Elegantly

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    U are right. Its just that he is my dad and i want to behave as a mature person and just talk with him. Cus i cant say anything because i dontknow what happens to him. I will decides if i will go along (as always), i dont like to hear from 1 side of my family cus u'll never know who speaks the true.

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    bilan;705412 wrote:
    KK it is not always black and white like that, it could be her mother decided to take her anger on his family, it could be the family tried to contact the kids and the mother just refused to allow this to take place. I know countless cases where kids are poisoned against their paternal relatives for things they had no control over. there are a lot of women who cannot differentiate between their husband and his family.

    honestly speaking if my husband leaves me today I have no expectation from his family to help me raise my kids, if they do, it is because they are doing me a favor and I’ll be grateful for their support, but I have no right over them, they did not ask me to marry their son, I chose him and if I made a mistake on my choice I’ll have no one to blame but me. Plus it is the best interest of the kids to have relations with both sides of their family, otherwise cuqdad bay la korayaan.

    No, my family tried to contact him couple years ago. they found his phonenumber and he said oke come to london but he never showed up. I'll never put a blame on my mom now, now she is saying he isnt worth to find him cus she never set me against my dad.

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    [QB]

    Originally posted by Ismalura:

    [QB] @ Elegantly sorry abaayo, this things happen. Most men (Somali or not) have gotten away with mistreatment of women for so long.
    You may not have see one but trust me there are many great Somali men even though the 'bad' ones out number them.

    You don;t have sorry to me. I feel sorry for them because i have seen all my life the negative side of the somali men. Now I cannot even or try to fall in love with a somali guy of a fear.