D.O.C Posted April 14, 2013 potential Halal home-wreckers= As long as i see the word HALAL, I am righteously guided! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted April 14, 2013 ^ As Malika said, it's just a phrase....I am sure Reeyo meant reer miyi as in ...gullible, naive damsel in distress sort. and that could also be a so called 'educated' girl. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reeyo Posted April 14, 2013 LOL. I see people are taking that phrase way too serious. Faheema, let them see it how they wish. Bloody reer miyis. . But your right some wives might be ok with their hubbies 'dating' potential second wives. Some is the keep work. Lakin going after a married man is just absurd and low in my opinion. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cambuulo iyo bun Posted April 14, 2013 The sister is following sunnah. Sax waaye. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted April 14, 2013 ^Sunnah? The Prophet (SAW) NEVER went behind his wives to shukaansi another woman, irrespective of halaal intentions - a married man dating is not on the sunnah. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cambuulo iyo bun Posted April 14, 2013 Muslim rag is allowed upto 4 wives. end of sheeko somaaha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted April 14, 2013 No, it's not the end of sheeko, there are conditions and parameters. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reeyo Posted April 14, 2013 Blessed enlightens us on these conditions. Assuming you agree with polygamy, why can't he shukansi his second wife or is that entitlement only for the first? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cambuulo iyo bun Posted April 14, 2013 *Blessed;938045 wrote: No, it's not the end of sheeko, there are conditions and parameters. Sax Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted April 14, 2013 Reeyo, My point to Canbuulo was that the Prophet (saw) was open and honest about his dealings - that is his sunnah. I'm not inclined or even in a position to make a fatwa here, but if we're going to inject the sunnah into this discussion --- we need to actually go back to the sunnah -- which also gives guidance on how to approach a potential spouse which wouldn't differ for first, second or third. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bluelicious Posted April 14, 2013 Perhaps desperate times call for desperate measures. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sighnomore Posted April 14, 2013 Men are like parking spots, the good ones go first so sometimes you have to double park. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Reeyo Posted April 14, 2013 Lol @ Sighnomore- That's disgusting. Blessed: You've yet to enlighten us on these condition. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Faheema. Posted April 15, 2013 lol Sighnomore, I always thought it went like this.... "Men are like parking spaces, the good ones are gone, the rest are handicapped" Reeyo, what your friend needs to do is stop 'dating' this married man, this is not 'halal' by any means. If she is serious about being a 2/3 or 4th wife she needs tell the guy to tell his wife(s) and like blessed said there are conditions, iska guurso maahee waa basar u guurso. There are plenty of fish in the sea, some in rivers, lakes and ponds even. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Juxa Posted April 15, 2013 SH!T HUSBANDS SHOULD BE SHARED (BY ALL MEANS) If he is qaain enough then my sister in Islam is welcome to him Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
