mararka qaar heesaha uu jecelyahay. Codka xanta ah ee aad dhegta afka ula saartaana jirkiisa oo dhan wuu dhaqaajiyaa.
4- Qaab adiga kuu gaar ah u koolkooli. Tusaale ahaan; kolkuu shaqada ka yimaado asagoo daallan u masaajee oo si raaxa leh ugu daliig, adigoo nal khafiif ah qolka u daaraya, muusiko macaan oo cod gaaban lehna u shidaya amaba adigu si hamham ah ugu heesaya, adaa markaa arki doona isagoo kugu billaabaya istiimin iyo faracayaar, iyo inu isna markiisa kuu masaajeeyo.
4- Shumiska ka badi. Marka aad jiiftaan, kolkuu tooso, marka uu shaqada aadayo iyo markuu ka yimaado, dhegtana ugu sheeg inaad dharareysid soo laabashadiisa intuu kaa maqanyahayna aad tebeysid.
5- Marmar shaqada taleefan ugu dir, una sheeg sida aad ugu hiloowday araggiisa iyo sida aad ugu xiistay codkiisa.
6- Ku kedi munaasabadaha muhiimka ah ee maskaxdiisa ka maqan sida; maalintii ugu horreysay eed isbarateen, maalintaad aqalgasheen, maalintii dhalashadiisa, iwm, kedisna uga dhig xaflad yar ood labadiinna oo qurihi kasoo qaybgashaan. Waxaad doonto oo dhar ah markaa soo xiro, sida goonno gaaban, cariiri ah, jirkaaga intiisa badanna laga arkayo. Hadiyad u hibee haba yaraatee. Xitaa hadduu isagu munaasabadda hilmaansan yahay, ha ku eedeyn siduu u hilmaamay ee usheeg sida aadan adigu u illaawi karin munaasabad ceynkaasi ah.
7- Guriga nadaafaddiisa iyo gogoshiisa ku dadaal, kana dhig mid ay markasta carafi kasoo kacayso. Dharkiisa mar kasta u diyaari, uunsi uu jecelyahay ugu shid, barafuun ugu bilbil, kabahana u casee oo u nuuri.
8-Haddii aad doontid inaad meel saaxiibbadaa u raacdid amaba xitaa ehelkaa, hadduu guriga joog ku yiraahdo ka yeel oo haka hor imaan xanaaq iyo madax adayg ayuunbaa uga kordhaya kahor imaadkaaga eh, ha yeeshee goor dambe si aayar ah u weeydii sababta uu kuugu diiday inaad baxdid.
9- U diyaari cuntooyinka uu jecelyahay xitaa haddaanay adiga kuu dhadhamayn, iskuna day inaad usoo iibisid nooca cunto ee uu jecelyahay mar kasta ooy duruuftu kuu saamaxdo.
10- Nin kastaa aad ayuu ugu farxaa kolkuu arko inaad waalidkii ixtiraameysid, mashaakilna aadan ku abuureyn, ee isku day inaad isjecleysid waalidkii, gaar ahaan hooyadii, sababtoo ah dumar badan bay dhibaato ba'ani ka dhex taagan tahay iyaga iyo soddohyaalkood. Soddohdaa ixtiraam iskuna day inaad u jeclaatid sida hooyadaa oo kale. Mar kasta ood booqatid madaxa ka dhunko amaba xitaa hadday kula deggantahay. Usoo iibi hadiyadda aad usoo iibisid hooyadaa mid lamid ah, wey ku farxaysaa oo kuu ducaynaysaaye.
11- Haddaad aragtid ninkaaga oo murugeysan isku day inaad ka khafiifisid, hadduu kaa diidana si adiga kuu gaar ah ugu koolkooli sidii carruurtii isagaa degayee.
12- Suuqa kolkaad wax kasoo iibsanaysid ha ku raaco, dookhiisana iibso, wuxu markaa dareemayaa faan. Ku raac dookhiisa gaar ahaan kolkay arrintu joogto dharka hoosta laga xirto iyo dharka habeenkii xilliga jiifka aad dartii u xiratid. Dooro midabbada uu jecelyahay, mararka qaarna tus dookhaaga iyo dhar aad keligaa soo iibsatay oo ka yaabiya.
13- Ugu yeer inuu kula daawado filin jacayl ah oo soo xusuusiya siduu kuugu jeellan yahay, kuna dhaliya inuu kula baashaalo.
14- Qaababka galmada isku bedbeddela, iskuna day inaad xishoodka ka guuleysatid, kana codsatid ninkaaga noocyada galmo ee aad ka heshid. Xishoodku waxba kuu kordhin maayo, haddaad xabiibkaaga ka xishootidna ogoow cid kalood u xod sheegan kartaa ma jirtee.
15- Kolkaad dooneysid inaad Bisqinta xiiratid, u daa asagu ha kaa xiiree, siduu jecelyahayna ha u xiiree. Waad arki doontaa kolkuu xiiritaanka dhameeyo isagoo galmo doonaya, sababtoo ah intuu xiiritaanka ku jiray oo uu goobaha taranka taataabanayey ayuu gebigii taagmay, adna kolley kama digtoonaan yarid oo diyaar baad markaa tahaye.
Qore
Sabriye Macallin Muuse
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Waxan nin baa qoray oo dumarka inuu fadeexeeyo ugu talo galay.
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Kheyr, i've read your posts before, so I'm not even going to feed into this and get heated.
If yawl can't deal with a mature, independent, career minded, educated woman then u can't deal (Period)
Imagine everyone thinking like you. What a wrecked up world it would be.
This's where the boys fall short and the men stand tall.
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A freind of mine Emailed me this beautiful piece, enjoy it.
A BEAUTIFUL PRAYER
Dear Brothers and Sisters in Islam
I asked Allah to take away my habit.
Allah said, No.
It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.
I asked Allah to make my handicapped child whole.
Allah said, No.
His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary
I asked Allah to grant me patience.
Allah said, No.
Patience is a byproduct of tribulations;
it isn't granted, it is learned.
I asked Allah to give me happiness.
Allah said, No.
I give you blessings; Happiness is up to you.
I asked Allah to spare me pain.
Allah said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares
and brings you closer to me.
I asked Allah to make my spirit grow.
Allah said, No.
You must grow on your own! ,
but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked Allah for all things that I might enjoy in life.
Allah said, No.
I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.
May Allah Bless You, "To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world."
For all the negative things we have to say to ourselves Allah has a positive answer for it.
You say: "It's impossible"
Allah says: All things are possible
You say: "I'm too tired"
Allah says: I will give you rest
You say: "I can't go on"
Allah says: My grace is sufficient
You say: "I can't figure things out"
Allah says: I will direct your steps
You say: "I can't do it"
Allah says: You can do all things
You say: "I'm not able"
Allah says: I am able
You say: "It's not worth it"
Allah says: It will be worth it
You say: "I can't forgive myself"
Allah says: I FORGIVE YOU
You say: "I can't manage"
Allah says: I will supply all your needs
You say: "I'm afraid"
Allah says: I have not given you a spirit of fear
You say: "I'm always worried and frustrated"
Allah says: Cast all your cares on ME
You say: "I don't have enough faith"
Allah says: I've given everyone a measure of faith
You say: "I'm not smart enough"
Allah says: I give you wisdom
You say: "I feel all alone"
Allah says: I will never leave you or forsake you
You say: "Nobody really loves me"
Allah says: I love you
May Allah Be Pleased With all muslims Ameen.
I love each and every muslim for the Pleasure of Allah !"It is in rememberance of Allah that the heart finds peace"
Fee Aman Allah
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War adiga maxaa ku haysto? Hal wax kaliya ka hadal. Hana wareerinin.
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Jasmine: she's nowhere but here, very judgemental and married with children fan.
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Being slim is not only attractive, its also healthy and empowering.
Whenever I see a Somali couple it makes me wonder if she's his mother or aunt. She makes the man look so petite, at times can't even tell Inay kugu soo socoto & inay kaa sii socoto, wax weyn un baa sii guurguuranaya.
Don't mean to hate on my girls, and not necessarily saying they'r unattractive. Some of them have pretty features, and pretty natures; while the majority put on a "don't care" face to the rest of the world. I've seen countless of them walking around with their Guri ku Joog free size MARO. How is a husband supposed to feel when his wife looks like the maid?
Its a simple fact of life. I'm not attempting to be politically correct here.
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There must be atleast mental stimulation. Someone to bring me water for the flowers growing from my mind, so ultimately we can water and help each other grow into whatever and whoever we're suppose to be..
Unleashing the HABAAR(curse!)
in General
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Adiga Gaalada ka daa habarka. Maxaad qabtaa? malaha adigaa habaaran?
Kud ku dil.